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Book: Exhibitionism for the shy
Manufacturer: SCB Distributors
Product #: CNVELD-8164

Exhibitionism for the Shy by noted sexpert Carol Queen discusses exhibitionism as a consensual erotic pleasure and a means to overcome shyness and body image issues. Featuring suggested exercises and discussions of erotic dress, talk, personas and roleplay, involving your partner, exhibitionism and the sex industry, and more.

Interviews include Annie Sprinkle, Nina Hartley, Candye Kane, Juliet Anderson, Vanessa del Rio, Lily Burana, Shar Rednour, and others.

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Pleasure Me 88 times

Posted by Mystress Lady Evyl on Wednesday Jul 28, 2010 Under Books, Reviews, Sex Toys

Washed Up by bubs84

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Book Review: Fisting

Posted by Mystress Lady Evyl on Wednesday Jul 21, 2010 Under Anal Sex, Books, Fisting, Mystress Lady Evyl, Reviews, Safer Sex, Sex, Sex Education

I was very excited about this read. I have yet to really have a personal experience with giving or receiving as fisting but I was more then happy to have a chance to educate myself. This is one of those subjects that is not exactly popular in printed literature. From my research I only found 2 other books exclusively on this topic. So I welcomed this opportunity.

The book Fisting: Care, Responsibility and Trust was written by Kim Powers and was published in Germany in 2005. It is a pretty quick read, a couple of solid hours,  with 128 pages. It’s not a huge book to carry either as it measures 8.4 x 5.8 x 0.4 inches.  There are lots of pictures, diagrams, and drawings. All of these are in black and white.  It is not a discreet book to read in public at all. Just look at the cover in the pic lol. I created a cover to bring with me on the metro but even that proved difficult as some pics/illustrations are large and, ahem,  graphic. So I hope you have the luxury of alone reading time.

The book promises to teach the reader about technique, stretching exercises, safety, positioning – for both vaginal and anal fisting – and more. Yes it does cover all that…but not to the extent I had expected. I know my perception is askew because I have so much exposure and knowledge compared to ‘normal’ people when it comes to sexuality, but I found the subject was just lightly dealt with. Of course if you are a couple who is limited in sexual exploration and are curious then the language and the information are perfect for that audience. The chapters on position where clear and well illustrated. But I really did not find the technique chapters thorough enough. I thought I would really learn techniques but instead it was 93% stuff I  already knew…as in start with one finger, then two, then three, etc. I found it a bit dumbed down and not complete enough. Also I would add a chapter about anal sex toys. They are mentioned, suggested, have a couple of pictures…but zero explanation really on how to use them and which anal toy is good for what.

Now for the very bad…
I had some massive issues with certain things written or overall implications in the book. The book is primarily aimed for the good heterosexual couple. That is fine. But the rest is piled up as gay and S/M in a read between the line just a bit derogatory way. Only during anal or gay fisting does the book mention disease, AIDS and safe sex protection…really pissed at that.  Yes you could contract and STD with vaginal fisting too. Also only in these sections is it recommended to remove rings and cut your nails. Uh hello I do not care to have my uterus scratched any more then my rectum. Finally when they say S/M they obviously have no freaking idea what they are talking about. S/M is inflicting pain…fisting would not fall into that category at all. You can fit it into BDSM, personally I would push it more towards DS…but in no way is it S/M. Shows how ignorant the author is about that lifestyle.

But some very good…
I did like the strong and constant emphasis on safety and only 2 open comfortable and consensual people should explore fisting throughout the book. Analingus is discussed at the end, not much but more then anywhere I have ever seen so brownie point for that. Another surprise was all the PC exercises described to strengthen the pelvic floor. I have read about this subject many time but never have I see so many various exercise like in this book. There are some unexpected chapters at the end of the book. Some are a bit far fetched and they are brief overviews of other sexual activities but I enjoyed the additional read. These included G-spot, Speculums, Double Fisting, Self-Fisting, FtoF Fisting and Enemas.

If you are in the kink world and consider yourself sexually savvy…skip this book and ask someone in the know. If the only thing that comes to mind is a religious person when you hear the word missionary but are curious, then this book is for you.

You can get this book at Adult Pleasurezone. And check out Adult Pleasurezone’s The 69 Days of Summer – Win a FREE vibrator event!

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Tickle: Sex Toy Store with Fetish Books

Posted by Sexperts on Monday Jul 19, 2010 Under BDSM, Books, Sexperts

 

I’ve just discovered another online sex toy shop that I really like, My Tickle Spot. I like Tickle because their site is elegant and easily laid out. You can search for toys by most popular and by category, but also by circumference, hypoallergenic materials, shape, battery type, and special features.

They also have the  We-Vibe II, a luxury vibe that I have been lusting after for… oh, about a year now.

They also have some  great BDSM books, including S&M 101 and How to Be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to S&M, but I didn’t see any great bondage kits or BDSM toys on their site. :( However, I did notice that their collection of BDSM and fetish books is <em>tres</em> cheap, ranging from $8 to $21. For instance, S&M 101 is only $19.50, and How to Be Kinky is on sale for a phenomenal $13.26. These are the cheapest I have found these books at <strong>any</strong> sex toy store, so if you want to add to your fetish book collection (I do!), here’s the place to do it.

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While I love writing about sex toys, my true love is erotic fiction. I will appear several times on Beth Wylde’s Yahoo Group this month talking about GLBT issues and promoting my books, in particular “Feral Heat” (m/m/f, m/m), “Lost In Her Mouth” (f/f), “Neighbors” (f/f), and my upcoming June 11, 2010 release “The Fountain Of Youth” (m/m).

Here’s the link to Beth’s Yahoo group:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bethwylde

My release party for “The Fountain Of Youth” will be on Beth’s group on June 24, 2010 from noon until I drop. I will host a contest and a lucky winner will get a FREE copy of “The Fountain Of Youth”!

Look for more contests during the month.

Here are dates. Mark your calendars!

June 07 – GLBTQ open discussion
June 11 – Release Date – “The Fountain Of Youth”.
June 14 – Gay male fiction day – win a free copy of “Feral Heat”!
June 15 – Bi writer’s day
June 21 – F/F day – contests! Win free copy of “Neighbors” and “Lost In Her Mouth”.
June 24 – My chat day with contest! Win a copy of “The Fountain Of Youth”
June 28 – GLBTQ BDSM day

I’m looking forward to talking to all of those who love GLBTQ fiction.

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Out Of The Fire

Posted by ldyraven on Thursday Apr 1, 2010 Under Books

I don’t review books, but I was asked to read and give my opinion of a book titledOut of the fire by Ariel Tachna.

As someone who has been living what some call an “alternative” life since the year I turned 18 years old and reading all kinds of books even before that. I had sworn off much of fiction in the 90’s. So when a friend asked me to read the book Out of the fire and give them my opinion I was a bit leery. But we do things for friends. I usually don’t read fiction about BD/SM or D/s because its fiction and I know going into it it’s about escaping into a world you may not have the courage to live. But half way through I’m usually looking to escape the pages of these books. I wanted to throw this one onto the New York City train tracks. But remembering it wasn’t mine I held back. So I went into reading this know a few things:

1. It was fiction and that was going to be my mantra

2. I was helping a friend

3. Knowing it was fiction didn’t mean it wasn’t going to be painful on some level

And

4.  I might not have a friend after reading it.

So, where to begin?  You don’t know what one of the charters look like until your way into the book and you hardly know what his lover looks like either, besides that he’s big.  The first thing I noticed after two chapters was the use of the word Dom. But we’ll get to that. The book reads like it was written for the bridge and tunnel people. Or more to the point it reads like bad theater. It’s what we call people who practice tickle and smack. You tie your lover up to the bed with neck ties and plays force them to suck your dick giving them a little smack for some indiscretion.  But I’m getting ahead of myself.

There are three main characters, Takoda the victim/sub and two Doms, Evan and Rhyn. Takoda’s been hurt by a bad Dom and one of the Doms, Rhyn whom he works for found and saved him. In turn out that Dom, Rhyn, didn’t feel he could help Takoda so he called in his friend another Dom Evan.

By the time I got to page 150 I was so tiered about hearing how Takoda would scurry away when he over heard something or though something might happen I had to find another way to get through the book. So since every two pages the author used the word Dom, (which is why I used it so many times above)I got the idea, from working in the library to play a game like where’s waldo. Where’s the Dom, and started to count and see how many times it was used. I went back to the beginning and counted. Before page 50 the word Dom was used 89 times by page 100 it was 98 at 200 pages the word Dom was used 70 times, and this I believe was only because by page 200 the author used the word sub more than Dom.  The last few chapters the word Sir was used more as well. But not as much as Dom (which the author also used as a verb throughout the book). As for the sex well I think man on man is hot but I’ve read and fanaticized better. Actually the part where the friend Dom Evan is having phone sex with the Boston sub was hotter than all the sex in the book.

This book reminded me of people who are new. And have to state at every moment that they are a Dom. If they need that much convincing they are in the wrong place. One’s dominance is. Weather in jeans, PJs leather latex or a tee-shirt.

I didn’t finish the book since I already knew the friend Dom Evan was going to make it with the Boston sub(who we find out later is named Patrick), Takoda was going to make it with his Dom Rhyn and they were all going to live happily ever after. Yeah fiction

As an aside there were some parts that were funny see below:

1. When the session was over the statement “session over: was said. Ah yeah we got that since most of the “sessions” in the book ended in sex or them coming and pretty much it’s over after that.

2. The statement, BDSM is all about the sub, huh? Well it is if you’re a ProDom and even then there’s the exchange of money. As they say in my neck of the woods “fair exchange is no robbery.”

3. The statement “I don’t want kinky sex I want a lover in the bedroom”. Well they were having nothing but kinky sex in the playroom. There was nothing that got even the stranger on the train who was reading over my shoulder hot. And I know because I asked.

4. When one Dom Evan, brings another sub to talk his sub,Takoda about the phrase “slut”. He remarks you’re so lucky to have two Doms at your beck and call. Seriously, really, two Doms at your beck and call? Huh?

But my all time favorite which almost got me spitting ice tea onto my laptop is:

The phrase: Get into Dom mode and he put on his Dom wear. I thought they were going to put on red and blue leather and would be able to leap subs in a single bound. 

With all the talk about the sub being in a safe place and it’s all about the subs safety, the author never once mentioned during the bondage play what little it was about safety scissors, since the Dom tying and flogging the sub, got nervous and ran out of the room. Hum.

Also I have a problem with calling the place I go to see people get tied up and beat with a flogger, whip, cane or paddle and hear the occasional screams of pleasure a club. New people call it that, since most promoters have mixed the lines by having dancing in the same space. So for the record here in New York Paddles is called a dungeon.  If you’re talking about a club in Paddles, hopefully someone is being hit with it, and loving it.

Overall I give Out of the fire by Ariel Tachna on a scale of 5 single tails ½ a single tail.

And I still have a friend.

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Posted by elizabethblack on Monday Dec 28, 2009 Under Books, Erotica, Masturbation, The Countess - Elizabeth Black

My book “An Unexpected Guest” has recently been released by Brown Paper Bag Books/Fanny Press. This book is a very hot paranormal erotic romance. If you liked “The Haunting Of The Sandpiper Inn”, you will love “An Unexpected Guest”. I happen to love ghost stories, and both books are full of scares, thrills, excitement, lust, and ghosts.

AN UNEXPECTED GUEST
By Elizabeth Black

Release Date: November 23, 2009
Format: Paperback
Length: 202 pages
Publisher: Fanny Press
Genre: Paranormal Erotic Romance
Heat Level: Scorching
ISBN-10: 1603814272
ISBN-13 978-1603814270
Price: $14.95

Buy Link:

Fanny Press
http://fannypress.com/2009/12/12/an-unexpected-guest/

Amazon
http://tinyurl.com/yb9ya5t

BLURB

Annie’s life is in crisis, and it’s time for her to change things. She is determined to be controlled no longer by her arrogant boyfriend and overbearing mother: for the first time in her life, she is going to follow her dreams and do something she truly wants for herself. Her dreams lead her to a picturesque Bed and Breakfast by the ocean that is rumored to be haunted. As she throws fear to the wind and opens up to life’s new possibilities she meets Jason, whose long blonde hair and cheeky attitude she cannot resist.

EXCERPT

Jason’s face nudged its way into her mind as she soaked. She could not concentrate on her novel or her family memories because her thoughts drifted back to him and his engaging smile. Who was he? Why had he had such an effect on her? What did he mean that it was very important that she buy this house?

She thought of his broad shoulders and wondered what it would be like to rest her head on them. Frank was a remnant of her past now, and she needed to move on. Who would take over her passion and love for life? Would it be Jason? Although she barely knew him, she felt as if she has known him all her life. Why was that?. What did he mean to her? His long hair, blonde – so unlike the brunettes she normally preferred – fell down his back, begging for the touch of her hands.

As she soaked in the tub, she ran her hands over her breasts and belly, feeling a stirring in her pussy as she thought about Jason. Should she have accepted his invitation to get a room together? Did she miss a chance to have a hot and sexy night with a new man? While her trysts with Frank were hot and steamy, she felt no emotion, no attachment with him. Her tenderness towards Jason aroused her like no man had ever before. As she thought about Jason’s aroused stare, her hands traveled down her breasts, past her belly, and into her bush.

Her fingers found a very wet pussy as they circled her erect clit, bringing forth bursts of pleasure as Jason’s handsome face emerged in her mind’s eye. What would it be like to kiss him, to taste him? As she slid her fingers inside, she clenched hard with arousal, wanting to feel Jason deep inside her. Her fingers felt slick with her juices as she moved her fingers in and out, quickly and then slowly, rubbing inside and then against her clit as her arousal increased. She slipped further into the warm, bubbly water as she fingered herself, bringing out one hand and sliding her moistened fingers into her mouth, tasting her musk.

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I’m Featured Author At Dark Diva Reviews

Posted by elizabethblack on Friday Nov 27, 2009 Under Books, Erotica, The Countess - Elizabeth Black

I am the featured author at Dark Diva Reviews today, and DDR is showcasing my paranormal erotic romance THE HAUNTING OF THE SANDPIPER INN. Read a blurb, an excerpt, and enter the contests for a chance to win a free copy of my book! The contest runs through November 2, and the winner will be notified November 3.

Come over and hang out. Make sure you leave a comment so that you will be eligible to enter the contest.

http://ddrreviews.blogspot.com/2009/11/feature-friday-elizabeth-black.html

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EARLY RELEASE TODAY, NOVEMBER 21, 2009 – FERAL HEAT
Head to Romance Divine starting tomorrow and pick up your copy of my hot menage, erotic bondage werewolf romp, FERAL HEAT. The official release date is November 27, but Romance Divine is releasing it now so you may get it early.

Title: Feral Heat

Publisher: Romance Divine

Release Date: 27 Nov 2009

ISBN: 978-1-934446-72-0

Author: Elizabeth Black

Format: E-Book

Length: 22,571 words

Genre: Romance

Category: Erotic, Werewolf, Gay, Paranormal, Multiple-Partner, Threesome

Price: $4.99

Buy link: http://www.romancedivine.com/FeralHeat.html

Blurb:

Grant and Sam were more than lovers; they shared a special secret. They also shared Grant’s roommate, Amelia, who was beginning to get suspicious about the two hunky males who disappeared every month. The sexy trio was not without their crises: Grant and Sam had a curse that continued to dog them, and Amelia’s soon-to-be ex had a bite that was as bad as his bark. It’s a howlin’ sexy time when author Elizabeth Black turns up the – Feral Heat.

Excerpt 1:

“We have a surprise for you,” Grant said. “I set this up while you were eating lunch.” He pulled down the sheets and comforter and pointed to the head of the bed. “Do you like what you see?”

At first, she wasn’t sure what peeked at her from behind the pillows. Black strips? What are they? Sam walked to one of the strips and unfastened it. She heard the sound of Velcro ripping. Oh, my God! They’re under-the-bed restraints! How long have these two been into bondage? Her pulse quickened as she thought of all the kinky possibilities in store for her now.

“I put the restraints on your bed earlier today. Consider them a ‘thank you’ present from me for letting me live with you for a few months. Now let Sam and I take care of you for the next few hours. We’ll fuck the tension out of you until you can’t do anything but drool.”

“I’d like that,” Amelia said. “So what do I do?”

“First, get out of your clothes,” Sam said. “We have more surprises for you.”

Within moments Amelia’s clothing lay on Sam and Grant’s pile. She scooted onto the bed, heart racing at the thought of the hot time she was about to have. She reclined, spread-eagle, and allowed Sam to restrain her wrists while Grant restrained her ankles. She’d had her eyes on both of them for several months, and felt thrilled, and a little nervous, over finally consummating her late night erotic fantasies. Feeling out of control and unable to move initially frightened her, since she didn’t like to feel helpless.

“Give in to us, Amelia.” Grant seemed to read her mind as he took a bottle from a small bag she hadn’t noticed before. He poured the liquid onto his palms and rubbed his hands together. He handed the bottle to Sam, who helped himself to some of the oil. The scent of rosemary wafted around her head and she inhaled the pleasant aroma, yielding to her desire to let go completely and let these two men tend to her needs.

“There’s nothing to be afraid of,” Grant said. “We know you’ve been wanting this moment since you first saw the two of us. Give in to the helplessness. We’ll take good care of you. I know you’ve wanted the three of us to play for a long time, and now we’re going to make all your wishes come true.”

Grant and Sam started at her feet, rubbing her soles until her arches curled. Their fingers pressed in between each of her toes. As they massaged, her body relaxed, the tension melting from her legs and arms. She watched her two luscious lovers as they tended to her body, working out the knots in her calves and thighs, moving up her body until they reached her heat. Her pussy quivered, she desperately needed those talented fingers to massage her in her most intimate spot, but both men resisted. Amelia admired their bodies, glistening with sweat, and their erections drew her attention. I’m not the only one who’s aroused. She squirmed against the restraints, wishing fervently for her tormentors to touch her most sensitive spot, yet realizing they purposefully held off giving her the intense pleasure she needed. Restrained and helpless feels incredibly hot! I had no idea that giving in to the care of two sexy men could be so exciting!

They seemed so animal-like in their lust, much more so than they had a week earlier when she last worked with them. Grant’s hair and eyebrows seemed bushier, and if it wasn’t her imagination, both men seemed much more muscular than she last remembered. Grant’s arms bulged with muscle over muscle as he worked her thighs, and Sam’s blue eyes seemed even brighter and larger than they usually looked. She knew both of them could pin her to the bed with their bare arms if they had not already restrained her. With each passionate touch and gasp of breath, Amelia felt a bit of fear, since she had never seen these two delicious men so aroused, but she gave in to her feeling of being overpowered and at their mercy. Their mere touch sent waves of pleasure through her body.

Excerpt 2:

Grant stretched out on the grass, arms behind his head and legs extended, waiting for Sam’s gentle touch. When Sam’s hand stroked his chest, his heart skipped, even Sam’s slightest touch aroused him. He felt his cock twitch in anticipation of what he knew was coming. Sex will take my mind off my hunger. There’s nothing as distracting as a good blow job, especially from Sam. Grant relished Sam’s exquisite blow jobs, and he knew Sam would not disappoint him now. I need him, need his touch on me, anything to take my mind off this burning need for flesh. Sam’s lips brushed Grant’s shoulder, and then traveled down his chest to rest near his groin. Grant closed his eyes so he could fully enjoy Sam’s kiss, waiting until he felt those soft lips against his cock.

Sam’s lips wrapped around Grant’s cock, and in response Grant dug his fingers into the earth. With a gentle movement, those lips and mouth stroked his shaft, making him jump in Sam’s mouth. No other man ever had this kind of effect on me. I melt in his arms at his mere touch. Sam’s tongue, slick and warm, flicked in circles around Grant’s shaft, and Grant felt his erection grow harder as Sam’s tongue moved faster around him. Sam alternated between stroking Grant’s shaft with his tongue and then sucking hard on his head, all the while rolling his balls in his hand. Grant moaned and stiffened as Sam took all of him deep into his mouth, sucking and licking, driving him wild. Grant grabbed Sam’s head, pushing him harder against his cock, taking in his entire length, and Grant felt so close to coming his heart raced in his chest.

The sound of motors interrupted his passion. Grant opened his eyes in time to see a shooting star skitter below the full moon. Who is stupid enough to drive into the forest knowing there are wolves about? Little do they know what really lurks in Dogtown… Two burly men on dirt bikes bounced into the forest clearing as Grant and Sam rushed to find cover behind a copse of maple trees. To Grant’s horror, the two men stopped in the middle of the clearing and stepped away from their bikes. One grabbed a twelve pack of beer while the other wielded a bottle of Jack Daniels.

“Hey, Lewis, toss me a brew. This heat is making me thirsty.”

Lewis tore open the twelve pack and threw a bottle at his friend. “You sure we should be out here? With the wolf warnings and all?”

“What are you, chicken shit? We ain’t gonna see no wolves. Besides, I got my gun.” He pulled a pistol from his back pocket and waved it in the air, setting off one round.
“Are you out of your mind, man? Don’t go attracting attention to us out here!”

“Those two aren’t going to go away any time soon, are they?” Sam growled in a whisper.

“No, and they smell like they’ve been drinking for hours. I can smell their sweat and stale booze breath from here.” Hackles stood up on Grant’s back as he watched the two men guzzle their beer. The lust for blood and fresh kill overwhelmed him, and he clawed the ground with his razor sharp claws.

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cross-posted from The Enigmatic Angel

I was thinking about two of my favorite things today: kink and Science Fiction.

I’ve always enjoyed fantasies that combine both. Both stretch the imagination in new unexplored territories. Combined, they can be a double whammo.

Hmm have you ever looked at the photos from those Sci Fi geeky conventions and noticed just how many sexy costumes there are? Oh yes, ooodles.

Sometimes I wonder how my brain started to combine both.

Perhaps it was the fact that the first kinky/BDSM books I came across happen to be from the Gorean universe. Perhaps.

Well, I was thinking of kink and Science Fiction and thought I would share a delightful list I found on the net today.

I’ve read three out of the list of ten. Some that I haven’t read sound intriguing…
and some sound rather hilarious.

It mentions one of my ever faves, Jacqueline Carey’s Kushiel’s Dart.
More on the Kushiel Legacy series later, kinky folks.

Enjoy,
Angel

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