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The whole team at KSL wants to wish all our readers a very merry and

May you have a wonderful and safe time

celebrating with your kinky and vanilla families

x-post from Lady Evyl

No, I am not talking about needle play. I am talking about another craft gone fetish: Knitting! Yes you read it right. Yes I can knit and crochet. Another way to corrupt my crafty gift.

A member of my Fetlife groug, BDSM Toy Craft Corner, posted about a naughty knitting book coming out and asked if anyone already had kinky knitting projects to share until she recieved her online order book. Well that occupied most of my Sunday afternoon on Google: searching for the BDSM knitting Holy Grail. Let me share some of my finds with you:

Click on the image to bring you to the page with the pattern instructions.

Great for those on the poor side who need to make kinky gifts! Happy knitting

Mystress Lady Evyl

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x-post from Lady Evyl

I have searched high and low for instruction to make a full leather hood without success. Really, I looked once in a while for a couple of weeks. Then I turned to my BDSM Toys Craft Corner group on Fetlife for help. Again, had some great suggestions but no one had A to Z instructions.

Well I gave it a shot with the ideas I had and now I will tell you how I did it. Hopefully many of you can benefit from it as well. It really helps if you know a bit about sewing. You will have to figure some thing out for yourself.

Now keep in mind that these instructions are to make a CUSTOM FITTED HOOD for the person who will wear it…and probably no one else. I tried this hood on others without success. Or you may make one and find you Cinderella sub for a glass slipper BDSM substitute lol.

1. Get some saran-wrap, tape, and rounded-edge scissors.

2. Time to mummify your head. Wrap your head up with saran-wrap completely. Make sure you have 2 layers when all done. Along the way make whole for you to breathe (its not a breath play session, you are making something here) and you can also cut out the eyes to see what you are doing.

3. Get your tape out and tape your head completely up everywhere. Cover all the saran-wrap. Again make holes to breathe.

4. Make one cut long enough to remove the hood. Tape the cut up. So now you end up (see pics below) with the 3D shape of your head.

5. Cut it into 3 pieces as show below. You will have a long rectangle (side and top of head), the front and the back. It won’t be flat. So make slits in the patterns to get a flat piece (see PINK arrows). Now you have a basic flat pattern to use.

6. Cut a rectangle that is about 4-5 inches wide and the length of the back of your hood. This will be the flap at the back.

7. Place your pattern on your leather and draw out our shapes.

8. Add a seam allowance, about 1/2 in everywhere, even on the slits…except on the big back closure slit. Add a few inches in length to the rectangle (mine was to short and I had to add a piece). Cut out your pieces and slits.

9. Star sewing up all your slits…except on the big back closure slit.

10. Sew the flap to the inside of the back piece (see blue lines above)

11. Sew your 3 pieces back together. For the back closure just fold back about 1/2 in and sew it down for a clean edge. The neck part may be a bit uneven so cut around it to make a straight line. I added a band of black leather for trim, just folded in half for a clean finish.

12. Cut out mouth, nose (a triangle) and eyes. For the mouth and eyes make tiny slits and fold back to sew the edge clean. The nose you need to add a bigger triangle sew into the two top triangle lines….cause if you just make a little hole your nose will be squashed inside. Anyways that is what I did.

Now you have the basic hood sewn up.

13. Time to make the back closure. I punched small holes every 1 inch and then attached little eyelets. Lace with a shoe lace.

14. If desired, make separate blindfold and mouth piece and add snaps so you can attach them to the hood for a sensory deprivation experience.

Here are pics of the finished hood

Mystress Lady Evyl

Panting rapidly, legs trembling and eyes trained on Him, her heart is filled with absolute devotion as she awaits the next stroke. His broad back is to her and she knows that when the sting of the last one begins to subside, He will turn to face her, having decided where the next one will land. Her sex is hot and wet to the touch. She knows this because she is holding her right hand firmly between her legs. Just a few moments ago He’d been so close to her. The heat from His body warming her air chilled flesh. His mouth mere millimeters away from her ear, he’d whispered, “Mmmmmm my little pet…” the puff of air hitting the tiny hairs of her ear made her shiver and break out in goosebumps, “…you will leave your hand where I have placed it until I am done. Nod your head if you understand My instructions pet.”

She had nodded immediately.

“Very good pet…” He’d said slowly in the low and gravely voice that she’d now come to associate with His most intense moods.

She desperately wants to hold still… she WANTS to please Him. She’s been able keep her hand in place thus far, but He’d only just landed the second stroke across her left thigh. Even this early on, she had almost faltered at the sudden intense shock of it.

Her thoughts are broken when she sees Him begin to turn. His movements are slow and deliberate – He knows what the anticipation does to her. He rushes nothing. His eyes come up to meet hers and she smiles. She smiles even though her left thigh feels like it’s on fire. She smiles even knowing that He is about to deliver another stroke. She smiles because in His eyes she sees herself. His one. His pet. His adoration. His love ….

“…Close your eyes pet…..” He whispers into the silent room with a smile.

As her eyes close, she can only hear her own breathing. Her right hand working in and around her drenched folds. Her body beginning to tense… her sensations sharpening… waiting… Small beads of tears form at the corners of her tightly closed eyes as she can feel her orgasm building… so close now… if she just…

“CRRRRAACCCCKKKKKKK!!” The sound reverberates around the sparsely furnished room. The initial sensation is sharp and unmistakable… White light flashes behind her lids as she bites her lip to keep from screaming out. She couldn’t scream, even if she was told to… the air in her lungs seems to have left her. At this moment, the burning begins… She knows it will only be seconds before the intensity peaks, becoming almost unbearable and it’s this thought that makes her hand falter slightly… but not imperceptibly.

“CRRRRAACCCCKKKKKKK!!” This stroke was laid down expertly beside the last one. Thousands of tiny hot tendrils spread out from the source, joining together to become a single intensely burning area on her right upper thigh. She barely hears Him when he verbally reprimands her for her lapse. All she can sense is the searing pain on her thigh and the even closer orgasm as she frantically rubs that sweet spot between her legs, not daring to stop because she knows she cannot withstand another strike so soon and she doesn’t want to end this… yet.

She feels something graze her thigh but it’s a mere whisper compared to what she’s feeling higher up her leg. Her mind registers this new touch to be that of her Master’s hand, which instantly doubles her pleasure while not dulling the pain in the least. An exquisite combination! By the time His hand reaches hers to take over for her, she is already crashing into her first orgasm.

He firmly slides His other hand up her back along her spine to just above the nape of her neck, folding His fingers into the hairs there and closing His fist. Ever so slowly He begins pulling her head back while growling to her what a good girl she is. All at once He thrusts two fingers inside of her, pulling her closer to Him with the pads of His fingers firmly against the inside of her pubic bone. He pulls her head back sharply and begins to pull her toward His body over and over again. Within seconds she is cumming again, this time soaking His hand and thigh. The hot liquid makes her thigh burn even more brightly and she winces but does not stop. Neither is He stopping … he is relentless and by the time he is finished with her they are standing in a puddle of quickly cooling fluid…

Her mouth is parched, her eyes are mostly closed, and she’s still breathing too quickly. But she’s not concerned and even manages a smile, for she is in His arms. He supports her body and strokes her hair and whispers to her.

He reaches under her, lifting her effortlessly … and simply stands in place with her. Alternating His glance from the abused red skin of her thigh, to the flushed skin of her cheeks and lips. As His eyes travel up along her face, His gaze is returned by hers. She opens her eyes a little wider only to have them partially closed again by her growing smile. He doesn’t attempt to hide His own smile because he cherishes her more than anything in the world. She – along with her love, adoration, and trust – is the most precious thing He’s ever had and He tells her so just before sealing His lips against hers while inhaling deeply.

Every week there will be a BDSM question asked here at KSL. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. Leave a comment here, or post the answer on your own blog! Be sure to come back and let us know where to find it!

This will be a regular weekly addition to the site, come back often and see what people have to say!

This week’s question:

How has BDSM enhanced your relationship?

Kitten of Kitten's Paw Prints in Slavery

In this second installment of our weekly Twisted Fetish Interview, the lovely Kitten graces us with stories and information about her kinks. Kitten is also chooses to submit, although she identifies as a slave, which means that she offers even more power and control to her partner, Master Coyote. You can read all about Kitten and her BDSM experiences at her blog, Kitten’s Paw Prints in Slavery. Be sure to also read the previous entry, which is an interview with Nadia West who blogs about her experiences as a submissive woman at Diary of a Kinky Librarian.

Kitten enjoys a wide range of kinks, from bondage to blood play. As always, this is about peeping inside your kinky neighbor’s relationships, and not meant as a how-to. It’s also worth noting that this interview is meant for grown-up eyes, as the wording and content gets a touch explicit. Woo-hoo! We’re excited to post all about it, so dive in after the jump!

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A bucket list is a list of things you want to do before you die.

Have you got a BDSM Bucket List? Share some items on it please?

Mystress Lady Evyl

Cross-posted from The Glow Inside…

Lickorish.com is a curious site indeed; imagine erotica conceived by Lewis Carrol and L. Frank Baum, and you are part of the way there. Some of the work makes me think of signboards for a Barnum and Bailey circus sideshow, but then, some of it wouldn’t go astray in an Art Nouveau exhibition, or even hung alongside M. C. Escher or Andy Warhol, and some of it is just…itself.

Is the creator a man or a woman? Yes, is the cheeky answer given in the Q and A section. Whoever it is, they have a fine eye for the female form, and don’t mind showing men in sexually subordinate positions, but will also portray women in bondage if the mood strikes them. So I am guessing it’s…a woman. Or a man. If you can’t tell, it shouldn’t really matter, but still, I am curious…

One aspect of this work I particularly like is the way that ‘erotica’ is depersonalized through the use of a style suggestive of old-fashioned modernism and mass production, and ‘kink’ is almost de-kinkified by being used as insignia for advertising. This is not done in a way that makes the viewer feel used or betrayed, or that kinky sexuality has been used to manipulate them into buying a consumer product. Instead, the style assists in the depersonalization of the submissive subject by rendering them as objects not only of the power of the dominant figure, but also of commercial exploitation, and of our own gaze.

The submissive figures on the site are often depersonalized to the point of being only semi-human, by being rendered as a conglomerate of body parts, or as human furniture; the dominant figures, although usually pictured as whole and normal, are also highly impersonal, their gazes uncaring and inhuman, their pleasure private and internal. This is perhaps the most highly stylized and ‘mass-consumer’ view of female dominant sexuality I have ever seen. Some images here are taken from the member’s section. It’s free, but you need a password to get in there - this is obtained by e-mailing the artist and awaiting a response. In addition to the more ‘risque’ of the drawings, you will also get to take a look at the more revealing photo manipulations; another aspect of the artist’s style. Here, s/he gives full rein to the fragmentation and distortion of the human form into shapes that are at once submissive and provocative: There’s plenty more, but hopefully you are curious enough now to head on over and see for yourself.

One final word - the artist has a Cafeshop site selling not just private wear like boxers and thongs, but very public wear such as t-shirts and hats, as well as mundane items such as coffee mugs, mouse-pads and even lunchboxes kitted out with kinky / female dominant insignia. The sexy thing for me about this aspect of Lickorish is the way the taboo against female dominance hasn’t so much been challenged as blithely ignored, as though it never existed. It asks us: “what could be more normal, more embedded in popular culture, than a dominant woman?”

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