While I love writing about sex toys, my true love is erotic fiction. I will appear several times on Beth Wylde’s Yahoo Group this month talking about GLBT issues and promoting my books, in particular “Feral Heat” (m/m/f, m/m), “Lost In Her Mouth” (f/f), “Neighbors” (f/f), and my upcoming June 11, 2010 release “The Fountain Of Youth” (m/m).

Here’s the link to Beth’s Yahoo group:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bethwylde

My release party for “The Fountain Of Youth” will be on Beth’s group on June 24, 2010 from noon until I drop. I will host a contest and a lucky winner will get a FREE copy of “The Fountain Of Youth”!

Look for more contests during the month.

Here are dates. Mark your calendars!

June 07 – GLBTQ open discussion
June 11 – Release Date – “The Fountain Of Youth”.
June 14 – Gay male fiction day – win a free copy of “Feral Heat”!
June 15 – Bi writer’s day
June 21 – F/F day – contests! Win free copy of “Neighbors” and “Lost In Her Mouth”.
June 24 – My chat day with contest! Win a copy of “The Fountain Of Youth”
June 28 – GLBTQ BDSM day

I’m looking forward to talking to all of those who love GLBTQ fiction.

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Historical Menage A Trois

I recently had a new release in the Once Upon A Threesome Anthology. The title of my short story is, “Barabbas! Give Me Back My Barabbas!” Trying my hand at historical erotic fiction required a lot of research, but in the end I had a lot of fun writing it. Once Upon A Threesome is available at www.ravenousromance.com and is currently sitting at #1 for the bestseller category for the week.

Below is the sell copy:

Historical threesomes – who imagined how hot this subject could be?

In this delightfully wicked anthology, you’ll find threesomes of all types from a range of historical time periods and settings. Hot M/F/M cowboy menage? It’s here. Wild M/M/M medieval threesome? Check. From hot vintage Hollywood to a triple lesbian story right out of “Mad Men,” Once Upon a Threesome has a story for everyone.

Contributors include:

Jen Bluekissed

Jay Hughes

Kristabel Reed

Em Brown

K.T. Grant

J. Schrade

Janet Post

Jo Atkinson

Courtney Sheets

Cathleen Ross

Rebecca Leigh

Melanie Thompson

Garland

Elizabeth Coldwell

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My readers know that I write more than erotica and erotic romance. I’m also a sex writer. In fact, I think I do more sex writing than erotic romance writing. I just started writing for Good Vibrations Magazine, published by the sex toys company Good Vibrations, so I invite you to come check out my articles. Want to read fun articles about sex? Check out Good Vibes Mag!

Here’s the link to my Good Vibrations page, including links and excerpts from all my articles:

http://magazine.goodvibes.com/author/elizabeth-black/

My First Post – Talking ‘Bout Sex, Money, And Raising A Son

My son, who will go by the name The Royal Spawn since my blog is called The Countess, is in college now. He’s had a long-suffering attitude about my sex writing, as in he knows about it but I don’t go into detail because he says it’s TMI. (If you don’t know what TMI stands for, Google it.) When he last came up to Massachusetts from college in Maryland to visit for winter break, I showed him my first book in print form and I was very excited about it. So was he and he was very happy for me, but he backed off and said “but it has naughty words in it”. He wouldn’t touch my book with a ten foot pole.

Lack Of Integrity In Integrity Balls

Purity balls are all the rage. Girls pledged to their fathers that their hymens would remain intact until they married some guy who wasn’t under nearly the same pressure to remain “pure” as they were. As I have previously noted, teens who made abstinence pledges are almost as likely to be infected with a sexually transmitted disease as those who never made the pledge. So much for the effectiveness of purity balls and abstinence pledges.

Don’t forget to read my articles at Sexis Magazine and Alternet.

Elizabeth Black – Alternet
http://www.alternet.org/authors/11032/

Read my article about getting over the G-spot. Here’s the link and a blurb:

Why We Really Need To Get Over The G-Spot
http://tinyurl.com/ykkm6um

Once again, sex experts are arguing over women’s sexuality, and as usual they ignore what women actually say about their sexual arousal and orgasms. This time, English and French sex experts are grousing over whether or not women have the fabled G-spot. The English say no and the French say yes, prompting a commenter on the blog Pandagon to describe the peek-a-boo games the G-spot plays with sex researchers as Schrödinger’s G-spot: “It both exists and doesn’t exist at the same time and the act of observing it changes it.”

Elizabeth Black – Sex Is
http://www.edenfantasys.com/contributors/elizabeth-black/

My latest article is about figging, which I enjoyed very much.

http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/figging-0102101/

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e[lust] Me 12

Posted by Mystress Lady Evyl on Wednesday Apr 28, 2010 Under e[lust]

Photo courtesy of Emmy

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #13? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

FleshHer mind awash with the thought of fucking. The smell of his scent stirring her cunt, her skin alive and encased by lust.

Putting energy inPlay is energising, at its best; so when both of you are tired, sex or spanking can be a way to get away from it all, rejuvenate your emotional connection and stimulate body and brain with a flood of hormones and endorphines.

A Rude AwakeningIn the depths of the night, I half wake to the feel of her cool skin wrapping itself around my back. Soft breasts pushing against my ribs and her groin moulding itself to my buttocks.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Shouldn’tIt always starts off so inconspicuously. Innocent, like the sort of teasing that might occur now and then between any other pair of friends who share a hint of attraction to each other.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

ComfortShe’s so strong and yet, when we lie down together, she makes herself small and vulnerable for me. ”Hold me” she says in a tiny voice

See also: Pleasurists #73 and #74 for all your sex toy review needs.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Writing

Back Story

bodystocking blowjob

Bella Durmiente

Began my day

Bubbleland

Current events

Fiction: Growth

First Meetings…

Game On

“I want your cock in my mouth”

“Make Me”

Mauled at Noon

Monday Morning Flash – “Bathtime”

musing/not asking

Negotiations

Oh, What a Night

One Last Surprise

Over-Ruled?

Park ‘N Ride Me

Slut with Wine Bottle

Stardust

Satin Met a Laddie

Unravelled

Wednesday meeting with V

Kink & Fetish

BDSM Advice Series: Gags

Domme for a day

FetInRealLife #12 – DIY Flogger

First Memories

Impact

Last Night

New friends and intense, sweaty, loud orgasms

Out with the Old, in with the New

Sluts, Squirts and Swing Clubs

Steel

Submissive Skills: Hunt Slut

Trust

taking her as My girl, discovering the Dom within

“Welcome to SpankingCast, our spanking podcast”

Sex News, Interviews, Politics and Humor

Building Community for Sex-Positive Sexuality Professionals

Soaking — Marinating in the Cunt of Christ

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Gay Pride

Going Bareback

I Can’t

Ladies, what do your genitals say about you?

My Identity is Erased

More Bad Advice

My Rape Story

Read and you may learn…V-massage

Psychology of Rape Fantasy- An Overview

Support Survivors

Top 10 Good Things About A LDR

You Shur Got a Pretty Mouth

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I’m Featured Author At Dark Diva Reviews

Posted by elizabethblack on Friday Nov 27, 2009 Under Books, Erotica, The Countess - Elizabeth Black

I am the featured author at Dark Diva Reviews today, and DDR is showcasing my paranormal erotic romance THE HAUNTING OF THE SANDPIPER INN. Read a blurb, an excerpt, and enter the contests for a chance to win a free copy of my book! The contest runs through November 2, and the winner will be notified November 3.

Come over and hang out. Make sure you leave a comment so that you will be eligible to enter the contest.

http://ddrreviews.blogspot.com/2009/11/feature-friday-elizabeth-black.html

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Story of O(bjectification)

Posted by selkie on Monday Jun 22, 2009 Under BDSM
Ok, I know it’s not Thursday but I’m ranting regardless.

I don’t like the Story of O.

There I’ve said. Has the universe trembled? Has the world staggered in its journey around the sun?

I think Sir Stephen is a LOUSY master and in some ways, characterizes all the WORST characteristics of a bad dominant.

Not only does he not personally oversee a lot of the humiliations that are vested on her (thus placing her in potential danger physically), he is unconcerned and uninvolved with the possible impact on her psyche.

Not to my mind, the personality traits one would seek in someone who is to become the focus of your entire existence.

I won’t even waste my breath on what I think of Rene – wuss that he was.

I could never understand the fascination O had with Sir Stephen, the deep and intense regard she continued to accord him – but it tells me there was something seriously askew about her personality and speaks to me of a frightening lack of perception and insight on her part.

The reality is that while O mistakenly read into Sir Stephen’s prurient and sexually-complicit domination a depth of engagement of thought and emotion that never existed, Sir Stephen was (to my mind) well aware of her fascination and obsession and used it to manipulate and force her into situations that were potentially harmful to her on many levels – physically, mentally and spiritually.

I do not in any way dispute the right of a dominant in a relationship to push, encourage, demand certain concessions and acquiescence from his submissive; in fact, a good dominant is conscious of and active in, pushing limits and creating emotional spaces in which the submissive can expand and grow spiritually, physically and mentally.

But there is (again my opinion only) a commensurate understanding that her wellbeing on every level is always a factor to be seriously considered and taken into account – it is called a “dynamic” for a reason – there is, after all, supposed to be a ‘give and take’ – not just a take, take, take.

It always astonishes me how anyone into kink even on a peripheral level fastens on to the Story of O as the penultimate ‘love story” of the D/s or M/s relationship.

The REALITY is it is anything BUT.

On the one hand, it is more than likely a very good mirror of many relationships I do see out there – relationships wherein one partner is ALWAYS the taker and the other ALWAYS the giver. Relationships where narcissism, self-obsession and selfishness are prominent and a true balance sadly absent.

On the other, the reality is that O is simply a toy to Sir Stephen, one to be used and played with and then discarded with nary a thought – after all there are many other toys out there. And had she sought that type of relationship (for there are individuals who seek that level of objectification and find in it answers the emotional need deep within), then that would be fine. But O did not seek to be a toy but rather a cherished, beloved part of his life.

And in the end, even her request for death (as she finds herself unable to live without him and has been discarded), is treated in a cavalier and dismissive fashion.
So screw you Sir Stephen – you aren’t a dominant, you aren’t a Master – you, like many out there, are simply an abusive, self-centered little boy.

and don’t get me started on Anais Nin ….

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Cucumber

Posted by Kinkysexlink on Thursday Jun 4, 2009 Under BDSM, Kikimuse

I’m excited because I’m going to the beach for a picnic with this cute girl I like, though I don’t know her very well. She’s about my height, with dark brown hair, grey eyes, full lips and the sweetest figure… just turned 30 yesterday, and laughing that she’s no longer a kid. Mmm, I have a huge crush. I’ve packed a lunch, and I swing the cooler at my side as we leave the car and head for the secluded part of Little Tribune Bay on Hornby Island. I’m taking her here because even if there’s someone else around, no one minds if you take off your swimsuit, heh heh. I can always hope!

We find a nice flat spot on the sand not too far from the water, and spread out our blanket, pull off our shorts and tops to expose our skimpy two piece suits, and immediately start slathering on the sunscreen. I watch under lidded eyes as she rubs it over her barely covered luscious breasts, just about faint when she asks me to do her back — just about die when she does mine!

We lie back, side by side, eyes closed, on the blanket. Murmer softly, listen to the waves. No one’s around. I’m floating on a cloud of her scent (coconut sunscreen and a light musk). I drift. Only to start awake on hearing a THUNK: my darling opening the cooler. “Hungry?” I ask? “Yeah,” she says, “you lie there, I’ll get us some lunch, since you were so sweet as to pack it for us!” She laughs lightly and I lie back, feeling anything but hungry (at least, not for food). “Ohh, this cucumber is nice and cold; you’ve kept it next to the ice! I’m sooooooo hot, I think we’ll eat this first!” I hear her rummage, find the cutting board, the knife, and peek to see her settling beside me, cross-legged, with the large crisp green english cuke I picked out at SaveOn yesterday grasped in one fist.

“Mmmm, don’t you use cucumber as a beauty treatment — put it on your eyes or something?” I hear her slicing… hold my breath. “Now you lie still, don’t open your eyes,” she has laughter in her voice, silvery and cool as rain, “I’m going to give you a facial!” I squeeze my eyes shut and try not to squirm! Ecstatic, I feel her place two cool discs on my eyes. “Hm,” she says, as if pondering, “you feel hot. Maybe I need to put more of these nice cool slices on you…” And slowly, with a light but sure touch, I feel her place more deliciously icy discs on my mouth, my neck, and down my chest… “Shhhh,” she murmers, as a little moan escapes, “you ARE hot, I think I’m going to have to take off your swimsuit,” and I feel the front hook of my top pop open, cool fingers and juicy cuke slices slide over my very erect nipples. “These won’t stay on!” she laughs. “Lemme just make them into rings,” and I try not to shake too hard with delighted laughter as she slips cold little cucumber donuts over each pert tit. I sigh and stretch slightly as she places more slices down my middle, my belly… and then she reaches my bikini bottom.

“Well, this may as well come off, too!” and she undoes the side strings, eases it down. I’m so wet I can hardly stand it, but I lie as still as I can, playing her game and loving every minute of this. I can just imagine her now naked breasts swinging tantalizingly over me as she bends to reach the last cool disc from the cutting board. She runs her hands up my thighs, not parting them but probing, and then — slides an icy slice between my incredibly hot lips, back and forth while she laughs and says: “You look like an antipasto plate, darling! I think I’m going to have to eat you al fresco!”

And I can’t help it: my back arches, cucumber bits spill everywhere and I’m lost in a wave of pleasure as her lips and teeth meet that last slice, tongue darting to taste the cool-hot salty mixture within…

I open my eyes, and she’s smiling at me, mouth moist, still munching. “Well,” she says with a twinkle in her eye, “that was yummy, but I’m still a bit hot and hungry! How about you slice me some of that watermelon?”

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Does the sound of the scene below make the blood rush to your groin? It was written by Paige Tyler, an erotic romance writer who specializes in spanking stories.

She had chosen to wear the pencil slim skirt because of the way it showed off her curves, but she hadn’t realized just how sexy it was until she heard her boyfriend’s indrawn breath as the material pulled tight across her upturned ass. She couldn’t help but tense a little as she felt Nik’s hand settle firmly on the small of her back. Her pulse raced with anticipation as she expected his other hand to come down on her derriere at any moment. But instead, Nik gently ran his hand over her bottom.

Jennifer bit her lip to stifle a moan. Unable to help herself, she pushed back against her boyfriend’s hand, silently begging for more of his wonderful caresses, only to let out a startled, little, “Oh!” of surprise when his hand came down on the seat of her skirt with a resounding smack!

If you are game for a good smacking, read some erotic spanking stories to each other before embarking on the wonderful world of spanking. Are you squirming in your seat, imagining the feel of a wide hand coming down on your bare bum? Spanking can be very sexy. It’s not only for naughty little rug rats. Turn me over your knee, and have your way with me!

Submit to your desire to be a slave to your master when you get spanked. Or enjoy the role of dominatrix when you bring your BRAT paddle down on your submissive’s plump bum cheeks. The power differential inherent in spanking is very sexy for both people involved.

The type of implement you use affects how pink or even red your bum cheeks become. Quite often just using your hand isn’t enough, especially with someone who is spanked quite often. If you want to see a cherry pink bum that is warm to the touch, get a light wood paddle like oak, and make sure it’s thin. When you smack down with that paddle, it will sting like the dickens, but the pain is part of the spanking enjoyment. Your bum will also go from white to red immediately. The longer you spank, the longer it takes the red to fade.

For a deeper, more intense red, try heavy wood and leather. Try a belt or a leather strap that goes across both cheeks. It may take a bit longer but the color will be deeper and last a LOT longer. The benefits are that your bum will tingle longer and be more sensitive to subsequent smacks, and that blood also rushes to the pussy and dick, making them feel even more sensitive than usual. Pain and pleasure go together. There’s nothing as good as hot sex after an intense spanking.

The excerpt is from Paige’s story “Librarian By Day”. Buy it from Whiskey Creek Press Torrid: Librarian By Day, Paige Tyler

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Would you tackle a rape fantasy in one of your stories? How about an adult male having forced sex with a teenaged girl? Those are two story lines I’ve run across over the past month, which made me think about exactly where erotica and erotic romance writing is going. I personally am not turned on by the extremes in the genres that I enjoy so much. Also, since I used to work in family law and child welfare as an activist and political writer, nothing nauseates me more than child rape, paedophilia, and incest. So any story that smacks of paedophilia will get a quick Red Light from me. Those kinds of stories appeal too much to the sickos out there who refer to people who try to help abused children as “child savers” who don’t “understand” the difference between love and abuse. Makes me want to puke.

I have been given a reviewer’s copy of the book “Wetlands”, which has been a sensation in Europe, and is now released in the U. S. Whilst it is hailed as a sensation by some reviewers, others have called is poorly disguised porn. It’s a very frank discussion of a young woman who is initially hospitalized after a pubic shaving accident, and it’s supposed to be a quite sexually graphic depiction of her life. No problem there. That’s why I requested it. Once I read it, I’ll add my own thoughts. I like reading very sexually graphic books because they’re entertaining and I often learn something very revealing about myself and about society in general from them. How we react to graphic sex tells us a lot about ourselves. This kind of graphic sex seems to me to be different from the taboo sex I talked about at the beginning of this post, though, but the reactions are very educational.

I publisher I won’t named recently has been criticized for publishing these kinds of taboo stories. One web site that published such a story without knowing what it was getting itself into had removed the post, and the author complained about censorship. At least the author was given the right to voice an opinion about the matter. Lots of authors aren’t given that much. Another incident involved the aforementioned publisher that had been the subject of complaints because of the taboo subject matter behind some of the stories it had published. Why this publisher was under the gun made me wonder, since other publishers and books with similar subject matter had not received complaints, so I don’t know what the big deal was.

The main point here is how much is too much? I remember a writer saying that a few years ago you wouldn’t have read an anal sex scene in a story. I’m not sure how accurate that was, but I understood the point. These days, anal sex scenes are commonplace. Menage wasn’t also as popular years ago as it is now. It’s actually growing into a rather hot genre. I really don’t see a problem with any sex act as long as it is between consenting adults. As I said, the only ones I have problems with are child rape, incest, and paedophilia. I really don’t have a problem with forced rape fantasies because I understand the difference between actual rape and the rape fantasy.

I’m working on a novella called “Dangerous Curves” that is a sexually candid journey of a young woman’s sexual exploits during the Big Hair 1980s in the U. S. She is a sexually free spirit who does not want to be tied down, and the men around her aren’t used to seeing a woman like that. While they enjoy her body, they want to keep her for themselves, and at the same time they expect to be allowed to play the field. The book explores the double standards about men’s and women’s sexual explorations, thoughts about virginity, playing the field, infidelity, power plays in sexuality, older men/younger women, cougars, and sexual independence. I hope to have the book finished by the end of spring, and by then I will submit it to publishers. This book is very sexually graphic, and it is not a romance. Is sex for sex’s sake too much, especially if the character enjoying sexuality without romance is a woman?

How far have you gone in your stories? What have you read that you thought was over the line? Have you ever received complaints that any of your stories have crossed the line? Are some sexually graphic stories really meant to shock rather than to make the audience think? What do you think?

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Art of Mars

Posted by glowinside on Friday Mar 6, 2009 Under Cunnilingus, Erotica, Mayhew

There’s a Ukrainian artist going by the name of ‘Mars’ whose stuff is up over at Artmam.com. I’m not a big fan of many of the works  – a lot of it is a bit cheesy, and the style is very photo-realistic – but there’s some images that have D/s overtones or connotations, in particular, this image, Lost Inside You, which I have seen all over the internet in a variety of contexts:

I dig this. I had in mind this as an avatar at one point but eventually opted for the reclining legs instead. The thing is, I saw it long before I knew it was by Mars. I’d bet most people who have seen this have no idea who did it either. That’s the risk of internet fame, I guess. The image has become completely separated from the reputation of its creator, and is carried along by its own power.

Anyway there’s a few more that are worth a look, but there’s nothing like Lost Inside You, which is a real one off. I wonder if he copied it from another image?

SM.

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