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I Was Interviewed–Twice!

Posted by dlkingerotica on Tuesday Aug 25, 2009 Under Erotica, Interviews

Well, actually, I’ve been interviewed three times recently, the first was by Ily Goyanes. But just today (OK, it’s tomorrow now. Yes, I realize it can never be tomorrow but you know what I mean. Or maybe you don’t.

All right, I’ll start over. Two interviews with me went up online on Monday (that would be 8/24–in case somebody wants to know the actual date–you know–for legal reasons…). They’re both pretty cool and somewhat similar. After all, I’m the same person in both of them. I’m just sayin’…

Alan Chin, the San Francisco GLBT columnist for the Examiner.com interviewed me here.
Palace of Fine Art(It’s always nice to have art in a post and so I thought I’d share this picture I took in San Francisco at The Palace of Fine Art when I was there for my book tour. The statues have nice asses. Is it a coincidence they’re all facing away? I think not!)

And the publishers at Logical Lust interviewed me here. Logical Lust put the subtitle of “Smut Specialist” under my photo. Pretty cool, huh?

Have a look and let me know what you think because, after all, I crave knowledge of all kinds!

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The Wily Old Crocodile: An Interview with Eosuchus

Posted by glowinside on Wednesday Jul 1, 2009 Under D/s, Fantasies, Interviews, Mayhew

Cross-posted from The Glow Inside

Eosuchus has been about on the D/s internet scene for a long time, posting here, writing there, and slowly building up a profile as a fine eroticist. Recently (last year) he started up his own weblog, with samples of his femdom fiction and also some more theoretical writings on femdom in society.

I asked him six questions on e-mail a few days ago and he responded at length, making for a pretty good interview IMHO. I’ve saved my own responses until right at the end, where there is also a bunch of links to his stories on various websites.

Steve: Eosuchus. What’s with that name? A Permian-era crocodile?

Eosuchus: The crocodile family are old — and in their way, wise. ;)

Steve: Your stories are all over the net now, at the Femdom Desire forums, some on the site of a Ms Christine, some on www.shemaleas.com, and elsewhere. Do you have plans to unify it all on your blog or anywhere else?

Eosuchus: Not really. There are stories from various stages in the development of this work. I have examples of most of them, and maybe someday I might put them up on the weblog. I have a lot of stories to tell, and I’ve got a few hobbyhorses that I circle around, but I have also tried to break new ground. What I dream of is finding an artist, or even a Poser person, who would like to collaborate on some FD storytelling. Maybe even put up a pay site for such work. I think the form is best approached through fiction combined with some sexy graphics. I like the approach taken by Regime Imperia. If I were doing something like that I would try for a more “domestic” approach.

Steve: You are quite well known – obviously you’re not a big glory seeker, but have you thought about publishing your stories as a collection anywhere?

Eosuchus: I have, and my little weblog is a possible first step in that direction. I have a hard drive’s worth of other materials, including a piece of FD Science Fiction that is essentially a novel.

Steve: By the way, where is the full text of *Walter*? I see it referenced here and there but can’t find it. Is it still online anywhere?
Eosuchus: That story is a few hard drives ago. It should be on Ms Christine’s DOMestic site, if she’s still got the same story archive they had years back. I haven’t checked there in several years. When they first started up DOMestic I found it an exciting way to post stories as I began to develop my own style. But I haven’t posted on DOMestic in years and years now.
Steve: Permian systems is your own brand, I take it? Have you had copyright issues with any of your stuff? I know that people who put long fiction online tend to find this a problem.
Eosuchus: Oh, I really don’t know. I haven’t noticed any of my stories being put out under another name. What’s on the internet is pretty much free, so it wouldn’t be the greatest loss. I guess I can’t quite imagine someone else putting their own name on an eosuchus story. But yes, Permian Systems is my brand and copyright signifier.
Steve: What are you working on at the moment? Your more recent blog writings seem almost like a cultural analysis of femdom practices rather than fiction, and I have to say personally I don’t like them as much as your fantasies because I don’t see ‘real’ femdom as having rules or systems, just people. How do you respond to that?
Eosuchus: Real FemDom and male fantasy FemDom — different, but rooted in the same urges. Real FemDom is for real life (or paid sessions with a Dominatrix?) and if there are rules, then they are likely to be Her rules. They will vary from woman to woman, I would think. Male fantasies circle around the same ideas, the same acts of erotic power, over and over. But then– Female erotic fantasies do much the same sort of thing– at least if one goes by romance fiction.
My musings about FemDom tropes and art are just one writer’s take on things. But, you would have to admit, surely, that FemDom fantasies do seem a little, well, limited in range. Check Namio Harukawa’s obsessions, for example.  Some are much less likely to ever actually take place than others, but they retain an erotic appeal to submissive men. Wny is this? I can’t imagine– at least in 2009– that ladies clad in leather are going to take men out for walks, as if they were dogs, but that notion comes up again and again. I find that interesting.
I have put some stories up on the weblog, and I will put up more. I thought, though, that it would be fun to put up some ideas, select some of my favorite FD images and artists and discuss them. FemDom art is actually fascinating in a number of ways. Some stuff doesn’t work, even if it’s well executed. It just lacks the necessary erotic spark. Other works are mental dynamite, at least for submissive, masochistic men. This intrigues me.
As for what I’m writing now. I continue to try and perfect some favorite short scenes. I have a story about Pony Play– something that is very new for me. I have a group of stories– that I would really love to see illustrated– describing a relationship that moves from a kinky love affair to an all out FemDom marriage. I have also been working a bit on updating another story set that I first developed for Ms. Christine’s DOMestic list about a decade ago, titled  ”Beneath Her Hem” which lays out an imagined, “perfect” FemDom married life. And I have this relatively huge, SF FemDom novel, that I don’t know what to do with!

(End interview).

So, looks like we have a lot to look forward to from Eosuchus – and I wish him good luck with publication. It also looks like another FD writer looking for an illustrator, somebody wanting to do high-quality FD illustrated narrative with a domestic tone. Funny, that’s exactly what I want to do as well. Good to now I’m not the only person interested in this! Maybe someday we can get past  comic-style representations of men in dungeons and get something far more sensual and realistic happening.

(Not sure why he’s rfeerenced Regime Imperia, though.  I see what he means in regards to their presentation of ongoing illustrated narrative, but personally I think their stuff is really tacky).

Want to read some Eosuchus? Here’s some links to get you started…

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Civility

Posted by ldyraven on Wednesday Feb 18, 2009 Under Humor, Interviews, Life, Misc.

I guess I’m not good at being the husband. Yet again like with Lady Sabrina, I said yes to something to Ms. Pedals. She asked me to be apart of a panel on civility in our community or something or another. I drifted off to my happy place in my head and said yes. Only to have her send me the description which I promptly read and forgot about.

 

Last night she sends out an email as a reminder.

 

My first thought was holy smokes she didn’t forget, which I was hoping she would. Not only was it a reminder she gave homework. Homework, homework about f*%$ civility in our “community.” Who the %#* does she think she is? She’s not the %$* boss of me. And if she thinks I’m going to spend time out of my g%* day to do f&%* homework she’s got another thing coming. Between work and commitments to my spiritual family, when I get home I want to kick back and forget about assignments of all kinds. She can just kiss my %$&.

 

And I plan on telling her just that.

 

As soon as I re-read what she wrote and put something together.

 

If you have the time and the inclination come out to TES on the 24th to hear some great people talk about civility. Hopefully we will  be able to keep it civil.

 

And I’m going to have to rethink the husband thing, maybe these gals are just good at getting what they want? humm

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Sex Blogs and Personal Privacy

Posted by Mystress Lady Evyl on Friday Sep 26, 2008 Under Discussion, Education & Information, Interviews, Mystress Lady Evyl, News, Podcasts, Sex

x-posted from Lady Evyl’s Blog

I have been a long time fan of the Open Source Sex podcast done by Violet Blue. She is a San Francisco sex educator, writer, editor, xxx film critic and overall great pervert. I love her podcast not just because of the material but especially the way in which she talks to her audience in an intelligent mature way. There is no dumming down of the listener. Unfortunately she does podcasts a lot less often.

I did just listen to her last one and I strongly suggest anyone who blogs online to listen to it. Its about 1h15min long but fascinating. She talks on a panel with other experts about personal privacy and people blogging or posting online, particularly on a sexual topic. You think you picked a private username and  you are safe…but you are wrong. Informing yourself is the best protection!

Open Source Sex: Episode 64

Can anyone really be sexually anonymous online? Being outed, thinking you’re “anonymous”, trolls and stalkers taking advantage of online communities, porn laws resulting in performers being stalked, Google’s history logs tracking all of us, and paying for adult goods and services online safely: Internet sexual privacy affects everyone – and our rights. This panel brings together a spectrum of views on sexual privacy and identity, including controversial sex bloggers, a cyberlaw expert and a hacker who works for a social networking site. We’ll discuss and demonstrate how easy it is to lose control of your sexual identity online – and how to get it back, or keep it intact in the first place. You don’t have to be a sex blogger, answer the wrong Craigslist ad, or order a vibrator online to have your sexual identity messed with – sometimes all you need to be is female, LGBT, or just make a simple mistake when you hit “send”. The consequences can be devastating. We will explore what obstacles face maintaining personal privacy, including bad or unsympathetic online community management, system and social exploits (like Craigslist baiting and outing), stalkers and trolls, the legal aspects of sexual privacy online and their application for individuals, and what you can do to keep your sexual privacy, private.

This affects us at KSL directly. Its really worth the listen

Mystress Lady Evyl

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