lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

Posted by submissive guide on Sunday May 3, 2015 Under Uncategorized
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Hi folks,

May is a busy month for KnyghtMare and I. I mentioned to him this week that every single weekend is full of travel or visits to places or kinky conventions. I’m ready, but always dreading the recovery time once we get a moment’s peace. How is May for everyone else?

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Happy Birthday To Mew!

Posted by TheSubMission on Sunday May 3, 2015 Under Uncategorized

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Happy Birthday to Mew!

Happy Birthday to Mew!

Happy Birthday dear Mewster!

Happy Birthday to MEW!

<3

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Discarded

Posted by mollyskiss on Saturday May 2, 2015 Under Uncategorized

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“How much has to be explored and discarded before reaching the naked flesh of feeling.” ~ Claude Debussy Related Posts: Might as well jump Blank Canvas Halo Look at the birdie Purple Lace
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Cyber Realities

Posted by submissive guide on Friday May 1, 2015 Under Uncategorized

This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission.

In many ways this seems like a contradiction in terms. However, it cannot be overlooked that the advent of the Internet has opened the access into the BDSM community in ways completely incomprehensible just a few years ago. Along with this new technology has come new issues, dangers and problems. In many ways the community itself was completely unprepared for this onslaught. People resist change and push away from things they don’t understand. There are generational traditions and elitist attitudes that separate the ‘seasoned or experienced members’ from these ‘upstart newbies with their upstart ways, ideas and formula’s’. Within this formerly unified community we have created a sub-community. One which many people speak of in disdain or contempt.

As with all things the cyber realm has two faces. One positive and one negative. We, as a community cannot ignore this new child among us. Nor can we impose upon it rules and standards that no longer work with the efficacy of the past. We have to accept that we too must change, adapt and overcome the problems. Seek new answers and find ways to welcome the newness instead of isolating them from the assistance and information they too need.

With many people access to the Internet is the only fantasy outlet they have. They can step inside its pixel dust and plastic walls and be anyone. They can shift gender, orientation, size, appearance all in the ‘wink of an eye’. That puff of magic slides through them to release all their dreams and passions of the past. Their fear and shyness fade away, they can be that Knight, swagger as a Queen or cower as a (Want to read more...)

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Cyber Realities

Posted by submissive guide on Friday May 1, 2015 Under Uncategorized

This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission.

In many ways this seems like a contradiction in terms. However, it cannot be overlooked that the advent of the Internet has opened the access into the BDSM community in ways completely incomprehensible just a few years ago. Along with this new technology has come new issues, dangers and problems. In many ways the community itself was completely unprepared for this onslaught. People resist change and push away from things they don’t understand. There are generational traditions and elitist attitudes that separate the ‘seasoned or experienced members’ from these ‘upstart newbies with their upstart ways, ideas and formula’s’. Within this formerly unified community we have created a sub-community. One which many people speak of in disdain or contempt.

As with all things the cyber realm has two faces. One positive and one negative. We, as a community cannot ignore this new child among us. Nor can we impose upon it rules and standards that no longer work with the efficacy of the past. We have to accept that we too must change, adapt and overcome the problems. Seek new answers and find ways to welcome the newness instead of isolating them from the assistance and information they too need.

With many people access to the Internet is the only fantasy outlet they have. They can step inside its pixel dust and plastic walls and be anyone. They can shift gender, orientation, size, appearance all in the ‘wink of an eye’. That puff of magic slides through them to release all their dreams and passions of the past. Their fear and shyness fade away, they can be that Knight, swagger as a Queen or cower as a (Want to read more...)

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Friday Femdom Fiction: Pleasing Her Cunt

Posted by Miss Pearl on Friday May 1, 2015 Under Uncategorized

Her cunt was a pink slash in a tuft of soft brown. He’d watched as she’d revealed it, first lifting her skirt to reveal mesh panties and rubbing herself through the fabric, then hooking her fingers to pull the black knit to the side, revealing swollen lips, plump and petaled. Her fingers made an inverted V, spreading them.

“You want it, don’t you?”

Before this, she’d made him strip stark naked and sit on the couch, hands submissively placed on his lap with his palms up. It had been a full week since he’d come, but every evening she’d made sure to tease him until he thought he would crack. Every day, grinding, rubbing and edging without release. Even as she’d first ordered him into the collar for tonight’s game of pleasure he knew he was getting erect.

“Yes.” He didn’t deny his desire.

He’d never made her come. She’d come with him, of course, frigging her clit with rapid finger strokes while he petted and stroked her breasts and belly and neck, or plunged his cock into her. But he always knew that it was something she decided, and a journey she made for herself.

He worked two fingers into her

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Z-end

Posted by mollyskiss on Thursday Apr 30, 2015 Under Uncategorized

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Finally we are at the end. 26 blog posts later and I can officially declare the A – Z Blogging Challenge well and truly done. I debated long and hard about doing it in the first place as I only discovered it about 3 weeks before it started, so had no content ready to go…
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Book Review: 50 Shades of Curious by Bo Blaze

Posted by submissive guide on Thursday Apr 30, 2015 Under Reviews
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Fifty Shades of Curious is by Bo Blaze, a PCC-certified alternative life coach who specializes in alternative sexual relationships and non-traditional lifestyles. He is also well-known nationally as an expert in the BDSM lifestyle who has spoken at numerous events all over the country. With the popularity of the series “Fifty Shades of Grey”, Blaze put together “50 Shades of Curious” to teach those new into the lifestyle how to practice BDSM in a safe, sane, and consensual manner.

Blaze opens up the book by talking about what BDSM is and isn’t, a short glossary of terms that those new to the lifestyle may not be familiar with, how to get involved with local groups, and answering that age-old question on whether you’re a bad person or not for having these kinds of thoughts.

From there, he hits on a lot of major points when it comes to the BDSM lifestyle: communication, consent, identity, pain and punishment, mental aspect, and safety. At the end of the book he also includes a reading list that contains both fiction and nonfiction books.

While for the most part, I full heartedly agree with everything that Blaze has written about and several points that he’s made as well. A few times throughout the book, he has used an example from the Fifty Shades of Grey, which while others may not like this, I do because it shows the right and wrong way of things that were done in the scene. There are also several points in this book that he did cover that didn’t exactly set too well for me.

For starters, when he talks about negotiation, he talks about the importance of doing your homework after a scene, checking in with your partner to see how the scene went, which is fantastic, (Want to read more...)

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Pile of Pins

Posted by TheSubMission on Thursday Apr 30, 2015 Under Uncategorized

Sometimes when we play, Master has a plan set in mind.  Other times, he just looks around at the equipment nearby, or just comes up with ideas as he goes.  I think this particular session was one of those where he looks around at nearby equipment and gets “eViL” plans.  He he.

Most of the bondage gear and toys are actually in the room I do my cam stuff in.  We have a couple of things in the bedroom though, and one of them is a giant bucket of clothes pins.  I don’t really pay attention to exact amounts of clothes pins he’s putting on me, unless he tells me to count out loud or something like that, and in this case he didn’t.

 

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He did put quite a few on though, and I really liked it.  It took him a while and the longer it went on, the more I could tell that he was just trying to see how many he could fit.  Right on my nipples were two clover clamps, which added a nice zing.  Some of the clamps we own have a nice bite (for example, the jewel toned round ones like the yellow, green and magenta), and the wooden ones have more of a medium bite.  Those medium blue ones you see that look almost like plyers have the least amount of bite of all our clamps, but they need a lot less space next to them, so you can fit more on.  Plus, we just don’t have a whole lot of those jewel toned ones.  We bought a set of them one week, and then we liked them so much that we bought the last set the following week.

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I could tell Master was proud of this session in particular because (Want to read more...)

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Yours and mine

Posted by mollyskiss on Wednesday Apr 29, 2015 Under D/s

Yours and mine

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I love being a possession. All my other kinks and turn-ons really stem from this one fundamental part of our relationship. In fact I would go so far as to say that the ownership part of our dynamic is my (our) ultimate kink, without that, nothing else would work for me. It is absolutely pivotal…
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