So yeah, 50% of submissive men are assfaces. I may be aiming a bit low on this one.

I’ve been hearing a lot of stories lately about how submissive men won’t show up when they have the opportunity to meet a woman.

While having coffee with a Femdom couple over the weekend, one told me that she can guarantee that over half of all potential submissive men won’t even show up for an initial meeting.

Could it be that most of these guys looking to meet someone aren’t actually looking to meet someone?

Another example came from a woman I know who had been in contact with a submissive for months, they spoke on the phone and he constantly stated his interest in her, how deeply he wanted to be her slave and how devoted he was to her (before even meeting her, that made her a bit suspicious of course) and every time she mentioned meeting he’d start sounding vague. Back and forth this would go.

There have been times when I’ve talked to someone on the phone after a few emails then lost interest after a conversation. That’s sort of the point of a phone conversation. But standing someone up or constantly leading them on?

I can only imagine a few reasons why a guy would do this.

-I get the feeling that most like the idea of it, they like to think about it but when it comes down to actually having an experience, they soil their pants and run the other way.

-They’re married or otherwise involved.

-They may be looking for any kind of sex as long as it’s sex, they’re not really submissive they’re just horny and when it’s time to put up or shut up, they shut up.

-They’re ashamed of who they are. I know many submissive men who daydream about BDSM but when they’re faced with something real, they’re filled with shame or guilt.

-They get off on the chase. For them it’s knowing that they could if they wanted to. This isn’t isolated among submissive men, I know women who chase men only to lose interest once they know they can easily get what they want.

-They’re just plain assfaces.

What a party! Our friend Mistress Eve invited us and a few close friends to her place and basement dungeon. So in conversations with her, we decided to do a video shoot for our video site Fetish Country. Cherish the model was so excited to be working with us since we met a month ago at the Seasons Beatings event. We began the night setting up for some tutorial shoots. I am doing them as a free service on our site as a marketing tool to bring people in. We did 5-6 tutorials then turned things around and did a full fetish shoot. Everyone in attendance seemed to very mush enjoy the show.

After we completed that, we all went upstairs to watch the “ball” drop on the new year and we rang it in with kisses exchanged between my lil*j and myself, tee and me then j and tee exchanging a beautiful kiss. tee commented that last year she was home before midnight and lonely and this year is so different in her relationship with us and there is no other place she would rather be. What a compliment and we are so very happy she is as content with us as we are with her. Just after midnight I had the girls change into their PVC outfits. They both looked smoking hot!

Our Hostess, who had porn playing on her 60 inch TV all night, had one of her boys play a clip of these three chicks playing on the bed and then ramming HUGE…like 10 inch or more diameter… dildos into their pussies and asses. It was absolutely amazing to watch. While it did not really turn any of us on, it was interesting to watch…..almost like a freak show. It was astounding to see these women get that big an object in themselves. After that was done, we watched a little of the English mansion and it was at this time I told lil*j she was to crawl down the steps to the basement dungeon.

She protested that she was afraid she would fall. Enter our girl to the rescue who offered to stay in front of her Mistress to be sure she was safe. I watched lil*j’s hot ass stick up as she crawled DOWN the steps to the basement and into and across the dungeon. I made sure the big bench was open before I told her to crawl to it and climb on. lil*j loves crawling for me and I love watching her do it. Her ass was in those PVC short shorts and it looked wonderful. I enjoy the sight of her doing it for me as ordered. A combination of power exchange, control and very sexy body on the floor at my command!

I really had no plan of attack here. I was going with her reactions and energy of the moment. When she was up on the bench, I tied both of her upper legs to the vertical uprights on the bench. From here I began to tease her and gently rub her, then I threw in some punches on her back till she began to whimper. I then went and get out the rope flogger to beat her with then the twin leather floggers to continue. There was a lot of different sensations from light touches to spanking to flogging and on and on. She was pretty much gone by this point.

She was pulled up by her hair and a Chest harness was put on before pushing her back down onto the bench. I then got out some lube and began playing with her ass. The asshook was laying out on the bench so I grabbed that and began to tease her with that. I then pushed the big ball past the opening and deep into her ass, her screams of protest and pleasure telling me it was inserted properly. I then tied the asshook to her harness and got out the Hitachi. I began to use the Hitachi on her asshook creating very pleasurable vibrations in her ass, the Hitachi was then moved to her pussy where she was teased for the longest time before being allowed to cum. I then got out the fuckstick, a huge dildo on a metal stick. I pressed it into her pussy filling her as she protested thinking I was going for something huge like onthe video. I threatened her I was filling her with the rubber fist Eve had there. The ball on the asshook and the huge did made her think it was bigger than it was I am sure! But of course I made her cum again.

She at this point thought the scene was over. But no I was going to force as many intense orgasms out of her as I possibly could! I put her on her back and tied her hands over head and to the bench. I went to work tickling her. I seem to be on a tickling fetish lately. I tortured her with the tickling then it was back to the Hitachi where I opened her pussy lips and pressed the Hitachi deep into her. I used my other hand to pull her pussy lips up and around the head of the Hitachi. The entire Hitachi head disappeared into her pussy, buried under her lips. She exploded in many orgasms till she was begging me to stop. I kept going till I got two more out of her.

She once again thought we were done, but not quite yet. I flipped her back over onto her stomach and decided to fuck her ass, hard and deep in front of the few people in the room. While we have had plenty of sex in the same room with someone else there, this was the first time we have done this in a “public” setting. It was a private residence but a party with others there. I think that fact made it all the hotter for her as I fucked her ass till she came again and I filled her ass with my cum! After a long recover on the bench, she got up and looked very sexy in her cleaning duties!

Tee was looking at some of Mistress Eve’s toys and found this nasty looking Wartenburg wheel with about 3/4 inch spikes. She thought she was safe to show it to me as it was 2 AM, I had an intense scene with lil*j. But boy was she wrong! I pushed her against the dresser she was at and began to use the wheel on her. She is terrified of needles so it was time for some light fear play. Part of this was another lesson in trust. Would she trust me to not hurt her? Trust me to use implements that scare her to death? I began to use the wheel across her back and other areas when Eve’s boy j walked up with the dreaded dog brush, the same one Eve terrified tee with at Seasons Beatings. I bent her over the bench j just cleaned and began to run the brush and wheel all over her body. she was scared she would jump and cut herself but was a good girl and stayed still and did trust me! She just was not sure she trusted herself is what she told me. Eve came in and pressed the brush into her and then took some pics of the historic event. It was a wonderful lesson and she was a good little girl for me!

We took off for home and got home at 4:30 AM…sober but very high on endorphins from the night. I could not think of a better way to bring in the new year. Shooting a video with friends there, having my two girls with me, and having some very intense and connecting scenes!

Peace, G

This will be a regular weekly addition to the site, come back often and see what people have to say!

This week’s question:

Think back to last year at this time…

What things have you tried that you never thought you would?

What things have you tried and LOVED that you never thought you would?

What things have you tried and won’t do again?

What things have you removed from your limits list?

What things have you added to your limits?

Over the last year…

What is your favorite new toy that you got?

What toys did you break over the course of last year?

What has changed in your relationship?

What has changed about yourself?

As Alpine’s primary play partner, I’ve contributed some quotes to some of her previous postings. I’m flattered she’s asked me to do a full guest post, and that’s she’s given me carte blanche to pick my topic. So let’s talk water bondage. I was first introduced to the idea by seeing a Gwen Media video given to me by another bi subby gal I used to play with. She’d been into it mainly because it featured lots of lovely ladies in lovely latex, but there was one scene in it that caught my eye (along with another organ). In this scene, the cruel mistress has her two female bottoms, hands bound behind their backs, kneeling at either end of a transparent plastic tub filled with water. Over the course of the scene, each bottom had their head held underwater ’til they were thrashing, and came up with water streaming down their faces and gasping for breath. My reaction was: that’s so sick, so wrong… so hot.

Over the years, Alpine and I have re-enacted this scene in private play many times. But I like to constantly surprise her when we play in public. So at a public play party a while back, I ambushed her with water bondage. I’d smuggled the tub in hidden in my oversize play bag (which I believe Alpine’s written about elsewhere.) And, since it involved a form of breath control, I’d precleared the scene with the Dungeon Monitors.

I put wrist cuffs on Alpine, and clipped them to a leather belt around her waist. I had her kneel, blindfolded her, locked a collar ’round her neck, and padlocked a chain from the collar to the frame we were playing under. I had a bi-switch female friend of ours, Mistress D, watch Alpine while I spread out a plastic tarp, then snuck off to fill the tub. This took a while, which helped build the tension for Alpine, who had to kneel, not knowing what was coming and being teased by Mistress D.

When I did return, I grabbed Alpine’s hair, and pulled her forward on her knees to just in front of the tub. “You remember how to hold your breath, don’t you?” I demanded. “Yes…” she responded, uncertainly. “Hold it now!” I commanded, and thrust her head under the surface. I held it there until I could see the involuntary struggle to raise her head begin, then lifted it just long enough to let her catch one quick breath before dunking her again. As they advise on shampoo bottles, I rinsed and repeated this process as needed (for me).

After a good long bit of this, it was time to up the game. Through regular play together, Alpine and I have thoroughly “skinnered” her pussy. (Google “B. F. Skinner” if you want more background.) That is, we’ve trained Alpine to cum on verbal command or in response to a physical stimulus. This stimulus is usually a slap to her face, but I can direct her to rewire that and cum to other cues. So I told her she was to cum when I slapped her ass. I then dunked her head, and gave her a good hard hand on her pretty butt. It was so entertaining watching her cum while not able to inhale that I repeated the process over and over again. Then we had Mistress D join in to help tag-team Alpine. The two of us took turns dunking her and spanking her to cums until she was deeply, deeply in sub space. Then we had her worship our boots (both Mistress D and I were wearing hot footwear well worthy of worship.) We also got in a few good kicks at Alpine (how to kick some one hard but safely is something I’ve learned from my dyke friends in the scene.)

As a finale, we had her on her knees, straddling our boots one by one, and polishing them with her juices, while face-slapping her to more cums.

We then took our delightfully addled bottom, dried her off, and led her to the cuddle area for some well-deserved aftercare.

I received my package in the mail just before heading to work one day and knew it was going to kill me to have to wait so long to try it. As soon as I got home, I tore it open, read the instructions and started testing it out.

The Nipple Erector Set comes packaged with two pumps of different sizes (one is approximately 3/8″ while the other is 1/2″ in diameter). The pump is made out of rubber and the tubs are heavy plastic. They are well constructed and seem that they will hold up for awhile. The two different sizes are perfect for suiting various size of nipples and if you have smaller nipples you can use both. Besides the pumps, eight rubber rings, which contains 4 different sizes are included.

The package comes with directions, which is to start with the smaller pump, slide the rubber ring on it, pump and slide the ring onto your nipple and repeat. It then mentions to use the one with the wider opening to make the nipples larger. It takes a couple of tries to get it right but after experimenting and repeating the process, I was able to get the ring to stay on without much effort. I did have one problem though, no matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t use the smaller pump to get the ring on but that is most likely an individual thing and would vary depending on nipple size.

I really enjoyed using the Nipple Erector Set. Placing the rings on my nipples provided extra stimulation when they were played or when they were simply on. Another advantage was they left my nipples hard and perky. I’ve been able to wear them for just under 1 hour before they got too sensitive and had to be removed. They are great to wear if you are a bit of an exhibitionist and want to show off your nipples with your clothes on or off. Another nice side effect was that my nipples remained extra sensitive throughout the day. They add the perfect thrill to your everyday play. What I like about them are, is that it appeals to a variety of people, not just my friends or those who are in the BDSM communities.

It’s really one of the most interesting and inexpensive non-bdsm, nipple and breasts toys that I have. Besides using it for the rings, you can use the pumps on your clit and nipples for a different type of sensation on your clit or nipples. The pumps aren’t extremely strong and won’t hold with a lot of movement but it was a fun sensation to experience and just increased my arousal.

This is a great toy that will leave your nipples sensitive and a fun toy to play around with and for the price you can’t go wrong. Sextoy.com carries the Nipple Erector Set along with numerous other well priced toys.

Happy New Year

from everyone here at KSL

May your new year be a new begining in all aspects of your life,

but especially great new BDSM, Kinky, Fetish memories

that will last a life time!

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