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From PamperedPenny.com.

I love using diapers for chastity. I suppose that, yes, one can be made to cum in a diaper, but the idea is just really hot. I think it builds on a few different points.

The Practicality

First of all, it locks the genitals away, which is really the point with most chastity devices, but it does so in a really obvious way. Some chastity devices out there, especially those for men, are meant to be discreet, and so are diapers, but if someone sees a little bulge in a guy’s pants, they’re just going to assume he’s hung like a moose, which gets him noticed for the wrong reasons. However, if he’s wearing a diaper and has a very paddy bottom or a little diaper waddle and people notice, he’s going to be ashamed at the attention. I’ve seen guys swagger in their CB3000s and I don’t think it’s because they were proud of being owned, as they have claimed. No one knew they were wearing a device outside of the men’s room and even there they could easily be discreet.

Which is another point. It may make someone feel slave-ish to wear a chastity device, but with a diaper, there’s automatic humility. There’s also little question of the person just taking it off, even though it’s much easier. I think it’s a mental thing. You just don’t change your own diaper–at least not without permission anyway–but there are no cultural rules or assumptions for chastity devices. And a lot of times with guys in chastity, it seems like they’re always trying to think of a way to get it off without my noticing. It can be a fun game, but most of the time, if I’ve claimed his right to orgasm, I don’t want to have to check up on him constantly. Plus, there’s the bathroom issue. A guy wearing a diaper in a public restroom really can’t hide it. If he’s been allowed to go in to use the toilet or something (I don’t change messy diapers), everyone’s going to hear that plasticy sound as he untapes himself, reminding him that he’s not like these other guys who can wear what they want and jerk off when they please. That diaper humility is priceless when it comes to chastity training.

Besides the humility, a diapered chastity boy tends to be really sweet and submissive, even cute. He’s very devoted and absolutely adores his key holder Mommy. And, like most women, I really enjoy a completely devoted little sub boy. And who is a guy more devoted to than his domme Mommy? Diapering is a really intimate process that just reinforces the intimacy of giving up control of your own orgasms (or having it taken away).

And the diaper doesn’t hinder an erection either. For me a lot of chastity is about tease and denial, rather than alleviating the libido. What’s the point of denying someone orgasm if they don’t want to cum anyway, right? Plus, I like to see the bulge of a diapered erection.

Enforcing Chastity

I’ve seen a number of message boards where guys talk about wearing their chastity devices under their diapers, but I prefer to use either locking plastic pants over the diapers or locking diaper pins. I just don’t relish the idea of having to clean the chastity device every time the wearer wets his diaper and plus it gets all gooey and then the goo rubs all over everything. Just not something I’m especially into.

A karada (japanese rope body harness tie) works well, too, but what I’ve always thought would work best, though I can’t verify it because I don’t own one yet, would be a women’s chastity belt. I do have the AB harness with diaper attachment, which locks, but isn’t meant to be worn under the clothes, like a chastity belt could be. (ReinCheck.com makes AB harnesses, too, but they don’t have a bit to go between the legs.) And, if you do want to play games, checking the tapes for evidence of tampering is another good way to monitor a diapered chastity boy’s commitment to his training.

Overall, I think that the diaper is a really under-represented means to chastity. It does pop up sometimes, but I think diaper chastity should be bigger than it is, especially among humiliation afficionadoes.