lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

Posted by submissive guide on Sunday Nov 23, 2014 Under Uncategorized

Hi folks,

American Thanksgiving is right around the corner and I’d like to take this time to thank each and every one of you for supporting Submissive Guide with your readership, your sharing and your contributions to the community here. I couldn’t do it without you and I wouldn’t love it as much as I do if I didn’t have such a wonderful, positive group to call my Submissive Guide friends. Thank you so much for being there and I look forward to what else we can accomplish together!

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Professional Dominatrix: “It’s Not Sex”

Posted by thedailyflogger (BDSM SATIRE) on Sunday Nov 23, 2014 Under News


Mistress Katie Von Cruel is up in arms today at the accusation made on a popular fetish website that professional domination is a form of prostitution.

“It is not sex,” Von Cruel told The Daily Flogger, “There is nothing sexual about it.  What we do is totally different from prostitutes.”

While Von Cruel said she supports all forms of sex work, what she does is more akin to therapy or massage.

“When I am putting clothespins on a man’s cock and balls and then tying him up and spanking his ass, it isn’t sexual. For one thing, I am always clothed, even if he is naked.  You can’t have sex with clothes on!”

As to the idea that professional mistresses are engaging in sexual activity, even if it doesn’t include penetration, Von Cruel remained resolute in her denial.  “It would be sex if he was penetrating me, but when I fuck his ass with a 10″ strap on dildo, it isn’t anything sexual, it is just fantasy fulfillment.  Like going to a movie or broadway play.”

While Von Cruel does permit her clients to masturbate during sessions, she keep firm boundaries when it comes to providing erotic stimulation herself.  “I never touch them directly in the genital region.  I always wear gloves or use a vibrator, so there is no actual sexual contact.”

In spite of her clarifications, many still see professional domination as sex work.

Slave Billy, a long time client of several professional mistresses says he “uses it to get off.  It is definitely a sexual experience for me.  Maybe Mistress Katie will punish me for saying such things, but it is the truth.”

Photo credit: Chuck Olsen CC: NC SA

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Losing Track

Posted by mollyskiss on Saturday Nov 22, 2014 Under Uncategorized

Losing Track

Woman climbing tree without panties

Me: I am going out for a walk, I will be about an hour Him: OK, see you soon Three hours later…. Text Message: Where are you, this is way over an hour? Me: Sorry, I wandered off the track and lost my panties over a tree Related Posts: Tomboy Write On… Fertile Fields Adam’s…
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Posted by TheSinDoll on Saturday Nov 22, 2014 Under Uncategorized
  The Husband has a thing for pictures after sex. That’s fine with me. Occasionally I’m drawn to one, like this one. Maybe it’s the curves of my ass and my back  that pulls me to the photo. Possibly, it’s my feelings that I relate to it. I know that my cunt was sore, my nipples [...]
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Man Uncertain About Drink Order at Leather Bar

Posted by thedailyflogger (BDSM SATIRE) on Saturday Nov 22, 2014 Under Leather, News


For James Rawson, 47, stepping into a leather bar was the culmination of years of hard work, self-acceptance, and commitment to fully embrace the “gay leather lifestyle.”

“Getting to the bar was the easy part,” Rawson says. “The real dilemma came when the bartender asked me what I wanted to drink.”

Rawson, who describes himself as a switch with a heavy masochistic side, said he hadn’t considered either what he wanted or what kind of signal it might send. “Scotch seemed too aggressive and just having a beer would have been to casual. A fruity drink might make me look too effeminate and who knows what signals a martini would send. I thought about just ordering a club soda, but worried that people might think I had a problem with alcohol, which I don’t.”

In the end Rawson opted for a Tom Collins.

“Truthfully, I didn’t even know what a Tom Collins was, but it sounded good and the bartender just nodded and made the drink,” Rawson reports.

“I ended up just sipping it a bit. Turns out it is a sweet, sugary drink made with gin. I hate gin. They this super sexy guy comes up and buys me another one, so I kept drinking them. I didn’t know what else to do.”

Photo credit: A.Currell CC: NC

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Femdom Review: Lance Hart

Posted by Miss Pearl on Saturday Nov 22, 2014 Under Uncategorized

19Ridiculously conventionally attractive guy decides to take on the abysmal nature of current femdom porn and make his own videos? Yes please! His stage name is Lance Hart, and if you haven’t heard about him, you probably should.

As well as femdom, he also is trying to do something better about the quality of FM/m cuckold porn. A surprising odd facet of the industry- its actually apparently very hard to get a lot of actors who will do gay and straight male roles. his other specialties- M/m (for you women who love to see two dudes at the same time), ball busting and spandex. And you’d think the last part would be weird but he’d been pretty creative with a bunch of superhero spoof videos.

lancefacepicAs a producer and actor, Lance is working his butt off on his own personal corner of the fetish world. Although he’s simply phenomenal looking (I mean jesus, dat bone structure), he’s also putting his money where his mouth is and rather than complaining about porn with male subs depicted as unworthy and unwanted, everything I’ve seen him in completely acknowledges you could actually prefer male submission.

I had the good fortune to get some review copies of his videos, and then like a giant flake, dropped off the map.  So here’s my chance to try to make it up to everyone and give a sincere review of the stuff he’s producing for one of his projects: Sweet Femdom.

Here’s the scoop on his self produced malesub/femdom work:

What he gets right- Videos depict sub guys as inherently desirable and the focus of sexual attention. Amusing ideas that put female dominants in a role with more agency than just being irate. I find it easy to project myself into the actresses in (Want to read more...)

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Movie Review: Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles

Posted by thedailyflogger (BDSM SATIRE) on Friday Nov 21, 2014 Under News

Hi Emily here! I was super excited about seeing the new release of Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles because I grew up watching them and they hold a very special place in my heart, memories of youth, innocence and a time when things were less complicated and everything was right with the world.

When I saw that the reviews for this movie were dreadful, I knew I just had to see it! I sat in anticipation in the theater wondering which of my memories would be ruined and how I would never be able to regain that youthful feeling of wonder or security I once enjoyed.

I wasn’t disappointed. From the very opening to the end, I could feel everything good about my childhood slowly and painfully draining away.

Sure, I was saying “Oh God, please no!” but I could feel myself getting more and more turned on the worse the movie got.

Oh and two words: Megan Fox. She is so hot, but also such a mess. I know she is impossible to work with and an incredible bitch. I just kept imagining her as my boss or a co-worked viciously undermining me. That was just too sexy. She is the kind of girl I want to be with, so I can be blamed for her mistakes and always be the victim because she is prettier than I am.

If you’re reading Megan, I love you. If you need a personal assistant or something to throw things at, I am available and I work cheap!

Rating: 4.5 Stars

About Emily: Emily is The Daily Flogger’s emotionally masochistic film and media critic.  Her views are exclusively her own and should not be considered the product of a rational mind.  Her reviews usually have little to do with the movie in question (Want to read more...)

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Lovejizz: A Tale of Two Katies

Posted by K8 on Thursday Nov 20, 2014 Under K8
It’s no secret that I don’t know what I want.

Don’t get me wrong, a little conflict in life can make things interesting. And look, I’m a religiously-leaning feminist, a painfully shy almost-lawyer, and a lactose-intolerant devotee of pizza. Life is fucking complicated, and that’s cool. We’ve all got our crosses to bear.

But honestly, I’m finding this whole period of sexual exploration a wee bit trying.

A least once a week I break down in tears and tell Sheldon I don't know what I want, that I don't know if I want people to touch me all the time or never, that I have very confused mixed feelings about penises but also honestly vulvas and their surrounding areas, that maybe I just like the above the waist stuff or maybe I'm gayer than I thought or maybe I'm asexual or maybe I'm only sexually attracted to people when I'm also romantic with them but then what about all the people I fucked in high school and was I ever actually into that or just trying to get people to like me or make a human connection and what about the fact that I masturbate like it’s going out of style and how come when I look at pictures of sexytimes on Fetlife and Tumblr I get half aroused and half repulsed AT THE SAME TIME and seriously just WTF IS THIS A SECOND PUBERTY I DO NOT LIKE IT SAM I AM.

I’ve toyed a lot in the past few years with the labels of demisexual/grey asexual – I only want sex in the context of a close emotional relationship. True enough. I do appreciate people aesthetically fairly frequently - Those curves! That smile! I do notice attractive strangers, cute celebrities, so on and so forth. But my difficulty (Want to read more...)
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What Do You See When You Look At This?

Posted by cinful on Thursday Nov 20, 2014 Under BDSM
Standing 79 feet tall and anchored into place at the Place Vendome in Paris.  The artist has created a piece of work that has the whole word buzzing.  The question is, what do you see and think of when you look at this piece? While some people may see a simplified version of a tree […]
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20 of 2014

Posted by mollyskiss on Thursday Nov 20, 2014 Under Uncategorized

20 of 2014

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As I said last year it seems a tradition has been born as this will be my third year of publishing a list of my favourite blogs of the year. As part of my job as editor of Elust and Sinful Sunday, as well as just being an active member of the sex blogging community…
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