Kinky Sex Link

I don’t know what’s in the air this week or in the water but as dead as it has been lately in the ‘finding’ a sub front this week I was flooded by requests. This used to be an exciting prospect but know I now not to count chicks until the eggs are well hatched. A couple of these prospects have indeed stirred a curiosity in me.

Now 2 questions I always ask are:

• have you served a Mistress in the past
• why did it end

Invariably 60% of the time they say the Domme got to emotional involved once it reached a sexual level. Well what the hell do subs think! Mistresses are immune to emotions? Of course we get emotionally attached. The relationship btw a sub and Dom/me is already a fast paced intense union based on trust. Many subs will share fears, joys, emotions they may not in a vanilla situation. Couple that with sexual relations and it feels like a relationship. Then with time the Domme gets dumped because she now likes the sub. I swear this pisses me off each time. To me this represents a character ego trait that should not be present in a true sub. And this is exactly why I do not jump into bed with subs any time soon.

Think before you act. The sub is  just as responsible as the Dom/me for the consequences of taking things on a sexual level. Emotions will arise and chances are someone will get hurt. You cannot leave a Dom/me guilt free by claiming it was not in the discussed interests. That is just a sign of week character.

My beef of the week, my 2 cents

Mystress Lady Evyl