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My latest toy forays took me deep inside of me, all the way to the G-spot. I could not pass up the opportunity to review this great combo offered by the amazing Babeland site. Up for grabs were the Orchid G-spot vibrator and the Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-Spot book by Violet Blue. By the way you can get the combo at a special price or each item separately as well.

Since I was traveling last week the Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-Spot book was a perfect companion on the plane…just kind of hid the cover pic a bit he he. It was an easy read that I finished with my flight out and back. I am a HUGE fan of Violet blue’s podcast Open Source Sex so I was very familiar with her work already. I knew this was not gonna be some prettied up ignorant info but a factual resource that is straight forward and witty. I was not disappointed on that level.

The book is presented as follow: an intro,  female anatomy, how to explore your G-spot, female ejaculation, tips and tricks, how to incorporate G-spot play with other sexual activities and there are even 4 short erotica stories here and there to inspire.

Now I am somewhat more educated then most on the G-spot manner so I can’t say it was full of discoveries but I definitely learned a few facts and can add some tricks to my arsenal. I have had G-spot orgasms by fluke in the past, even have squirted, but I have  never really ‘lied down’ and taken the time to explore my G-spots potential. Reading the book did motivate me to do so. I am very happy to ad this book to my growing naughty library.

The Orchid G-spot vibrator is really well designed for its purpose. The power of this is in the head, so its great for clit stimulation, or G-spot stimulation with insertion. the best G-spot toys are made og good quality hard plastic with a curved balled end…this is definitely the case here.

I have read a lot of women find the size of the head to be too big for insertion. Its about he size of a small egg. I did not have that problem (and no I am not loose). I find if I use it like I’m being fucked, I can cum in very short order. It is a noisy toy though so not for discreet play. But I live alone so do not care. So i am very happy with this vibrator…even if I have yet to reach the sweet spot orgasm with it yet.

Got to keep working at it with this Orchid G + Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-Spot Combo

Specs

Orchid G

• Size: 8″ (outer curve) x 1-3/8″ (widest point)
• Material: Plastic
• Batteries: Two AA

Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-Spot by Violet Blue

• Binding Style: Paperback
• Type: Sex Info/How-To
• Number of Pages: 160
• Copyright: 2007

When I saw the newest toy Babeland.com offered up for grabs as a review I jumped on it.Yep a nice little butt plug. Emphasis on little. Being a Dominant BDSM practionner I already have a nice selection of butt plugs but only had a cheap flimsy little one. Let’s face it most sub already can take more then the little one or I’ll just go with a latex covered finger or two.

But a little while back I had read and reviewed a book called Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin, Ph.D. I did have an ‘ewww’ factor on my own anal pleasure but the book made me reconsider perhaps being more open (pun intended) to the idea. It works a lot on the psychlogical aspect of it….which I have been doing on and off for a while now. So then enters my new patner. He is patient and experienced and so I decided to explore my back door SLOWLY with him. I am not gonna go into details but its a slow but steadily improvement.

Back to the review. the toy offered was the Little Flirt, a 100% medical grade silicone butt plug by one of my favorite toy manufacturers: Tantus. I was like “yesss!” a nice small plug to start. Its got a big advantage shape wise compared to other similar sized plugs: it tapers bag down at the base which helps to keep it in. alos the base is nice and thick unlike other ones that can be flimsy. Silicone is non-porous, hygienic and pliable. this makes for easy cleaning and care. They can be cleaned  with soap and water but they can also be disinfected if you boil them (unless there is a motor) for 5-10 minutes or put them in your dishwasher.

So how was the Little Flirt for me? Very nice the first time. I graduated past it right away unfortunately. Nothing to do with the toy, I was just apparently already ready for the next step. Again I think I was ready in my head. But if you are totally new and nervous to anal play it is the perfect size because it is not intimidating. Its like a finger. So will keep it very handy and nearby for subs (with a condom on it of course)

Specs:

• Size: 3-1/4″ x 1″
• Material: Silicone

Thank you Babeland.com in helping me with my derrière explorations. Two thumbs up on this one!

The 2010 Fire Fighters Calendar:

Feast your eyes on the hard-working men and women of Washington State’s bravest with the 2010 Fire Fighters Calendar. These sultry photo portraits-no full-frontal nudity, sorry-come with notes from the fire fighters themselves on their work experience and hobbies. But most importantly, proceeds from sales of this glossy wall calendar benefit the Washington State Council of Fire Fighters Burn Foundation, so it’s eye candy for a good cause. Measures 12″ x 12″.

Sexy Santa Night with Firemen Event for a good cause
Babeland – 707 E. Pike St. Seattle, Thursday, December 10, 6-9 PM, Free
You’ll get plenty of eye-candy this season with sexy firefighters playing Santa at Babeland! Firefighters who posed for a pin-up-style calendar for the WSCFF Burn Foundation will be on hand signing calendars and posing for photos. As if that isn’t enough, you could win free sex toys, too, depending on how naughty or nice you’ve been. Calendar sales benefit burn research programs, send injured kids to summer camp, and provide burn prevention kits.

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Have you seen this great We-Vibe Couple’s Kit. An awesome price for the new toy that has revolutionized sex and vibes in ONE! The kit includes:

• a We-Vibe
• two Babeland condoms
• a 1-oz bottle of water-based Entice by Babeland lubricant
• and a set of silver Naughty Bedroom Dice

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Enjoy free shipping on orders of $50 or more through Thursday, December 10 at midnight PST!

UPDATE October 20, 2009 – 10 am EST

Our winner is c5ive – Congratulations

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Win a Smart Balls Teneo – Uno donated by Babeland.com. I received an extra one of this lovely toy reviewed here. I swear its a second one, not the one tested…all in a nice new box and all !!!

How to win?

I’ll pick a name randomly from those playing this game …

Caption this picture (deadline October 20, 2009 – 9 am EST):

Today I have another great toy to tell you about from  Babeland.com, THE women-friendly place to buy sex toys.

I have been very curious about this type of toy, or should I say exerciser, for a while so when I had a chance to try it I jumped at the occasion. Let me introduce to you the Smart Balls Teneo – Uno from Fun Factory. This little ball will strengthen your pelvic muscle and tone it back into shape. It helps you perform what is known as kegel exercices. The benefits of a strong pelvic floor is stronger orgasms, preparation for easier birthing and help for those sufferring from incontinence. But let’s stick with the stronger orgasms reason he he.

This particular model is perfect for the beginner. It is shaped like an oblong ball with a nice textured pattern, in various colors, and a loop at one end. When you move it you will feel a weighted ball rolling inside. This ball is the secret of its mechanics. See the beauty of using a special ball for kegel exercise is that you can be totally lazy. How? Well when you lube it up a little bit and insert it into your vagina you can just go about your daily business as if you had nothing in you. But what actually happens is that the ball inside the Uno vibrates. This vibration automatically signals the pelvic muscle to contract so it does not fall out. Thus you work out without even making a voluntary effort.

You can leave it in for a few minutes or the whole day. From my experience I found it easier to start slow and build up the time I can keep it in. Its not small so you do feel it a bit when you put it in. But soon it just finds a nice spot and most of the time I just forgot about it. When I got a bit sore then I removed it. That is how I increase my time  bit by bit. But besides that you won’t feel it. You may however feel full and a bit aroused…which is nice. To remove pull on the loop and then wash it well with soap and water.

Why is it the beginner’s model? Well its just one ball so its not to much to insert. Once you have mastered it you can move on to the double Smart Balls…same thing but with two balls. Now you won’t find the next level, the advanced one, on Babeland but you can then get the tradionnal BenWa balls next. These are small and heavy metal beads in comparison but they will truly test your pelvic muscle. A friend of mine not in shape enough down there lost one in a public bathroom a few years ago. With these some women have been know to have orgasms just by walking with them inside…not a bad goal.

Verdict: I can’t say I have had enough time to see if they have an effect on my orgasms but I do enjoy having it in me. I do think my pelvic floor is a bit stronger. I do have one negative comment: I am not convince on how long the loop will ast before breaking…but I am really tight. So I am giving the Smart Balls Teneo – Uno a 4 out of 5 stars.

Thank you again to Babeland.com for letting me review this toy.

Mystress Lady Evyl

I have a really interesting review for you today of a book sent to me by the wonderful Babeland.com people.

I just finished reading ”Anal Pleasure and Health” by Jack Morin, Ph.D. It was very enlightening on a subject where, well, the sun don’t shine. Although I have not practiced anal play (in a regular serious manner) in some time it is an activity that I enjoy and fascinates me. So I thought taking on this book as a challenge would be a great way to learn more about how to do it safely and in an enjoyable manner.

Now let me warn you right away there will some “Too Much Information” in this next paragraph so if you are uncomfortable with that I would suggest skipping till you see ***

I am gonna be very honest with you all and share my personal experience and health about by asshole lol. Ok so prior to being a Mistress I have attempted no more then one handfull of times anal penetration with 3 partners. They were all mostly not pleasing and painful. Of course at the time I had no freaking clue about anal play at all. I do recieving anal play, rimming and the occasionl finger but its got to all be gentle. Move forward to being a Mistress: I have deflowered a many subs butts and penetrated accustomed anal players. That I did after some reading on safe and fun ass play so it usually went well. Now for anal health…not good. I have been suffering from fissures for a few years and its always raw and itchy. Also after reading this book I realize I have chronic anal tension, meaning my anal muscle is always tense. Obviously both not good for anal sex. If I had 1 regular partner that was truly patient and gentle I might be open to trying.

***When men ask me…and its the funniest when they are vanilla and clueless to my bdsm side…if I like anal, I alsways say I love giving. The look on their faces is precious. Usually its confusion and if they smart it leads to understanding and avoiding me, or they are into it and have a million questions. But for me I am not a fan of recieving….but a bit curious.

So back to the book. It is written by a therapist who specializes in anal health. He has led researches for decades and knows his, pardon the pun, shit! The book is well written and it is in laymens terms. But it can be a bit dry. It reads like a therapy book which just happens to reffer a lot to anal health and play. At no time will you take this book to bed with you for a masturbation session.

Had I been the editor I would have skipped a few chapters about some research analysis and sociological theories. But the progression of the self-help chapters is excellent. He dicusses the beginings of anal exploration, experimenting with butt toys, and all the way to full anal penetration. All steps are divided into chapters that include exercises to learn to relax and explore you asshole. Every chapter’s exercise pushes the previous one a little bit further…but only if you are ready. There is a lot of emphasis that you should only do the exercises if you want to for you and if you are ready. Also strongly suggested is writting in a journal. I actually thought it was an excellent idea considering his approach.

The author covers almost everything you may ever want to know about the ass. He even claims his exercises can heal medical problems if not interested in the sexual aspect. So try it to cure your hemorrhoids, fissures, constipation, etc. There are however 2 things I beleive he skipped over. He talks a lot about the complexes we have towards the clealiness of the ass but he could have gone more into details. He sort of says “get over it, its not dirty” but lacks in giving proof. Second thing I would have liked to have info on is if there is any harm in overdoing anal penetration. A gay friend of mine is very anxious of loosing control of his anus in later years.  I think its a genuine concern that should have been addressed. Although the book was updated, it could be reviewd a bit more. It was written in 1998 so it talks about AIDS a little too much. Don’t get me wrong, AIDS and HIV are huge problems to this day, but you can tell its outdated as the book was written during the crissis. Other then that he covers safe anal sex perfectly.

For the sake of the review I did read through the whole book in one shot. I do plan on going back to the exercises and exploring my anal pleasure as he describes. Where did I put my personal anal plug again? But as I read it I became very aware of my anus and did some relaxation of it a bit. I am also much more conscious of my stool cycle and my actual defecation process. Yeah I know sounds gross but but your health is directly related to how your stool comes out, both in performance and result.

I recommend this book to anyone who wants to learn more about how to receive and give anal pleasure in the safest and most enjoyable way. You will learn a lot about yur body and your mind when it comes to your and your partner’s anus. The book is aimed at all genders and sexual orientations. I give it a 4 1/2 starts out of 5.

Mystress Lady Evyl

Picked by a random  Random Number Generator Website

Min: 1 Max: 37
Result: 2

Out of 37 entries, the 2nd entry is the winner. Congrats Truly Shae

…who has won the queer sex DVD Crash Pad Series: Rope Burn, volume 4 (a $40 value) plus a 20$ gift Card for Babeland

Thank you Mystress Lady Evyl and Babeland.com for making the contest possible.

I have a nice little prize up for grabs:

The queer sex DVD Crash Pad Series: Rope Burn, volume 4 (a $40 value) plus a 20$ gift Card for Babeland.com (US and Canada)
You can read my review of it here!

How to enter the contest? EMAIL me at kinkysexlink at gmail.com the 2 pieces of info requested below. Comments left on this post are not elligible, you must email me.

• Go to the video’s link above and complete: “As with all Crash Pad films, the chemistry is undeniably electric, thanks to………..”
• Go to my review link above and tell me who I find too cute.

Contest ends Aug 31th, 2009 at midnight PST. A random correct entry will be drawn Sept 01st 2009.

Mystress Lady Evyl and Kinky Sex Link

I have a nice little prize up for grabs:

The queer sex DVD  Crash Pad Series: Rope Burn, volume 4 (a $40 value) plus a 20$ gift Card for Babeland.com (US and Canada)
You can read my review of it here!

How to enter the contest? EMAIL me at kinkysexlink at gmail.com the 2 pieces of info requested below. Comments left on this post are not elligible, you must email me.

• Go to the video’s link above and complete: “As with all Crash Pad films, the chemistry is undeniably electric, thanks to………..”
• Go to my review link above and tell me who I find too cute.

Contest ends Aug 31th, 2009 at midnight PST. A random correct entry will be drawn Sept 01st 2009.

Mystress Lady Evyl and Kinky Sex Link

Want to win $125 worth of sex toys? Read here on how to participate

Only a few days left….Contest ends August 31, 2009

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