Kinky Sex Link

In the coming months Kink In Motion will be all over the place! Look for me at these and other events:

TEASE July 9-13, 2009:

What I’ll be doing:

Needle Play Exploratorium where you can swing by and try out needleplay to see if you’d like to add that to your fetish cloud!

Drumming – Rhythmic Percussion – where you can volunteer to be delightfully drummed with rattan canes by myself and my partner David.

Switching Roundtable Workshop – where I’ll facilitate a discussion exploring the delights and challenges of being a switch in today’s scene.

Needle Play Workshop – where I’ll show you how to take your needle play scenes a step beyond the average poke!

Triple S Symposium September 24-27, 2009:

What I’ll be Doing:

• Communications #1- The Devil is in the Details- So you’ve learned ways to communicate your wants, needs and desires. Great! But now what? Learn how to master the art of ‘its not what you say but how you say it’, navigate the treacherous waters of the challenges inherent in an ongoing BDSM dynamic and how to use communication as a tool to ensure needs are met without falling prey to ‘topping from the bottom’. In this part presentation, part roundtable discussion style seminar we will explore all these elements and more to add to your toolbox of ways to improve your relationship.

• Post Play Priorities: Sub Space, Sub Drop and Top Space Explored - The scene doesnt end just because the last stroke has fallen. The intense change in headspaces that often accompany a scene can go far beyond the moments of the play itself and can have effects for extended periods. Understanding these headspaces, identifying needs that may arise post play and exploring post scene processing can lead to a deepening of intimacy and more rewarding scenes. This workshop will explore some of these headspaces from sub space to sub drop and even what your top may experience post scene as well.

• Negotiations – or ‘How I Learned To Stop Worrying and Love the Negotiating Process’ - In this workshop we will examine ways to ask the right questions to better ensure you actually get that hot scene you have been fantasizing about all this time. We’ll even look at ways to determine if the top you’re in negotiations with is all that and a bag of chips, or a few fries short of a happy meal. Join us to learn ways to get the scene you want with the right one for you.

• Social Self Defense - In our lifestyle power is something we become intimately familiar with.  Power dynamics in non-BDSM relationships is often something that is either over looked or never communicated.   In our lifestyle it is of primary importance. When power is abused, it is a violation.  This violation is the reason for this workshop. The information provided here will help you learn how to deflect and deescalate unwanted advances in and out of ‘the scene’.

• Body Image and BDSM – Self analysis is often a path to greater fulfillment. But what happens with self analysis goes awry and leads us into the areas of low self esteem, insecurity and self loathing based on nothing more than our physical appearance? Nothing can wreck a scene or a dynamic faster and more completely than our own self criticism as to how we look. After all, its hard to fully engage in a scene and give our full attention to your top when you are anguishing over your Botecelli belly. Join us in this moderated roundtable discussion where we will explore these issues plus give voice to personal testimonies as to how we view ourselves vs how others see us, the effect low self worth can have and strategies for silencing those destructive thoughts.

Phoenix Niagara presents For PLAY: A Fetish Artisan’s Fair

Date: Saturday, October 31st, 2009  11am – 5pm

For PLAY is about bringing excellent products from skilled artists and craftspeople to the discerning consumer who’s looking for new kinky goods. We’re looking for those who would like to exhibit or vend their erotic fine art & photography, BDSM toys, fetish gear and attire.

What I’ll be doing: Pictures! Fetish and Portrait Photography. Some examples can be seen at www.kinkinmotion.bravehost.com

All that and more!

You can find me every week here at Whip Practice and maybe even a TV set near you soon! Stay tuned for details!

~kim