Kinky Sex Link

Wednesday night, PG and I stopped by the pet store to look around. One thing that was on your list was a choke collar that our friend showed us. When I first saw it, I knew I wanted to try it and tried to keep my containment in the store, pretending it was for a big dog was difficult.

As soon as we got in the car, I couldn’t help but touch it and caress it. It was very shiny and attractive. Trying it on had to wait as we went to one of our favourite Thai restaurants and had a lovely meal. After we got home, we couldn’t resist trying it out. We removed one of the links and he put it on me, it’s difficult to put on but it worked. We tried some bratty play where I would misbehave (try to bit him, pinch him …) and all he would have to do is pull and it was an instant correction.

The feeling was an increase pressure turning into pain. I could resist it for only so long before I would have to give in. We kept playing with it, testing it out and found that we both loved playing with it. I love the feeling of things around my neck. The choke collar makes a big impact.

It will be fun using our new choke collar in D/s training. Lots of possibilities are opening up for it.

Originally posted on Alpine Subdreams

Sunday morning came along and after getting a lot done in the morning, it was almost time for date day. I got a call from him to make sure I’m completely ready to go when he came in. I greeted him on my knees, with my collar on, naked and kiss his boots or ankles (depending on what he is wearing). I proceeded with our ritual and once I was done, he bent down and kissed me before telling me to stay still and not to look. I heard him rumbling around our toy closer and all of a sudden a big, cloth bag is put over my head. He put a belt around the bag and my waist to secure it and took me into the bedroom to use me. It was hot having the bag over my head, my breathing and sight limited. We had sex like that for awhile before he removed it and decided it was time to torture my breast until we both orgasmed.

After we took some time to relax and recover, we went out in the living room to play with some rope. I found a great video on Hogtied by Lew Rubens for a basic suspension. After showing it to PG, we decided to try it out. After putting on a revised chest harness, he tied rope along my thighs and lifted one leg up and then the other one. We had to revise it a couple of times but then we found exactly where the rope felt good and making it a bit looser. Once the revisions were made, we tried again. First one leg went up and then the other. It felt great but we both knew it wouldn’t be sustainable for a long period of time. Just as the video showed, he tied a waist rope around me and everything felt great. I was able to twirl, swing and just float. It was so much fun being swung around and swinging to kiss him. I’m not sure how long I was up for but eventually he had to take me down. After being up in the air, it felt really weird being back on the floor. He started to undo all the ropes and after taking some photos , we cuddled up with rope surrounding us. It was the first time that PG suspended me fully and it was great. Looking forward to more and just wished we had more time today.

The Olympics are over in Vancouver, unfortunately. Living in Vancouver, BC made it such more special. Decking out in red and white everyday, cheering on the Canadian athletes with fellow Canadians, the street parties, free events,  random hugs, slaps and seeing Canada win gold after gold was incredible. I’m sure there will be a massive hangover after this. Canadians all over came together and we were loud, proud and had one hell of a party.

I loved the Olympics and with hockey being my favourite sport (golds for both the men and women!!!!) I was into it before the games started. However, PG isn’t such a sports fan. He accepted my invitation to Canada game and let me watched the Russian vs Canada game but that is about as far as it expended. I really appreciated him being open to it, happy for me, going to a game and putting up with me and my craziness during the last two weeks.

I made a couple of proposals such as playing the Canadian anthem before we played which was rejected but I thought of a fun game that we both can play and enjoy. I would start singing Oh Canada and he would try to stop me by inflicting pain. I won the first round but I’m sure the next time he will be more prepared.

I have an idea for the next MVK and as much as I would love to share it, it will have to stay a secret because I have to run it by PG first. I was wondering, did anyone combine kink and the Olympics? I would love to hear some fun things that you did with an Olympic theme or basis.

It’s in the early evening Saturday, the hockey game is on in the background and I have my heavy collar on which is connected by a chain to the table. There isn’t much slack available as the chain are simply metal ankle cuffs. PG e-mailed and checked in with a call to give me the tasks with all the details. I’m allowed to be on my laptop and I figured it would be a nice touch to write this as I’m locked in.

It’s proving to be a bit difficult as I don’t have much slack but having my movement and freedom limiting is powerful. I needed a sip of water but had to struggle to reach it. It was a challenge and next time I’ll remember to move the water closer.  I’m helpless and and can only move as much as the chain will until it’s time for me to be unlocked. All I can do is rest here, be on my laptop and think about him and the restrictions that I’m under.

I like being restricted like this. I’m forced to stay here for the full hour and if (which I haven’t) forgot and tried to get up, I would get a quick reminder of his control over me. I’m wondering what we are going to do tomorrow. I really want to try to play tomorrow in some form, if he allows it. I miss being treated like his slut, whore or whatever else he wants me to be. To be pushed, sweaty and fall over in exhaustion when the day is done. I know we will have to take it easy but hopefully if I’m good and present myself naked, collar on and in position when he enters, we will be able to explore what we can do during this recovery process. I believe I’m healed enough for some play.

Our D/s relationship comes very naturally but the most important and beautiful thing is that it’s not holding me back and actually makes me feel more free. If something is up, I can easily bring it up. It can be something as simple as I’ve had a tough day at work and I really would like to be bratty and feisty, he supports it and encourages me or it can be something more serious and he is there for me.

I would love to keep writing but my time is up and I have to get unlocked. It’s amazing how slow I write when I’m locked in and my movements are restricted.

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Two Wednesdays ago was very special night. For the longest time, I’ve wanted a VCH (vertical clitoral hood) piercing but for one reason or another I never got it done.

PG knew that I’ve wanted to get it done and we were discussing that one night. It started out simple, I brought it up that I would like to do it with him there with me. Over the course of our conversations and the closer we become, the thought was mentioned to make it a special ceremony between us. As soon as I heard it, I knew it was right.

We knew we wanted it to be special and as sexy as piercing stores are, it wouldn’t of been the right atmosphere for us. We wanted it to be some place special to us. We also wanted the person who was doing the person to understand the D/s element of it and at the very least be comfortable and understanding with it. We found that with the best piercer in Vancouver who understood all of that.

The more we talked about it and waited, the more it meant. It’s a commitment to each other and to our relationship. Even though, we are both poly, we have a special relationship and bond.

After some organizing and patiently waiting, Wednesday night was here. We went out for sushi and headed back to my place for some intimate bonding before getting ready.  After setting up the sling, showering and bonding the cell phone rang and we were only minutes away.

That’s when I got nervous, this meant so much to us and was a significant act. When I get nervous (and happy) I giggle a lot. PG was great and supportive. He relaxed me, tied a breast harness on me and gave me a lot of kisses and hugs. The time came and I was in the sling, legs spread and PG standing beside me while holding my hand.

After I was cleaned, PG took the time to say some very sweet words which will remain private. It was really sweet and touching. My heart melted and feelings of love came rushing into me. It also left me speechless.

I was told to remember what this means and take deep breaths. There was a wow oh fuck when the needle went in. A couple of seconds later, the jewelry went in. I laid in the sling embracing the feelings with PG right there. The sensations rushing in me. After gaining a bit of composure, we talked about different things about the piercing such as how to clean it (urine is the fine) and about how long we would have to wait for certain activities.

The adrenaline rush hit me and I was bouncing all over the place. After saying goodbye to the amazing piercer, we spent the rest of the night together and celebrating our new commitment.

It was a magic and special night between us. The emotions, love and adrenaline was running high. This is surely a night that we will both remember and a special piece of metal in me that displays it.

Originally posted on Alpine Subdreams

After the little bit of water bondage that we did on Friday, PG decided that Sunday would be a great day to continue where we left off. I filled up the tub with warm water before climbing in making sure the water was perfect. PG sat outside of it and ordered me to move in the positions that he desired to get the rope where he wanted them. Rope was around my breast and my hands were tied to my side.

I was told to kneel in the full tub as he grabbed my hair and dunked me under water. The water surrounded me and without him holding me down, I would float back up. He would bring me back up, let me semi compose myself, tell me to take a deep breath and dunk me again. After holding me under water for a bit, he told me to sit up and we took a bit of a break for some sexual fun until he ordered me back on my knees and dunked me again. This time he added a bit more to it. As he dunked me he reached around and started finger fucking me, adding to the hotness that water bondage already is. I was soaking wet and with the feeling of water being moved all around me and his hand keeping my pussy busy, I was on cloud nine. We continued this for a while until he told me to lie on my back and we tried dunking from that angle but unfortunately it didn’t work and a nose plug will be needed for the future.

We played in the tub for just under a hour before it was time to dry off and curl up into bed. It was perfect and I was floaty, happy and horny.

A bit more information, I realized I don’t keep count when I’m submerge as the trust is there (I wouldn’t be doing it if it wasn’t). If I do have any trouble with being under water before he pulls me up, we have safety signals but every time I let a bit of bubbles out, he pulls me up. We don’t mess around with it as we would rather play it safe then push for another 5 seconds. If you decided to try water bondage, make sure you trust the person with your life as it is in their hands, do the proper research, have first aid training and make sure you have the strength and skill to do it. Here is a link to PG posting about his view of water bondage

PG and I  played for the first time over 3 years ago. Our relationship has grown and expanded beyond what either of us thought it would be. For our anniversary, PG took me out for a romantic greek dinner. After that we got ready for our scene that we have wanted to do for awhile.

Our idea was to do a street walker scene. I was dressed in boots with a jacket over a dress. We wanted to still be in role but not bring any attention to ourselves. On the way home, we pulled into a side street where he dropped me off. I was probably outside for about 30 seconds before a drugged out female came up to me and got in my face. I couldn’t make out what she was saying but I was getting scared. I didn’t realize PG didn’t drive around the block but just turned around so I couldn’t see him but he could see me.

He quickly drove up and was ready to rescue me but I  jumped into the car. We tried to continue the role play and did an okay job at it until we both decided to stop and simply enjoy each other without the roles. It just goes to show you even when everything between two people is planned, communicate and negotiated out side forces can throw it off track.

It worked out perfectly and we had a wonderful anniversary night including an adventure. It’s been three years of growth, support, love, happiness and many kinky memories. Happy Anniversary Love.

Originally posted on Alpine Subdreams

A couple of months ago, I decided to take a chance and experiment with dying my own clothes pins. I bought a bunch of them so I could give some to PG, a friend who’s birthday was coming up and some for myself. It’s really simple to do and I thought I would share.

The dye

The first step is to go to a grocery store or dollar store and pick up some clothing dye and a bunch of clothes pins. I got two packs of dye for and 200 clothes pins for $4.00. You can choose a range of colours or even mix your own. For my first time I decided to go with blue and red. Follow the directions of the dye package. I used an old pot and started boiling the water and once it was going I inserted the clothespins. I was constantly checking on them and turning them to ensure all the clothes pins received enough dye. I was overly cautious and left them in for 30 minutes per batch.

In the pot

After they were done, I scoped them out and tried to keep as much dye in as possible in by using a strainer scooper (don’t know the technical name). I put it in the another pot and rinsed and drained them until they ran clear. After that I put down multiple layers of newspaper on my balcony and let them dry out for a couple of days.

Drying

They turned out perfectly and I couldn’t of been happier. It was a great addition to the other gifts I gave and I’m looking. It’s an easy project that you can do yourself and a nice addition to the usual plain wood clothespins.

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It came naturally but a bit surprising. I wasn’t expecting to have this type of relationship with PG but it keeps growing. We’ve recently decided to expand more into D/s. We have explored parts of it naturally but after talking we decided to expand and dive into the more mental and control aspect of it.

After an afternoon play date, PG was getting ready to leave and I was getting changed to do some non-important errands. We were talking and it came up that these items could wait for later to do. He told me to get undress, put my collar on me and told me to go to the bedroom. He told me to lie down face up and wait. After a couple of minutes, he took something similar to masking tape but thicker and taped all my limps to the under the bed restraints. He explained to me that I am to stay here for an hour and set my alarm. After the hour is up, I can easily pull on the tape to get out or in case of an emergency.

The first 15 minutes or so was difficult, I’m a bit restless at times and patience isn’t one of my strongest virtue. I tested the bounds and see how far I could move without breaking them. However, as the time past I relaxed and simply enjoyed the feeling of being spread open, helpless and pleasing him. He wanted me to be spread out and think about us and I did. When the alarm went off an hour later, it startled me as I was getting into a nice, spacey feeling. I could of stayed there if it wasn’t for what I had to do to get ready for the week.

It’s going to be an interesting journey as we expand our D/s relationship. There will be a lot to learn but I’m looking forward to seeing where it takes us.

Cross-posted from Alpine Subdreams