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A new podcast is up and I’m excited to introduce you to someone I’m proud and lucky to know. V.

She talks about her first experiences with pain, playing with women vs men, switching and much more.

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A little something for everyone today!

A little nilla movie with some nice BDSM

What a flash back!

My latest toy forays took me deep inside of me, all the way to the G-spot. I could not pass up the opportunity to review this great combo offered by the amazing Babeland site. Up for grabs were the Orchid G-spot vibrator and the Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-Spot book by Violet Blue. By the way you can get the combo at a special price or each item separately as well.

Since I was traveling last week the Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-Spot book was a perfect companion on the plane…just kind of hid the cover pic a bit he he. It was an easy read that I finished with my flight out and back. I am a HUGE fan of Violet blue’s podcast Open Source Sex so I was very familiar with her work already. I knew this was not gonna be some prettied up ignorant info but a factual resource that is straight forward and witty. I was not disappointed on that level.

The book is presented as follow: an intro,  female anatomy, how to explore your G-spot, female ejaculation, tips and tricks, how to incorporate G-spot play with other sexual activities and there are even 4 short erotica stories here and there to inspire.

Now I am somewhat more educated then most on the G-spot manner so I can’t say it was full of discoveries but I definitely learned a few facts and can add some tricks to my arsenal. I have had G-spot orgasms by fluke in the past, even have squirted, but I have  never really ‘lied down’ and taken the time to explore my G-spots potential. Reading the book did motivate me to do so. I am very happy to ad this book to my growing naughty library.

The Orchid G-spot vibrator is really well designed for its purpose. The power of this is in the head, so its great for clit stimulation, or G-spot stimulation with insertion. the best G-spot toys are made og good quality hard plastic with a curved balled end…this is definitely the case here.

I have read a lot of women find the size of the head to be too big for insertion. Its about he size of a small egg. I did not have that problem (and no I am not loose). I find if I use it like I’m being fucked, I can cum in very short order. It is a noisy toy though so not for discreet play. But I live alone so do not care. So i am very happy with this vibrator…even if I have yet to reach the sweet spot orgasm with it yet.

Got to keep working at it with this Orchid G + Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-Spot Combo

Specs

Orchid G

• Size: 8″ (outer curve) x 1-3/8″ (widest point)
• Material: Plastic
• Batteries: Two AA

Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-Spot by Violet Blue

• Binding Style: Paperback
• Type: Sex Info/How-To
• Number of Pages: 160
• Copyright: 2007

Wooden Vibrator Bumble Bee

Bumble Bee in violet – Flying high with our bumble bee. Spruce wood has a great vibration.

The ball on the top is really great to stimulate the clitoris and g-spot. Easy to clean up with water and mild soap.

M-Size ca. 7.87″ x Ø ca. 1.18″. Handmade in Germany. Guarantee for wood and finish, 2 year guarantee for electronics.

FetInRealLife #9 – DIY Cuffs and Blindfolds
This covers a couple of the more basic necessities of bondage: Restraints and Blindfolds. Using the information in this video, you can throw together functional wrist and ankle restraints all for about $10.00. Additionally, I’ll show you a fast and easy blindfold that you can use with standard household items: a hand towel, and some rope or string.

As always, play safely. Always be careful not to injure someone, and always discuss limits ahead of time.

It’s in the early evening Saturday, the hockey game is on in the background and I have my heavy collar on which is connected by a chain to the table. There isn’t much slack available as the chain are simply metal ankle cuffs. PG e-mailed and checked in with a call to give me the tasks with all the details. I’m allowed to be on my laptop and I figured it would be a nice touch to write this as I’m locked in.

It’s proving to be a bit difficult as I don’t have much slack but having my movement and freedom limiting is powerful. I needed a sip of water but had to struggle to reach it. It was a challenge and next time I’ll remember to move the water closer.  I’m helpless and and can only move as much as the chain will until it’s time for me to be unlocked. All I can do is rest here, be on my laptop and think about him and the restrictions that I’m under.

I like being restricted like this. I’m forced to stay here for the full hour and if (which I haven’t) forgot and tried to get up, I would get a quick reminder of his control over me. I’m wondering what we are going to do tomorrow. I really want to try to play tomorrow in some form, if he allows it. I miss being treated like his slut, whore or whatever else he wants me to be. To be pushed, sweaty and fall over in exhaustion when the day is done. I know we will have to take it easy but hopefully if I’m good and present myself naked, collar on and in position when he enters, we will be able to explore what we can do during this recovery process. I believe I’m healed enough for some play.

Our D/s relationship comes very naturally but the most important and beautiful thing is that it’s not holding me back and actually makes me feel more free. If something is up, I can easily bring it up. It can be something as simple as I’ve had a tough day at work and I really would like to be bratty and feisty, he supports it and encourages me or it can be something more serious and he is there for me.

I would love to keep writing but my time is up and I have to get unlocked. It’s amazing how slow I write when I’m locked in and my movements are restricted.