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Mistress160 (of Mistress160′s BDSM For Beginners and Mistress160′s Abode) and Miss Bonnie (of CollarNCuffs.com) have come up with something rare on the Internet: a free online training program for new submissives.

Interested? Read on….

WHY HAVE MISTRESS160 AND MISS BONNIE DONE THIS?:

Both Mistress160 and Miss Bonnie are regularly approached by many men new to Femdom wanting help. Some wondering if submission is for them, others sure of their submissive drive for years but without opportunity to express this side of their nature.

The next logical step in their submissive journey is to gain experience and find a Mistress to serve. But alas finding a real time Dominant is no easy task, so many turn to online submission as a way to manage their aching desires to fulfill a Mistress’s needs and wants. Yet even online, finding a cyber Domme can be a daunting task. The world of cyber kink is filled with predators and untrained Dominants just waiting to take advantage of lonely submissives.

While Mistress160 and Miss Bonnie have our own lives and our own stables of submissives, both online and real time, for a long time we have both tried to help as many submissives as we can experience the thrill of serving online, providing subs with a taste of ‘online domination’ cyber play via chat rooms, IMs and emails. We are aware that for some this taste is all they ever receive. Some may decide submission is not for them. But many remain.

Mistress160 and Miss Bonnie often say to each other ‘so many subs, so little time’. We wondered what else we could do, how we could help more submissives find their way to understanding their kinks and fulfilling their desires to serve. So we decided to design a simple training course to give newbie submissives a tantilizing taste of what they desired – in fact even more than what they have desired, because this is a chance to serve not one but two Mistresses online for a set period!

THE COURSE ITSELF:

Despite the amount of time and effort that went into designed the course and delivering it, we made the decision the course should be free to attend, because BDSM education is a priority for us both. Miss Bonnie’s Collarncuffs site contains major educational resources – including Mistress160′s popular BDSM for Beginners series – and this training course will add to those resources. In fact it will be the first of several training courses, each modified to appeal to different levels of experience and various fetishes and kinks.

This inaugural course – an online training program hosted on CollarNcuffs.com for Forum MPS (MyPersonalSpace) and open to members only – will be totally interactive, incorporating blogs, email and chat interaction. The course will include:

Introduction to behaviour modification
Introduction to light bondage and restraint
Introduction to light pain
Introduction to humiliation training
Introduction to cross dressing and forced feminization
Introduction to dildo training (oral)
Introduction to light anal
Introduction to tease and denial / light chastity
Introduction to service submission

Educational components will explore topics such as how to find and contact a dominant, personal presentation in cyber space, and understanding your fetishes and kinks. The course will also include daily ritual tasks to undertake at home, compulsory homework, shopping trips, plus additional tasks for extra points for a chance to win the special prizes for this inaugural class.

A list of toys will be provided to successful applicants, which must be acquired / purchased prior the course’s commencement. This will not be an expensive list, but will include basics such as a dildo, feminization and crossdressing items, a small piece of bondage rope etc. A digital camera is also a prerequisite (phone camera is fine).

INTERESTED IN APPLYING?:

Obviously there will be a great many applicants for this, and future CNC training courses. There is nowhere else online that regularly offers such a course, gratis. Keep in mind too that a great deal of care has gone into the construction of this course, and similar care will be shown regarding the selection of applicants.

DO apply to enrol for this program if:

You are a serious submissive who seeks a creative, exciting and unpredictable outlet for your submissive desires.

You want to add a little edge and excitement to your life by exploring a variety of Femdom practices

You are an interested, new submissive who wants to experience being trained online in a safe, anonymous way

You have reliable access to private, secure email and web browsing several times a week

You have the privacy to perform tasks and rituals as requested

You are a member of Collarncuffs’ MPS Forum. Collarncuffs is free to join, just click here.

DO NOT apply to enrol for this program if:

You do not have access to email/web at least 4-5 times per week, every day preferably

You are married and cannot obtain your wife’s permission. (later courses will be offered to those with non involved partners)

You cannot perform written and verbal lessons on time and accurately

You do not live alone or have the privacy to undertake rituals and tasks as specified

You plan to travel and will have sporadic email access

“If you are demanding, whining and selfish and think this program should be about getting YOU off” (a personal note from Miss Bonnie!)

If you would like to be considered for inclusion in this inaugural program, please list your name on the appropriate forum thread at Collarncuffs by 30 December 2008. DO NOT APPLY BELOW THIS POST!

You will then receive an application form and a questionnaire similar to those sent out by Dommes considering a sub for service. This will provide us with information regarding your experience, desires, kinks and general health. Our aim is to provide you an opportunity for the best experience possible. Without answers to the questionnaire we cannot do so in a safe manner and you will not be accepted for the course.

You will be advised shortly after whether your application has been successful. “At which point”, say your two future Mistresses “your life changes forever!”

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Oct 28

Mistress160′s famous photo contests for crossdressers – it’s time for The Ultimate Kinky Showgirl Contest!

Posted by Mistress160 on Tuesday Oct 28, 2008 Under Exhibitionism, Fantasies, Feathers, Fetish, Forced Feminization, Mistress 160, Mystress Lady Evyl

A few years back I started holding cyber competitions. Sometimes these were task oriented, others were photo contests or even writing contests. The one thing they had in common was that they were seriously kinky. Adultbloghub called them “the most unusual competition[s] … in the adult blogging world”.

I really enjoy the contests I’ve held with my female sub group – we had a superb Best Marks Contest that was won by the wonderful Carrie Ann, a member of Kinky Sex Link – but the group’s been quiet of late. One group that stayed active was my Forced Feminization group at MyDungeonSpace. MDS’ group software allowed each group to have not only a private forum but a gallery where photos could be uploaded. And of course, over the top themes for photo contests really appealed to members there – we’ve held a Babydoll Photo Contest, and a Princess Photo Contest, even a Serving Mistress Contest. All genders can enter as long as they are members of the Forced Fem group, which is free to join (join MDS here first if not yet a member).

We have a wonderful judging team at present (Miss Bonnie from CollarNCuffs and Mistress Amor, who’s pet poppet won the Serving Mistress Contest) and Mystress Lady Evyl has very kindly agreed to join us for future contests, which makes a wonderful link here with KSL and we hope some regular readers here will compete.

It’s the interaction between the entrants and the judges that really brings these contests alive. Only a handful of boys usually compete, some with dominants, others without. It’s an enormous challenge to come forward like this, especially for entrants without partners, but it seems to have been a very positive experience for everyone who made the leap. Here are some comments by past entrants:

“the whole competition was a blast!.. i really encourage anybody who is even a little bit curious to enter the next one. they’re very fun, very low pressure, and a great way to be part of the community and meet new people. thanks again to Mistress 160, the mastermind of the whole operation” (veritas – Winner of Best Ass in Babydoll Contest)

“what a fun time to be expressive and creative and have fun at the same time. I certainly would like to encourage all the tarty sluts out there to participate in the next one … Good luck to everyone and come on and have some fun!” (mont202 – Winner of Princess Contest)

“you could feel the joy emanating from the other contestants as they described their shopping / picture taking experiences. Very positive feelings …

“i felt all kinds of emotions during this contest and i embraced them and watched others go through similar feelings on the topic. No answers, no coming down on one side or the other … It was bizarre and different and provocative. A rich experience. i couldn’t ask for more”.(Destiny’s chance – winner of Special Artistic Award)

KSL readers will of course know chance from here at Kinky Sex Link. He also wrote a very thoughtful and evocative post about his contest experience that I recommend anyone thinking about entering the contest read. Chance kindly gave me permission to xpost it here, on a feedback post about the contests.

The standard of photo entry has always been amazingly high. I’ve been sincerely impressed every contest. Here are links to some of the judges’ and entrants’ favorite photos:

Aradia’s Whore – Most Elegant Sub, Babydoll Contest

Ms Alice’s denied – Highly Commended, Couples – Babydoll Contest

Mont202 – Winner, Princess Contest (as Xena)

Chance – Princess Contest – Most Exotic Princess Award

Solipsist – Princess Contest – Virgin Princess Award

Poppet – Winner, Serving Mistress Contest

Saucy – Serving Mistress Contest – Attention to Detail Award

Smoothbikini – Serving Mistress – Most Innovative “Entry”

This brings me to my latest contest and the reason for this post: the “Ultimate Kinky Showgirl Contest”. Here is some info on the contest, crossposted from my blog:

The ultimate kinky showgirl … what will our submissive contestants from Ms160′s Forced Feminization group make of this theme?

The judges adore it. Like Dita Von Teese, the judges of this latest contest extravaganza – Mistress160, Miss Bonnie and Mistress Amor – love the glamor of burlesque, of the striptease: “There’s sparkle”, mused Miss Bonnie from our sponsor CollarNCuffs [who has generously donated a corset for first prize] when the judges discussed the proposed theme of this contest:

“There’s glitter …wicked idea … ‘Burlesque‘ I love it, so sexy and ultra Femme … I think burlesque, my mind drifts immediately conjuring up the sirens of the past like the Ziegfeld follies and Gypsy Rose Lee, my childhood idols … Gypsy was best known for her ‘intelligent sexy alluring strip tease’ style of performance … [she] was the legendary woman who told the police during a raid at the famous Minsky’s burlesque house, “I wasn’t naked. I was completely covered by a blue spotlight”

“what a wonderful idea Mistress 160 I don’t think you could have found a more ultra Femme and sexy contest idea ”

Mistress Amor agreed: “I am dying to see pasties, feathers, pretty clothes, jewels (plastic ones will do) … and for those of you who dare, and we know that you all are shameless, this is what Dita Von Teese says on wearing lingerie: “It puts the tease in strip tease”

“Do I need to say more? Any glamorous strippers out there?”

Are there, boys? But as Mistress Amor observed:

“But burlesque is not only about glamour and strip tease it is also about drama, comedy … acting. Whatever pose you choose for your pictures bring your character alive. The judges want to be entertained! Give us a great burlesque show”And that’s what this contest is all about … “give us a show boys”, demands Mistress160:

“this will be a cross dresser’s dream of an event … entertain us …entrance us … dance for us … dress for us … undress for us … make us desire you … make us laugh with you … show us your hidden talents … your pretty can-can stockings, with pasties over your nipples …. show us your desires to be the ultimate showgirl … and add your own kink or fetish (high heels, perhaps, lol) into it somewhere if you like!”

There will be extra marks for any contestant utilizing a Dita Von Teese theme. It looks like being a popular theme with contestants, with smooth bikini (another prize winner) writing on the contest thread:

“what a grandiose theme for the contest! my panties were wet all last nite thinking of the glamorous and kinky possibilities that await me (moulin rouge is an all-time favorite!)… what truly amazes me however is how you were able to take this idea that oozes erotic and seductive feelings and images and have it evolve into one of the most enjoyable learning experiences in recent memory – in life’s journey i would adore to follow your lead.. kisses”

We are going to have a lot of fun with this one .

The contest will close midnight 30 November 2008, and the winner / other prizes will be announced later that week. If you’d like to read more about the history of burlesque, the art of striptease and more about how to enter the contest, check out the rest of my contest launch post.