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Auvard Weighted Speculum

Vaginal Speculum for Medical Enthusiasts The Auvard weighted speculum operates by its own weight (2.5 lbs). The single bill is inserted vaginally on a reclined woman. The bill pulls downward, opening her quite wide. The speculum is grooved its entire length to allow for fluid drainage. The end is even flared for hose hook up if collection of the fluid is desired.

Obviously this is not the easiest speculum to take. Not recommended for the beginning speculum enthusiast. Specs: Bill: 1.5 inches by 3.5 inches Length: 9 inches overall. Price is for 1 speculum.

Kitten of Kitten's Paw Prints in Slavery

In this second installment of our weekly Twisted Fetish Interview, the lovely Kitten graces us with stories and information about her kinks. Kitten is also chooses to submit, although she identifies as a slave, which means that she offers even more power and control to her partner, Master Coyote. You can read all about Kitten and her BDSM experiences at her blog, Kitten’s Paw Prints in Slavery. Be sure to also read the previous entry, which is an interview with Nadia West who blogs about her experiences as a submissive woman at Diary of a Kinky Librarian.

Kitten enjoys a wide range of kinks, from bondage to blood play. As always, this is about peeping inside your kinky neighbor’s relationships, and not meant as a how-to. It’s also worth noting that this interview is meant for grown-up eyes, as the wording and content gets a touch explicit. Woo-hoo! We’re excited to post all about it, so dive in after the jump!

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A woman meets a man in a bar. After a few drinks, they connect, and end up leaving together. They get back to his place, and as he shows her around his apartment she notices that one wall of his bedroom is completely filled with soft, sweet, cuddly teddy bears.

There are three shelves in the bedroom, filled with teddy bears carefully placed in rows, covering the entire wall. She is immediately touched by the amount of thought he had put into organizing the display. There are small bears all along the bottom shelf, medium-sized bears covering the length of the middle shelf, and
enormous bears running all the way along the top shelf.

She finds it strange for an obviously masculine guy to have such a large collection of Teddy Bears. Quite impressed by his sensitive side, she turns to him and kisses him lightly on the lips. He responds warmly. They continue to kiss, the passion builds, and he lifts her in his arms and carries her into his bedroom where they rip off each other’s clothes and make hot, steamy love.

After an intense, explosive night of raw passion with this sensitive guy, they lie there together basking in the afterglow. She rolls over, gently strokes his chest and asks coyly, “Well, how was it?”

He gently smiles at her, looks deeply into her eyes and says, “That was pretty good. You can help yourself to any prize from the middle shelf.”

I’ve been fighting with myself and others wether or not I should post this. It’s not something I’m proud of. Not my shining moment in the sun to say the least. I’ve decided to post it because I’ve learned something from it:

I answered their ad that mentioned they were looking for a submissive male to perform service for them. It would start out with cleaning and chores with a chance that it would lead to more sexual play.

We exchanged emails a few times, I answered their list of questions and they decided to meet me. I was excited to say the least. Finding not one but two women for service AND play? It seemed too good to be true.

It was too good to be true.

They wanted to meet at a sushi place on the Upper East Side, I arrived ten minutes early. They arrived thirty minutes late.

As soon as we sat down they started asking about me and my search for a dominant. The tall blonde suggested I shouldn’t have moved to New York from the midwest since it wouldn’t be any easier for me to meet anyone here. She said it as though she was bringing something to light that I didn’t know.

We briefly talked about what growing up on a farm was like. After I mentioned the fact that my father had to sell some his land, the blonde said “NO! Never sell land! That’s just not smart. You never sell land!”. She was pretty much calling my father an idiot. As though he had a choice in the matter. As though he had options.

“Yeah, I’ll be sure to tell him that when I talk to him next”, I said politely as I could while being sarcastic.

They asked about my friends in the lifestyle. The tall blonde assumed I had been to a professional. I told her I had never been but I did have friends who are.

“What are their names? I have a beef with a few Pro Dommes”

“I’d rather not say. I don’t feel comfortable name-dropping. and I don’t think they’d appreciate me using their names as a reference without asking them first.” She looked angry and I added “If it’s a deal breaker, I understand”. The last thing I wanted was to get a call from a friend saying “Why is this nutjob calling me?”

I was then asked what my budget was for dinner.

“Um. Nothing? I’m sorry, I didn’t know you wanted me to pay for dinner. I won’t be eating anything since I’m tight on cash. I’m sorry for the misunderstanding.”

I was then told that it was a given that I would pay. “It’s just good manners”, the tall blonde said.

Later the brunette would tell me that she had never been on a date with a man who didn’t pay. She looked at me with disapproval.

“I’m sorry, I didn’t know this was a date. I thought this was more of an interview for possible service. If you want me to go to the ATM and get twenty bucks I will”.

“See? That’s just rude. Then you’re putting the responsibility on me to say yes or no. You should just offer to do it”.

At that point I was glad that I didn’t go and get some cash. I was torn. I was trying to give them the benefit of the doubt as I hoped they were giving me. Maybe they were having a bad day or maybe they really hated me for some reason.

We talked about my experience with service. I mentioned my positives and negatives (folding fitted sheets). I mentioned how I wasn’t looking for play in return for service, that I’m not the type to make mistakes on purpose in hopes of being punished. If they wanted to play that would be great but I wanted them to know I enjoy service for the sake of pleasing. They seemed semi-interested but it was hard to read them. I mention that I was looking for someone who liked the idea of a man in service to them and not someone who didn’t care who did it as long as it got done.

We parted ways and I emailed them to thank them for their time and wished them luck on their search if they weren’t interested in me.

One of them replied saying: “I found you to be rude and cheap and your presence ruined my meal. It was a testament to charity and patience that I did not leave sooner.”

Oh? And what is it a testament to that you would send such an response to someone who just thanked you for your time?

I’m wondering why I didn’t just leave earlier. Why didn’t I excuse myself the second I realized they were not what I was looking for? Why did I give them the benefit of the doubt? It seemed clear fifteen minutes into it that they weren’t interested. Why do I consistently find myself in these situations and never learn to avoid them? The warning signs are there. I just need to open my eyes. Or not block my eyes with my cock.

It’s been a while since this happened. I’m not angry at them anymore nor am I hurt by the experience. I’m willing to accept blame for this one. I should have made it clear that I was in no position to pay for their meal before meeting them. We’re still living in a universe where some women will feel I need to pay them for the right to clean for them.

There are some dominant women who use their dominance as an excuse to treat men like they’re a dime a dozen (probably because we’re a dime a dozen).

The most rewarding service I’ve ever performed was to someone who required me to bring a receipt for anything I bought while in service. It was clear that my service was the important thing, not my money. I was providing what they saw was the most valuable thing possible: my sweat, dedication and sincerity.

The most rewarding sexual relationships I’ve had have been from those who wanted to be with me for my body or for my mind (sometimes both). Once again it was my sweat, dedication and sincerity that they valued most.

Nadia West, BDSM Blogger and Kinky Librarian, Shares Her Fetish for Submission

This week we’re fortunate to have TWO fetish interviews for our reading enjoyment! Nadia West of Diary of a Kinky Librarian is our first post, while the second interview will be with be with Kitten of Kitten’s Paw Prints In Slavery, coming out tomorrow. Right now all eyes are on Nadia West, so let’s dive in! Nadia is a sexy submissive woman who enjoys submitting to her dominant male partner. Past interviewees have referred to their dominant partners as Master, and Nadia’s Master goes by MasterDoc. Nadia also uses the word “Dom” or “Dominant” for him in this interview, and has another partner who is her boyfriend.

While Nadia can have vanilla (not kinky) sex, she much prefers this consensual exchange of power. Now you know the drill, this is for you to read, not meant as a guide, got it? Nadia does a wonderful job of putting a very human spin on a kink that some find hard to imagine, and does so with sexy flair. She has also put a lot of time and detail into her answers, and I’m sure you’ll enjoy them! Read all the details after the jump.

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