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Cell Popping…with yours truly!

x-posted from Lady Evyl

Two weeks ago today I was at my host’s house in Raleigh North Carolina. I had been invited by Melequus to her home and city and local dungeon for a cell popping workshop. It was quite an honor and a pleasure to be there. Honestly so much happened in my 4 days there I am not sure where to start, what to talk about or in which order. So bare with me in this blog…just go with the flow!

Melequus lives in Cary county in a very cute and quaint country house with lots of land and a stable for 2 horses and is rented out! I had my own lovely room on the 2nd flour with a balcony. I am a city gal so for me this was completely different and I was gaga over the horse. This is horse country! Horses everywhere. In Quebec farm lands have mostly cows. Friday was leisurely and we drove around a bit in the town of Chapel Hill which is super cute actually. Its got a big university so it had lots of hip coffee shops and bars and all.

Danger was in the air though as soon as I arrived in NC…the coming snow and how everyone was freaking out about it…to the extent that both parties I was due to attend were possibly to be canceled. I am from Canada so even if the population there is very unaccustomed to snow I had a huge problem  sympathizing. The governor actually declared it a State of Emergency!!!!! I think I saw finally at most 3-4 inches accumulated. That is a flurry for me. But when in Rome….I did my best to smile and go with the flow.

But in the end nothing got canceled. Friday night a party was thrown in my honor at a Femdom dungeon called FAD…although the party was not a Femdom party as usual, just rented for me that night. An online friend, Nev, living in NC organized it for me and it was so wonderful to meet her in real life. During evening I also met rich. Mel had matched us up months ago on Fetlife in hopes that she would secure me an interesting sub to play with while there. rich and I had on/off communication and there was good potential. I did play with him that night and it was a very pleasant scene. he is not very experienced but seemed eager in his ignorance of what he liked or did not. Although he said CBT was something he enjoyed and I love CBT! he got quite a beating in the end, I got quite an interested crowd watching and fun was had by all.After our session he offered himself at my disposition 24hrs a day till my departure and also offered to drive us all to La Fortress the next day, the dungeon where I was to give my Cell Popping workshop. A sweet offer I gladly accepted since by now the snow was falling, La Fortress is normally a good 1hours drive and he claimed experience in bad driving weather conditions.

Saturday rich picked us up at 2 pm and we got there shortly before 4pm…the time I was due to start. I also never saw so many cars in ditches along the highway. Had it been nice it would have been a record attendance with 80 people signed up. But since it was the end of the world about 20 showed up…which is more then the normal monthly workshop. We even started an hour late as guest on their way called to say they were in a ditch but asked if we would wait lol. For the evening portion of the party about 35 people were present in total and as it was decided the day about 20 slept over as to not have to drive on the snow covered roads.  So it turned into a really fun slumber party and they had prepared eggs, bacon, biscuits and coffee in the morning.

La Fortress is awesome. Its an entire dungeon house in a country setting. The kitchen and living room are common grounds to socialize without play. The basement is a huge dungeon with about 10 stations. There is also a big medical room on the first floor and another play room and an attic. The workshop went really well and the demo was awesome too with my ’stunt-bottom’ being none other then Nefarious, Mr SouthEast Leatherfest 2009. I got lots of great feedback and 2 sessions in the evening involved Cell Popping. it was an honor to see people wanting to incorporate it into their play.

A bit later I did my 1st of 2 scenes that night with rich…a bondage scene with a bit of CBT, spanking, flogging and a wonderful mindfuck opportunity. We later had a 2nd scene too and I was just pleased by how well we played together and I just loved the submissive energy he was feeding me. The second scene involved him being tied to a padded ladder. At the end he came off the ladder shaking like a leaf. he said he could not remember the last time he had felt such an adrenaline rush. he may be new but has pain slut potential. I also incorporated a cell popping into our session. I wanted him to remember me for a while so I marked him with my initials on his hip. But this time we definitely had started to really feel a mutual connection. it was really nice having someone there with me, genuinely serving me, rather then a sub making an effort to please the visiting Mistress.

I asked rich to spend Sunday with me to give a bit of a break to my host who was by my side for 3 days now. he then took me on a drive through the country and the capital, Raleigh. I also asked to see the ghetto area as we just don’t have such ‘defined’ spots so much in Canada. Sure we have neighborhoods that tend to attract a larger number of particular ethnics but its not the same. Here its still has that old South flavor to it. It was not so bad and we did come across a spiffed up old police  car with a young dude in it. I got a pic and the driver saw me he was laughing and smiling. probably thought I liked his car when I was actually taking a ‘ghetto car’ pic.

After we went back to his place so he could shower before dinner. I picked his clothes, inspected the marks after 3 play sessions (lovely!) with Me and he showed me his gun collection as pr my request! GUNS…omg! Again, Canada is not a gun country. Sure people have them but you are not allowed to carry one on your person while walking down the street (legally). And honestly the majority do not own them. I have never been around guns. So I had to take a pic of  me with some of his guns.

We went out for dinner to a more traditional NC food place. I ordered a local wine and had chicken and dumplings (yummy). he ordered side dishes for me to try: pulled pork appetizer (excellent), creamy grits (not bad with the cheese), collard greens (meh, was OK) and corn bread (yummy) with Pot Liquor (gross). What is Pot Liquor you ask? It’s the liquid that is left behind after boiling vegetable greens and meat. rich told me as a kid this stuff was usually thrown out in the woods behind their house and no one would EVER consider ordering it, he found it funny to see that on the menu.

Sunday was a precious day spent in great company. It really made the trip. A note one play and the scene there. Fetish is non existent there…its just BDSM and they take it safely and seriously…they play a hell of a lot harder too in public. I am talk real sadism and blood play and all but completely done in a safe way. Honestly I liked it better then the current Montreal scene which is going towards fashionable fetish parties and pure BDSM night are getting more and more scarce. I hope to take what I learned on this level in NC and do my best to help Montreal find a more solid BDSM root again.

This last picture below I just received today from NC….it’s some of the last snow still found in Cary county from the ’storm’ when I was there. Too funny!

Snow Bunny by carvenaked

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On to the reviews…

Vibrators

• OhMiBod Freestyle by Mystyfi
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Dildos

• LELO Ella by Eliot Bodem
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Anal Toys

• P-Spot Vibrating Plug by namelesschaos
• Little Flirt by Lady Evyl**********

Toys for Cocks

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This is a very special YouTube Friday as it is My video during a mummification scene with a friend, Rubberdandy.

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When I saw the newest toy Babeland.com offered up for grabs as a review I jumped on it.Yep a nice little butt plug. Emphasis on little. Being a Dominant BDSM practionner I already have a nice selection of butt plugs but only had a cheap flimsy little one. Let’s face it most sub already can take more then the little one or I’ll just go with a latex covered finger or two.

But a little while back I had read and reviewed a book called Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin, Ph.D. I did have an ‘ewww’ factor on my own anal pleasure but the book made me reconsider perhaps being more open (pun intended) to the idea. It works a lot on the psychlogical aspect of it….which I have been doing on and off for a while now. So then enters my new patner. He is patient and experienced and so I decided to explore my back door SLOWLY with him. I am not gonna go into details but its a slow but steadily improvement.

Back to the review. the toy offered was the Little Flirt, a 100% medical grade silicone butt plug by one of my favorite toy manufacturers: Tantus. I was like “yesss!” a nice small plug to start. Its got a big advantage shape wise compared to other similar sized plugs: it tapers bag down at the base which helps to keep it in. alos the base is nice and thick unlike other ones that can be flimsy. Silicone is non-porous, hygienic and pliable. this makes for easy cleaning and care. They can be cleaned  with soap and water but they can also be disinfected if you boil them (unless there is a motor) for 5-10 minutes or put them in your dishwasher.

So how was the Little Flirt for me? Very nice the first time. I graduated past it right away unfortunately. Nothing to do with the toy, I was just apparently already ready for the next step. Again I think I was ready in my head. But if you are totally new and nervous to anal play it is the perfect size because it is not intimidating. Its like a finger. So will keep it very handy and nearby for subs (with a condom on it of course)

Specs:

• Size: 3-1/4″ x 1″
• Material: Silicone

Thank you Babeland.com in helping me with my derrière explorations. Two thumbs up on this one!

My lastest review toy comes from my new lovely friends at LoveHoney. They have recently added a full line of bondage, fetish and BDSM gear to there store for beginners to advanced users.

Today I will discuss the Bondage Boutique Luxury Leather D-Ring Ankle Cuff Restraints. These are really nice ankle cuffs to have in your toy chest. They are great for both the very curious beginner and those who have been around the restraint block a few times. These premium leather cuffs are quite supple and light. I like the nice width of the cuffs as well. Sometimes cuffs look thin but not with these. Also you can wear these cuffs for hours without any discomfort.

Each restraint has 3 D rings which is great for multiple ties during a restraint session. Sometimes one D ring is not enough so I really like the fact that there are 3. Each D ring is also very securely attached to the cuffs. Although there is no lining covering the inside of the cuff the attachement points are totally smooth so very comfortable to wear.

I just LOVE restriction so anything that has a padlock closure is sure to please me! I adore the fact that my sub is totally at my mercy to remove the toy. These cuffs are secured on the partner padlocks and there are 5 slits to adjust to the right size. Now no product is perfect and here is my one negative point: the padlocks that come with the cuffs are terribly cheap. I strongly suggest any flimsy padlocks included with new toys be tossed in the garbage right away and be replaced with the real deal. I am really not kidding, I have seen people get stuck in restraints because the flimsy padlock would not open. But this in no way should scare you off from these cuffs…the cuffs themselves are great and purchasing a couple of good padlocks is a minor investment that can be used on other toys too.

Finally my favorite thing about the Bondage Boutique Luxury Leather D-Ring Ankle Cuff Restraints is the included the removable chain. You can just snap it on or off and they give you about 8 inches of play. Now what is more fun then watching your sub walking small steps and looking like a penguin. Perfect opportunity for some teasing and humiliation. I just wish they could not be removed so easily by perhaps the sub himself he he.

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I give these ankle cuffs a . Thank you again LoveHoney for the opportunity to review for you.

Mystress Lady Evyl

Oh, what a joy and a delight to review this toy graciously sent to me by Tantus, one of my “fetish” toy manufactures.Their stuff is beautiful, sleek, top quality…just phenomenal sex toys.

I have been ANXIOUSLY waiting for a chance to try an aluminum dildo so when I got this in the mail I was beyond excited. Oh My God…the Alumina Motion is beyond a work of art. My heart skipped a beat when I held it the first time. It came in a lovely black box, cushioned securely in foam.The anodized purple color makes it look so ultra modern. I could not help but admire the spade shapes in various sizes as my eyes traveled up and down both ends. one end wide and one end very narrow, almost pen like. It looked heavy. I picked it up and it was not quite as heave as I expected, it is aluminum …a lighter metal after all. But what actually struck me first was its cool sleek touch. And when I say cool I mean temperature wise. But it quickly warms up with handling to your body temp which only makes this toy even more yummy.

Now the Motion is one of 4 models in the Alumina collection. There is also the Pace, Flow and Revolve. This is where you realize how brilliantly designed this series is. Each toy is actually two halves that can be unscrewed and can be screwed into the other Tantus Alumina toys. You can create a many unique combination.

It does not require a lot of lube and both ends can be inserted…the smaller end obviously ideal for anal. Since it is a non-porous toy it is very easy to clean. Just use hot water and soap. You can even put it in the dishwasher or boil it. But if you are to share in the same session condoms are always the safe way to go.

Specification
Diameter: 1 3/8″ – 1″
Length: 8.25″
Weight: 8.77 oz.
Material: Aluminum

Now as amazing as it looked I was afraid I would not like it much because after the ‘head’ part it narrows so much I figured I would not get that feeling of fullnest. I was, gladly, beyond wrong. Its shape make for a divine vaginal entry. Its like fitting a perfect tight glove but your vagina is the glove. It molds and countours itself around the curves of the Alumina Motion unlike anything I quite experienced before. And you can feel its temperature changing, slow warming to your body’s heat. And I also discovered two magical feelings with it. My favorite motion was actually the full head in but having a shallow in and out motion (pun, yep) because it hits the g-spot in a most unique way…wow. Second another wonderful feeling is to insert it about half way in and then let go of it. It won’t slip out because of the design and gravity takes over giving you a weighted feeling that is just delicious.

There is one precaution to advise with this toy…be carefull not to push it in to fast to far or you will hit the cervix in a not so nice but painfull way. You have to experiment a little bit and know how far you can push it in comfortably. Same goes for anal insertion.

Simply put the Alumina Motion is the caviar, the Bentley of dildos I have come across so far, a full

Mystress Lady Evyl

UPDATE October 20, 2009 – 10 am EST

Our winner is c5ive – Congratulations

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Win a Smart Balls Teneo – Uno donated by Babeland.com. I received an extra one of this lovely toy reviewed here. I swear its a second one, not the one tested…all in a nice new box and all !!!

How to win?

I’ll pick a name randomly from those playing this game …

Caption this picture (deadline October 20, 2009 – 9 am EST):

I was sent this link by Sex Blog Conspiracy who did a little write up on my 2 blogs. I was blushing from all the shameless gushing they wrote about my efforts. Read it here: KinkySexLink and LadyEvyl’s virtual empire

Although the writers were forced to take a hiatus they assured me they are back up and will be posting like crazy!

Yes, I know crude title! But its too appropriate he he. Tantus, a toy company I just adore, sent me these butt plugs to try out. Meet the small Ace butt plug and the large Ace butt plug.

Now these butt plugs look overall a lot slimmer then most plugs because only the tip is flared. Both sizes have a long narrow neck instead of just tapering like most plugs. I find this gives them a great advantage because even if you can relax and take in a wide plug the actual insertion time with this model is a lot quicker. The narrow long neck makes them very flexible too.

But the main reason why the narrow neck on these butt plugs are so popular is that the chance of the pugs popping out is greatly reduced. They are comfortable and stay in place very effectively. This is actually the case for many of the Tantus butt plugs.

The small Ace butt plug measures 1.3″x3.3″ and the large Ace butt plug measures 1.65″x4.25″. Both models are available in black and purple.

The Ace plugs are made from 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone. This is a top quality material that makes clean up a breeze. 100% Silicone toys can be totally disinfected in bleach or bloiled for a few minutes with fear of damaging your toy. They can even go in the dishwater. BUT (no pun intended) if you plan sharing this toy, since it is an anal toy, I would still recommend using it with a condom.

The verdict? My victim had no problem taking them in (because it is not a new activity…go slow if you are new to anal play) and found them very comfortable. Removal was easy too. We will keep these beauties at the top of the toy chest so I can giving them a full 5 on 5 stars.

Mystress Lady Evyl