Prickly Christmas Tree

Posted by Mystress Lady Evyl on Saturday Dec 24, 2011 Under BDSM, Events, Mystress Lady Evyl

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

Play piercing needle Christmas tree by Me, Lady Evyl, on my sub.

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Sadistic Goldwork with MzAntonina

Posted by Mistress160 on Saturday Aug 6, 2011 Under CBT


this is an edgeplay post

please don’t read

if you are not interested in:

medical play

needle play

blood play

butterfly boarding

Sol and I spent last weekend at MzAntonina and AnGall‘s lovely home in Sydney (observant readers might note a change of name there, for MzAntonina’s partner … it’s a Fet name change not a partner change, and I’ll update the blog as fast as I can to reflect it).

MzAntonina has become infamous on this blog for her sissy tea parties as well as this chemical play / urethral torture scene and this very popular CBT needle scene. In fact needle play is a particular art of MzAntonina’s, in several different ways. I knew she’d be interested in our recent butterfly boarding scenes, and sure enough we negotiated a butterfly board scene for Saturday afternoon … albeit butterfly boarding with a … er … twist *grin*.

We installed sol face up and unrestrained on MzAntonina’s massage table, wearing some pretties:



In terms of a board we continued our research into cork boards and also used a small board cut from a square of new carpet, used upside down. I wanted to see how this worked re how much”give” the needles made when they were inserted:



We decided on the same 21 gauge needles as we used last time. Here is MzAntonina placing her first few needles:



The square of carpet actually worked well:



We worked our way around the scrotum:



Then stopped for a little sensation play on the shaft:



I played with sol’s nipples:



While MzAntonina dragged her fingernails over his tortured bits:



We then added the five headed wartenberg wheels to the game:



Now it was time to start working on the “twist”. MzAntonina got out her the gold thread and began winding it around needles:



She created an intricate pattern:



Back and forth, and again:



Pretty, isn’t it? We then stopped taking photos for a while as we inserted needles up sol’s shaft. Sol said later “the needles themselves were painful in the scrotum but not too bad up side of the shaft”. MzAntonina then began to wind her gold thread up the shaft:



Then she looped the gold thread around a needle:



And began to decorate sol’s pegged out genitals with green and gold beads:





Here’s the end result:





We admired this for a while and then MzAntonina picked up the gold thread spool again:



And began wrapping more gold thread:



around the tops on the needles:



Inspired by a scene with Daddy_K she slowly began to tighten the thread:



Tighter and tighter:



As with Daddy_K’s nipple trick (which used dental floss) MzAntonia’s gold thread began to force the needles inwards:



Until sol’s cock and balls looked swollen, within their golden jeweled bindings:



The skin forced out by the pressure of the gold thread on the needles:



Sol said later “when the (gold) wire was tightened it felt like it was cutting like a knife“. Eventually the tension was released:



And the decorations removed:





Both MzAntonina and I admired the look of bright blood against the gold thread:



A final alcohol swap wipe down:



I then let sol come:



Sol’s final report on the day: “nice” (said with a fiendish grin). Both MzAntonina and I were very pleased with the scene. “But what should I call the blog post?”, I asked MzAntonina, “butterfly boarding doesn’t really cover it!”.

“Sadistic goldwork?” she suggested. Done :)

Thank you:

to the extremely artistic

MzAntonina

Photos:

Ms160

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Butterfly Boarding with Avika

Posted by Mistress160 on Tuesday Aug 2, 2011 Under Uncategorized

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On Sunday our friend Avika invited us to her home for an informal butterfly boarding skillshare. You can read about sol’s and my first attempt at butterfly boarding here. I do suggest a read of that post if you are not familiar with the technique, as it provides quite a lot of background. For a good “how to” post about basic needle play, try this one.

Both Avika and I were keen for some butterfly boarding practice, and sol was keen to lend his bits. So after a pleasant hour chatting and munching on cheese and biscuits (and making sure sol had drunk lots of water as he often is found to be dehydrated when we do needle play scenes) we stripped sol down to his “pretties” and had him lie face up on Avika’s extremely comfortable massage table.

In that first post I went into some detail regarding the kind of “board” we used:

“Hygienically you want something you can throw out afterwards, as there will probably be serious amounts of bodily fluids. Midori says she’s seen “dense foam core to nylon cutting board material sawed to shape used for this [and also] the gauge of the needles would make a difference in terms of the material for the board”, which is worth remembering.

“Sol cut a panel from the (unused clean) blue foam mat from our camping kit, and then cut a round hole into that piece”

This time we’d zipped into Bunnings on the way to Avika’s and purchased some cork floor tiles. Why cork tiles, you ask. Well, tiny corks are commonly used to cap needles during needle play scenes, to avoid needle stick. MzAntonina and I had done a “test run” scene of needle caps a while back. I wrote then:

“We’d both been wanting to try out the various styles of needle cap and this provided an excellent opportunity. First we capped our needles with cork, then silicone (yellow) and rubber (black):


“We found cork the easiest to use, although of course they are single use so more expensive in the long run”

I’m aware there has been some discussion about microscopic bits of cork (and also Styrofoam, which some people cut up and use as tiny caps) being dragged through the skin when the needle is removed, causing inflammation. This is why some people prefer rubber or silicone. However I’d not heard any more about this and I remembered how MzAntonina and I had found “cork the easiest to use”, by which we meant we found the needle tip went into it easiest.

Which meant a cork tile used for butterfly boarding should also work well, and hold the needles nicely. I thought I’d use today’s scene as a cork tile “test run” and keep an eye on sol’s cock and balls afterwards.

At about $10AUD for a pack of five tiles they are also cost effective and can be thrown away after a scene. They come in sealed plastic so are clean. The surface is smooth and of course being cork they are easy to cut and shape. Here is sol wiggling his cock and balls through the hole he cut with a kitchen knife:


And here’s the end result:


We still had concerns about needle stick and the rigidity of the board. I think next time two or three cork tiles together would solve those problems, but this time we placed the wooden Ball Presenter underneath the cork mat and placed some hemp rope on one side underneath.

Avika took a position on sol’s right and I stood on the other side of the massage table. We snapped on some of Avika’s black gloves and both wore head torches for greater illumination. I took photos during the scene, so all the hands you see in the photos below are Avika’s :). I think the black gloves are very sexy, in these photos they almost look like leather.

I wiped down the cork board and sol’s genitals with Medi-Swabs. We’d negotiated a scene where we’d start inserting needles at the base of sol’s balls and work upwards. Last time:

“I chose 23 gauge needles in part because I wanted something shorter and 23g are kind of “middle range” re thickness (see this post for our explorations with gauges)”

This time we went for 21 gauge, which were slightly thicker and a pretty green. As I had liked the uniform look of only using one type / color of needle last time we did that again this time. It’s also easier when your start if your needles are all the same length, you get a better idea of how deep they are going. But I think now we’ve had more practice, next time we might try lots of different length and gauges and see how that goes.

I inserted the first needle in an upright position at the very base of sol’s scrotum, our two head torches providing enough illumination to highlight sol’s tiny veins. We then began working our way around. Here’s Avika putting in her third needle:


Within a couple of needles sol was groaning and gone … we didn’t even need to restrain him. We encountered a little blood but not much:


We agreed that sol’s balls were definitely encouraging a heart shaped design rather than a circle:



Look at Avika’s evil grin!:


I think we felt the same as I did during the first butterfly boarding:

“What was I feeling during all of this? Extremely focused. Turned on, absolutely, but focused and careful and in control and powerful and focused … and amazed at how (as alexpierce once told me) putting needles through the male shaft and foreskin is truly like putting needles through butter…”


The nice thing about having another dominant there was that we could discuss ideas and things we’d learned. For example, I shared what I’d discovered the first time I’d tried this technique:

“I soon realized I was going to encounter a major problem. The skin of his balls constantly moved, expanding and contracting. The needles were literally being pulled out of the foam base.

“I altered my game plan – rather than thinking of each needle as something static that once placed didn’t move, I now went back and slightly moved the tip of each needle in the foam, every time sol’s balls changed size … Interestingly when I looked at the foam pad after the scene those first needles had been moved up to fifteen times. But the new game plan worked…”

So we did the same thing this time – moving the tip of the needle in the cork board when the angle got too severe…

Here are the balls completely “pegged”:


Another angle … don’t you love the way the skin has lifted?:


About now we were joined by our friend Chillax, who enjoyed watching the rest of the scene. I seem to remember there being a lot of laughter during the scene, with sol happily groaning in the background!

We began working our way up the shaft:


Sol’s penis almost completely vanished at times so we staked him out via his PA ring with a needle:


That definitely worked to keep him in position:


We checked underneath … some needle points were coming through. They were only hitting the wooden Ball Presenter, but it means we need to reinforce the cork tile next time:


Another close up of a needle:


Here Avika puts in her final needles:


And as a final touch I removed the needle holding his cock in place, poked his cock head down and with a clean needle speared the center of his foreskin:


Final photo, with 41 needles I think:


Here’s a detail:


We three ladies chatted for a while, while Avika and I tweeked a few needles to make sol moan a bit more. This one shows Avika’s lovely work:


All too soon it was time to remove them. I don’t have any photos of their removal because we were very wary about a bleed and so I took out the needles quite quickly (straight into our sharps container) while Avika held absorbent cloths ready to catch any bodily fluids.

However I’ve learned now that if you have time you can really spin out the removal process. Sol responded very strongly to each tweek and spin (needles can become slightly sticky if they have been in a long time – spinning slightly in both directions helps unstick them) as well as each needle coming out. You could extend this for ages. I also made him thank me for each removal.

To try and avoid any cork going into the wounds I held a Medi-Swab where the needle entered the cork tile, wiping the needle tip as it came out of the cork tile before passing through sol. When the needle was out completely I held the Medi-Swab against the wound. The astringent effect of this increased sol’s enjoyment. So again … something you could really extend if you had time.

When all the needles were all out I swabbed down sol’s genitals again, and dried him off. I then removed the cork board by simply ripping it into several pieces while still on sol, and dropped the pieces (stained with pre come and a bit of blood) straight into the scene rubbish bag.

Once sol was back with us it was time for some long conversations, some excellent red wine and a rather good pizza. We staggered home at 11pm and just fell into bed. What a perfect day … we must definitely do it again soon, Avika :)

AFTERCARE

As I wrote above we used this scene as a cork tile “test run” and kept a close eye on sol’s cock and balls after, for any inflammation. We were expecting a bleed when we removed some of the needles because of these kinds of skin swellings:


However there was no bleed (much to Chillax’s disappointment!) which made checking sol for inflammation easier, as the bruising was much less. Day one there was no bruising and the wounds were healing well:


Day two bruising is appearing:


And a couple of the wounds were looking a bit angry:


We Betadine-ed the area for a couple of days. To be honest I’ve seen more inflammation after other scenes where cork wasn’t used, so we’ll definitely try the cork tiles again for butterfly boarding.

I’ll update here if anything else happens but at the moment I think sol’s bits will be in good condition for this weekend, when we stay / play with MzAntonina in Sydney :)

Thank you:
Avika de Vine
http://www.mistressavika.com
+
http://www.schooloferoticarts.com

Chillax

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Ms160

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Needles, nipples + floggings with Daddy_K + wolve

Posted by Mistress160 on Thursday Jun 2, 2011 Under Play Parties
Daddy_K working on sol’s nipple


One of the nicest things about last weekend (which was filled with nice things :) ) was having some time with our friends Daddy_K and wolve.

wolve (who came on the scene after sol and I moved north, and became a member of the House of Wafflé, which AugustusSeizeHer discusses in his Fet profile text here) I first got to know a little through MsGawjusRedhead‘s phone calls. I think she was at The Gathering, but we didn’t actually meet until MsGawjusRedhead’s funeral and wake late last year. Whenever I see wolve pick up a cane I know MsGawjusRedhead still lives.

MsGawjusRedhead was also the link that introduced us to Daddy_K, who I first met at a Black Sash Salon in October 2008. I posted about that event:

“As always Black Sash Salons have a great relaxed atmosphere. Only twenty people attend, so it’s a small enough group to sit around the living room. Some people I knew well, and it was great to catch up. Others were new to me, and I hope some will become friends. One couple was at their very first BDSM event :).

The… Black Sash topic … was “Taking pains”:

“What’s the role of pain in your play? How does pain contribute to the scene? How do you process pain into pleasure or satisfaction? What techniques do you have for incorporating pain effectively, or processing it well”

As the invitation states, contributions are:

“an important part of the evening and everyone is encouraged to do so. Your contribution can take the form of: some thinking (notes, essay up to 1000 words), photos, demonstrations, performances, art, readings, conversations – anything you think will illuminate the topic.

“If it’s your first time at the Black Sash Salon, feel free to wait this one out, or if you like, you can contact one of us to discuss what your contribution might be. There will be a prize for the best contribution.”

“What to contribute? Pain would have been a great topic for sol, as he is wonderfully articulate in describing how pain feels to a masochist. But as I was there alone I decided to use the opportunity to discuss the challenges of living with a severe masochist and ask other dominants whether they had similar experiences, and how they met those challenges.

“This is a subject I am usually wary of raising. Terms like masochist and sadist are greatly misused in the scene – everyone wants to be one, but few truly are. On occasions when I’ve try to talk about such issues with other kinksters, my simply raising the subject is seen as a sign of my own inexperience, and force is offered as the solution to my “problem”.

“But the group at Black Sash Salon were more experienced than that. Also there were several friends there with whom we play, who confirmed sol’s high pain threshold (MsGawjusRedhead actually recalled something I’d forgotten – the time we played together when sol’s asscheek muscle collapsed). As expected, the responses to my questions ranged from thought provoking to practical, with some wonderful examples of really fiendish things to do during play suggested by a new friend, Daddy_K *happy sigh*…”

When I next saw sol I was full of stories about Daddy_K, this amazing woman I’d met at Black Sash. She was the most fiendish of sadists, I told him. What did she look like, he asked, with fantasy visions of elegant tall dark vicious Dommes in black leather in mind. Er, not like that, said Ms160. Sort of small and cuddly with a great laugh. He blinked.

Finally, at another of sol’s birthday weekends in Sydney (May 2009) we were able to attend another Black Sash, which Daddy_K also attended:

“My friends had a very full house on Friday. As always there were new friends to be made and old ones to greet. I was pleased to see Daddy_K, a very experienced sadist and respected member of the Australian kinky community, who has given me so many fiendish tips to torture sol.

“The discussion topic of Friday’s Salon was “Making an impact: Impact play can range from the lightest flicks of a finger on bare skin through to vicious beatings. … What does impact play do for you? Is it about the violence, the sensation, the control.. or something else?”

“We had some really great presentations on the topic, and some interesting dialogue resulted…. The last presentation was Daddy_K who did a short flogging scene with MacTheKnife. I love watching her work, she enjoys herself so much. Her face simply glows with delight. As she flogged c with a variety of implements she told us the things that made impact play work for her : the smell of leather, of sweat on the body of the sub, the importance of touch (soft and sensuous and hard as nails as she brings her hands down flat on MacTheKnife’s back), and that feeling of rightness that I know so well, when you land the perfect strike, when the flogger tails fall just so…

“Afterwards I asked Daddy_K whether she might like to borrow the birthday boy for a flogging. “It’s an almost virgin surface”, I told her, “I’ve done a little flogging but I’m no expert … he’s also experienced a single tail twice (here and here)”.

“If I remember rightly he’s got a high pain threshold” she mused. “Oh yes”, said Ms160, by which – one dominant to another – I was confirming that Daddy_K could have some fun… “

After that scene, sol understood that “short and cuddly” did equal “fiendish sadist”, and believe me, he’s NEVER forgotten her laugh! For the rest of that scene, including some great photos, you’ll need to head here. But here’s one quote from that post, which gives an idea of the kind of skills I was learning just by watching her:

“I love how Daddy_K uses her hands. I’ve seen some dominants do a flogging and never touch a sub. But with Daddy_K … well it’s funny … I would have told you I took lots of photos of the scene but I don’t have a single photo of her actually flogging sol (which she did perfectly, that’s the only word to describe it). Instead, every photo shows her touching his back – in many different ways – between the strokes. Which sums up her technique and her delight in interacting with the canvas of the art work she is creating. And she really is an artist.


“Look at her face in these photos, readers.

“I swear to God, Daddy_K was having such a good time, it was like I’d let a gleeful fiendish pixie loose on my boy”

We met that “gleeful fiendish pixie” for dinner Thursday night in Newtown, and caught up on all her news. She and wolve were coming to the tea party on Saturday, and as wolve was serving we had a few protocol / limits / possible punishment topics to discuss.

I also wanted to ask a favor, about one of those “wonderful examples of really fiendish things to do [to severe masochists] during play” she’d mentioned the very first time we’d met.

She’d asked if I was into needle play and back then I wasn’t, but I was always interested in any play ideas or techniques she wanted to share, so asked her to elaborate. She did. The resulting extremely erotic image she created in my mind, of sharp needles, and nipples, and dental floss … well, it never went away.

Now, years later, I was more experienced with needles. The idea of recreating something that had first come alive in my mind during a Black Sash event also appealed on a weekend when we were having a tea party to remember MsGawjusRedhead. Would Daddy_K be kind enough to show me exactly how to do this technique?

Would she ever.

So we made a play date for Uberplay, after the Tea Party. Which was a pretty amazing start to our kinky day.

This was not to be our only interaction that night. MistressVelvet, who had attended MzAntonina’s and my tea party, had an interest in Florentine flogging. wolve very generously offered to demonstrate her skill, and Daddy_K very generously offered some of wolve’s precious play party time. They then needed a back … so of course I loaned sol’s…

Sol really enjoyed wolve’s skill. He later thanked her on Fet for “a superb flogging on Saturday night :)” and he doesn’t write things he doesn’t mean. wolve wrote to me later that sol’s long back was suited to Florentine flogging and I’m sure he’d be first in line for lots more. He can’t get it from me. As I wrote said to MistressVelvet (and also said to Daddy_K when we were watching wolve flogging nightobeisance at MsGawjusRedhead’s wake) I just can’t do it. I don’t have the rhythm. But in wolve’s hands those matched floggers flowed like music.

Afterwards Daddy_K picked up her floggers, just to keep sol’s attention properly focused. Sol was restrained against a structure made of metal bars. Our plan? To push him far enough to make him lift up both feet and curl them up against the bars. I think it took about 5 minutes :)

wolve then had a caning scene with MzAntonina. I helped with a tiny bit of double caning at the end, but actually I shouldn’t have, because MzA was nicely warmed up and in a fast rhythm. I wasn’t and I was also using an unfamiliar cane (very nice one, though). Daddy_K (who is on a private campaign to reduce sloppy playing at public play parties) quite rightly called me on one stroke that was too high, so I left wolve to MzA and went to check if the medical room was free.

It was, but our kinky camping colleague Master_Peterau arrived while I was there. I asked him how long he planned to be and he said half an hour, so I said okay, we’d be the same. He wasn’t quite ready so we went in first. Huge thanks to the respectful and courteous Uber staff member (who I met at The Gathering but who’s name I can’t remember) who helped us set up and then very kindly provided cups of tea for Daddy_K and our tea party guests :).

He also checked for us whether we could take photos. Usually you can’t of course, but I presume in the medical room staff can at least close the door, which sensibly not only stops camera flashes disturbing other players in the darkened main rooms but makes sure people who don’t want to be photographed, are not accidentally included. So the following excellent photos very kindly taken by MistressVelvet are entirely thanks to him :).

In the first photo Daddy_K and I (wearing the enormous Large size gloves provided in the room!) are discussing and negotiating the needle play scene over sol’s body:


We were aiming for a ring of needles around the nipple, their tips pointing it. Daddy_K said “hmmm, for most first timers I insert about 4 needles per nipple but for sol, let’s start with 8″. Under my hands I could feel sol sigh happily!

Daddy_K asked which gauge needle we used most at home (23.5g) so we then used those. She swabbed sol’s chest with Betadine and then placed her first needle. I followed:


After the second needle I had to take the gloves off, they were so big I was getting close to getting a needle stick injury:


Then I remembered I had one last pink pair from MzAntonina’s special Breast Cancer awareness box of gloves, in my black leather pilot’s bag. This seemed fitting, I thought, as I snapped them on and placed my fourth needle:


And another:


Our rings of needles complete, I gave sol (who we discovered was extremely dehydrated) a glass of water:


I’m going to show the next series of photos slightly out of sequence. Daddy_K actually did this first on sol’s right nipple, to show me how to do and what was going to happen. Then I did the left nipple. But I’m going to run both sets of photos together so you can follow what happened visually. First, Daddy_K showed me how to wrap dental floss around the needles:


Then we begin to tighten the floss. When I had fantasized about doing this (after Daddy_K outlined the technique at Black Sash) I had imagined the sharps driving into the nipple. And this certainly happened, with wonderful noises from sol:


However something else happens, as you kept tightening:


The needles are forced upright and into a bundle, and then driven downwards … making the entire nipple disappear:


The rush that went through me was as intense as when I first put needles into sol’s cock head. We then pulled the needle bundle out:


Daddy_K then showed us a second needle technique, where she layered four needles on sol’s chest:


And then wrapped floss around them tightly:


Sol was in agony during this. He later thanked Daddy_K:

“for a vicious flogging and a wonderfully exquisite needle play scene! The bruises (from both) are delightful”

He was very proud of his marks from this scene. Here they are the first night:


And the second, where you can see the bruises are coming up very nicely on his chest:


If you turn him over you find these marks from wolve and Daddy_K’s floggings. First night:


The bandaids are protecting the holes from his recent flesh hooks. You can just see the almost healed holes in the photo from the second night:


I also included this photo of sol’s evening ritual obeisance the second night, because not only are the marks nice, you can also really get a sense of what wolve meant by his long back being good for Florentine flogging!:


What an amazing night sol was (we all were) having … and it wasn’t over yet…

Thank you:
Daddy_K and wolve

Really, words fail.
Thank you for so many great memories :)


Photos:
MistressVelvet (at Uber)
Ms160 (sol’s marks)

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Staked Cock (Butterfly Boarding)

Posted by Mistress160 on Saturday Apr 23, 2011 Under Blood Play, CBT


This post is about Edgeplay

Please don’t view it if you are
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Easter having put me in the mood for nailing things, I decided it was time for some more CBT needle play. I wanted to combine this with objectifying and disembodying sol’s cock and balls, and “stake out” sol’s genitals.

At the time we did this scene I didn’t know that this type of “stake out” had a name: butterfly boarding. Which itself is a form of impalement play, and of course is also edgeplay. I agree with Mistress Sade (who’s wonderfully illustrated post I discovered after this scene, when I went to write my own post up) who says you need an experienced teacher. It’s now four years since I put my first needles into flesh, two years since we started attending needle play workshops and one year since alexpierce instructed us re male genital piercing. Since then we’d been enjoying adding to our CBT needles experience (see here and here). We were ready to try “butterfly boarding”.

The board can be any flat material to which the male’s scrotum can be nailed or pinned with needles. Some kinksters even use “electric butterfly boards” (also here). Hygienically you want something you can throw out, afterwards, as there is probably going to be seriously . Midori says she’s seen “dense foam core to nylon cutting board material sawed to shape used for this [and also] the gauge of the needles would make a difference in terms of the material for the board”, which is worth remembering.


Sol cut a panel from the (unused clean) blue foam mat from our camping kit, and then cut a round hole into that piece. I didn’t measure it, but it needs to be individually sized. db noted re his scene with Mistress Sade:

“I then bought the foam-core and cut out the hole. Working very precisely, using a ruler, compass and Xacto knife, I cut a two inch round hole in the 3/16 inch thick foam-core board”

Our foam was not quite sturdy enough, so we hauled out the wooden Ball Presenter. Placed under the foam, it would hold sol’s genitals in place while I practiced some fiendish needle play:


Here’s the final installation:


If you’ve not read about us playing with the Ball Presenter before you might like to read some posts here and here :)

We then lay the blue foam panel on top of the Ball Presenter and sol pulled his cock and balls through the hole. Once he was lying flat and comfortable on our bed, I restrained his hands via the cuffs to the chains above the bed, and I tied some black hemp rope around the foam panel to keep it in place:


I’ve always loved the way the Ball Presenter objectifies and disembodies sol’s cock and balls, and the foam did the same. I equally loved db’s description of his own scene, when Mistress Sade:

“pulled my genitals through the hole in the board. The butterfly was pulled through the cocoon of the hole and emerged into the world. NOW, that is the definition of an offering – her own little toy butterfly presented on a white platter”

I chose 23 gauge needles in part because I wanted something shorter and 23g are kind of “middle range” re thickness (see this post for our explorations with gauges). db also noted that Mistress Sade used “20-25 gauge needles in a variety of different colored needle hubs”. I wanted a uniformity of color hub, so was happy with the blue hubs of the 23 gauge, as they matched the color of the foam.

For a good “how to” post about needle play, read this one. I cleaned my hands and surfaces with antibacterial wash (I didn’t worry about wearing gloves because we are fluid bonded) and then wiped over the area I planned to work with alcohol swaps:


I began to insert needles in an upright position at the very base of his balls:


Sol found those first needles “sharp and ouchy but bearable”. I continued to insert them around the base of his balls, but soon realized I was going to encounter a major problem. The skin of his balls constantly moved, expanding and contracting. The needles were literally being pulled out of the foam base.

I altered my game plan – rather than thinking of each needle as something static that once placed didn’t move, I now went back and slightly moved the tip of each needle in the foam, every time sol’s balls changed size:


Interestingly when I looked at the foam pad after the scene those first needles had been moved up to fifteen times. But the new game plan worked. I was able to continue my “stake out”:


Every now and then I would use another alcohol swab:


The final ring of needles around his scrotum number nineteen:


As you can see, sol still has a great hard on. It looked so amazing with the needles around the balls that I masturbated him for a minute or so, moving his foreskin up and down his straining shaft:


I knew his hardon was amplified by the Ball Presenter. Shortly after sol politely informed me that his balls were becoming too painful from the lack of blood flow, so as this pain was not the point of this particular scene I undid the Ball Presenter underneath the foam pad … you can see a corner sticking out in the photo below:


While that stopped the pain, the blue foam was still providing enough restriction to help maintain his erection. And that wasn’t the only thing. He said later that after about 16 needles he started to relax and breathe through each needle’s insertion and process it as sensation rather than pain. The resulting sensation was simply erotic … thus the hard on remained!

But as you can see in the photo below, when I tried to insert needles down the side of his cock, the hardon really caused me problems:


His cock was lifting and pulling the needles out from the foam. So I commanded him to get rid of the hardon. He did a great job because a moment later his cock looked like this!:


I went back to work, placing the needles along his shaft. Sol didn’t find these as intense as the needles in the scrotum. 30-something male (from femdom-resource) wrote this about his butterfly boarding scene with Lady Lydia:

“Putting the needles in place down the shaft is quite intense from a psychological perspective, but doesn’t actually hurt as much as you’d think it might. However, the final few in the head of the cock, the two yellow and six blue needles behind them in this shot, really do hurt as they go in. Luckily they were done at the end, when I was already awash with endorphins and adrenalin”

As I placed the needles up the left side of his cock I noticed we had our first blood spots for the scene:


alexpierce prepared me for blood when placing / removing needles from the male genitals, and I’ve always been grateful for that warning. We don’t mind a bit of blood play, and neither do our play partners, but it’s unnerving the first couple of times, you do worry you’ve caused damage. But I’ve learned now that sol bruises, then heals, and we’ve never done any permanent damage.

I’d been pulling sol’s foreskin forward, the last couple of needles … and now it was time to place the two needles actually into his foreskin:


Don’t they look stunning?


Sol said later those foreskin needles placed him in a real predicament … he wanted to be hard but not too hard because of pulling the shaft needles out of the foam, and at the same time he didn’t want to get soft because the foreskin needles pulled on the foreskin:


Kind of “predicament impalement” instead of “predicament bondage” *grin*. Here’s almost the final product, just one needle to go yet:


What was I feeling during all of this? Extremely focused. Turned on, absolutely, but focused and careful and in control and powerful and focused … and amazed at how (as alexpierce once told me) putting needles through the male shaft and foreskin is truly like putting needles through butter … so smooth a glide, so perfect the impalement as each needle tip was caught bright and beautiful and pure, within the bright light of the camper’s torch on my forehead:


I think db gets things right in his description of his scene with Mistress Sade:

“Even now I can only imagine the sense of power, and pure sadistic pleasure she must have felt. Slowly pushing the needle through that most sensitive part of this male’s most precious and sensitive organ. I ponder the elastic resistance that the tissue and skin gave as she pierced through, then the sound of the crunch as the needle continued on into the foam of the board. It must have been delicious. My conscious and senscient submission to it was delicious as well”


And here’s my final needle, inserted into the foreskin at the top, right near the frenum:



A final twiddle of the scrotum needles to make all were in place and upright:


A final play with the foreskin / frenum needle:


And here’s the finished “stake out”:


The final number of needles was 34. I was happy with this, for a first “butterfly boarding”. Sol, meanwhile was still flying from the endorphins….

After taking some photos I began to remove the needles:


Blood was minimal until this one in the shaft came out:


I’d nicked a vein. After we’d wiped the worst of the blood up, I masturbated sol:



Who came very quickly …. funny that!


His orgasm was “extremely intense, it felt like we’d been building up to it four hours”. We quickly cleaned up and fell back into bed … it was all pretty intense for me, too :)

In terms of aftercare, I photographed the trouble spot a few times, to provide a visual reminder of an area to avoid:


Then we cleaned sol off and applied Savlon to all the open wounds. The next day sol’s “marks” from that one spot looked pretty impressive:


But there’s no pain. The only soreness is in the scrotum “if you pinch the skin, it’s hurts a bit … similar to recently when I spent 24 hours in a ball stretcher”

So would we do it again. “Of course :) ” says sol. “Absolutely”, says Ms160, “that was fun!”

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Staked Cock (Butterfly Boarding)

Posted by Mistress160 on Saturday Apr 23, 2011 Under Blood Play, CBT


This post is about Edgeplay

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Easter having put me in the mood for nailing things, I decided it was time for some more CBT needle play. I wanted to combine this with objectifying and disembodying sol’s cock and balls, and “stake out” sol’s genitals.

At the time we did this scene I didn’t know that this type of “stake out” had a name: butterfly boarding. Which itself is a form of impalement play, and of course is also edgeplay. I agree with Mistress Sade (who’s wonderfully illustrated post I discovered after this scene, when I went to write my own post up) who says you need an experienced teacher. It’s now four years since I put my first needles into flesh, two years since we started attending needle play workshops and one year since alexpierce instructed us re male genital piercing. Since then we’d been enjoying adding to our CBT needles experience (see here and here). We were ready to try “butterfly boarding”.

The board can be any flat material to which the male’s scrotum can be nailed or pinned with needles. Some kinksters even use “electric butterfly boards” (also here). Hygienically you want something you can throw out afterwards, as there will probably be serious amounts of bodily fluids. Midori says she’s seen “dense foam core to nylon cutting board material sawed to shape used for this [and also] the gauge of the needles would make a difference in terms of the material for the board”, which is worth remembering.


Sol cut a panel from the (unused clean) blue foam mat from our camping kit, and then cut a round hole into that piece. I didn’t measure it, but it needs to be individually sized. db noted re his scene with Mistress Sade:

“I then bought the foam-core and cut out the hole. Working very precisely, using a ruler, compass and Xacto knife, I cut a two inch round hole in the 3/16 inch thick foam-core board”

Our foam was not quite sturdy enough, so we hauled out the wooden Ball Presenter. Placed under the foam, it would hold sol’s genitals in place while I practiced some fiendish needle play:


Here’s the final installation:


If you’ve not read about us playing with the Ball Presenter before you might like to read some posts here and here :)

We then lay the blue foam panel on top of the Ball Presenter and sol pulled his cock and balls through the hole. Once he was lying flat and comfortable on our bed, I restrained his hands via the cuffs to the chains above the bed, and I tied some black hemp rope around the foam panel to keep it in place:


I’ve always loved the way the Ball Presenter objectifies and disembodies sol’s cock and balls, and the foam did the same. I equally loved db’s description of his own scene, when Mistress Sade:

“pulled my genitals through the hole in the board. The butterfly was pulled through the cocoon of the hole and emerged into the world. NOW, that is the definition of an offering – her own little toy butterfly presented on a white platter”

I chose 23 gauge needles in part because I wanted something shorter and 23g are kind of “middle range” re thickness (see this post for our explorations with gauges). db also noted that Mistress Sade used “20-25 gauge needles in a variety of different colored needle hubs”. I wanted a uniformity of color hub, so was happy with the blue hubs of the 23 gauge, as they matched the color of the foam.

For a good “how to” post about needle play, read this one. I cleaned my hands and surfaces with antibacterial wash (I didn’t worry about wearing gloves because we are fluid bonded) and then wiped over the area I planned to work with alcohol swaps:


I began to insert needles in an upright position at the very base of his balls:


Sol found those first needles “sharp and ouchy but bearable”. I continued to insert them around the base of his balls, but soon realized I was going to encounter a major problem. The skin of his balls constantly moved, expanding and contracting. The needles were literally being pulled out of the foam base.

I altered my game plan – rather than thinking of each needle as something static that once placed didn’t move, I now went back and slightly moved the tip of each needle in the foam, every time sol’s balls changed size:


Interestingly when I looked at the foam pad after the scene those first needles had been moved up to fifteen times. But the new game plan worked. I was able to continue my “stake out”:


Every now and then I would use another alcohol swab:


The final ring of needles around his scrotum number nineteen:


As you can see, sol still has a great hard on. It looked so amazing with the needles around the balls that I masturbated him for a minute or so, moving his foreskin up and down his straining shaft:


I knew his hard-on was amplified by the Ball Presenter. Shortly after sol politely informed me that his balls were becoming too painful from the lack of blood flow, so as this pain was not the point of this particular scene I undid the Ball Presenter underneath the foam pad … you can see a corner sticking out in the photo below:


While that stopped the pain, the blue foam was still providing enough restriction to help maintain his erection. And that wasn’t the only thing. He said later that after about 16 needles he started to relax and breathe through each needle’s insertion and process it as sensation rather than pain. The resulting sensation was simply erotic … thus the hard on remained!

But as you can see in the photo below, when I tried to insert needles down the side of his cock, the hardon really caused me problems:


His cock was lifting and pulling the needles out from the foam. So I commanded him to get rid of the hardon. He did a great job because a moment later his cock looked like this!:


I went back to work, placing the needles along his shaft. Sol didn’t find these as intense as the needles in the scrotum. 30-something male (from femdom-resource) wrote this about his butterfly boarding scene with Lady Lydia:

“Putting the needles in place down the shaft is quite intense from a psychological perspective, but doesn’t actually hurt as much as you’d think it might. However, the final few in the head of the cock, the two yellow and six blue needles behind them in this shot, really do hurt as they go in. Luckily they were done at the end, when I was already awash with endorphins and adrenalin”

As I placed the needles up the left side of his cock I noticed we had our first blood spots for the scene:


alexpierce prepared me for blood when placing / removing needles from the male genitals, and I’ve always been grateful for that warning. We don’t mind a bit of blood play, and neither do our play partners, but it’s unnerving the first couple of times, you do worry you’ve caused damage. But I’ve learned now that sol bruises, then heals, and we’ve never done any permanent damage.

I’d been pulling sol’s foreskin forward, the last couple of needles … and now it was time to place the two needles actually into his foreskin:


Don’t they look stunning?


Sol said later those foreskin needles placed him in a real predicament … he wanted to be hard but not too hard because of pulling the shaft needles out of the foam, and at the same time he didn’t want to get soft because the foreskin needles pulled on the foreskin:


Kind of “predicament impalement” instead of “predicament bondage” *grin*. Here’s almost the final product, just one needle to go yet:


What was I feeling during all of this? Extremely focused. Turned on, absolutely, but focused and careful and in control and powerful and focused … and amazed at how (as alexpierce once told me) putting needles through the male shaft and foreskin is truly like putting needles through butter … so smooth a glide, so perfect the impalement as each needle tip was caught bright and beautiful and pure, within the bright light of the camper’s torch on my forehead:


I think db gets things right in his description of his scene with Mistress Sade:

“Even now I can only imagine the sense of power, and pure sadistic pleasure she must have felt. Slowly pushing the needle through that most sensitive part of this male’s most precious and sensitive organ. I ponder the elastic resistance that the tissue and skin gave as she pierced through, then the sound of the crunch as the needle continued on into the foam of the board. It must have been delicious. My conscious and senscient submission to it was delicious as well”


And here’s my final needle, inserted into the foreskin at the top, right near the frenum:



A final twiddle of the scrotum needles to make all were in place and upright:


A final play with the foreskin / frenum needle:


And here’s the finished “stake out”:


The final number of needles was 34. I was happy with this, for a first “butterfly boarding”. Sol, meanwhile was still flying from the endorphins….

After taking some photos I began to remove the needles:


Blood was minimal until this one in the shaft came out:


I’d nicked a vein. After we’d wiped the worst of the blood up, I masturbated sol:



Who came very quickly …. funny that!


His orgasm was “extremely intense, it felt like we’d been building up to it four hours”. We quickly cleaned up and fell back into bed … it was all pretty intense for me, too :)

In terms of aftercare, I photographed the trouble spot a few times, to provide a visual reminder of an area to avoid:


Then we cleaned sol off and applied Savlon to all the open wounds. The next day sol’s “marks” from that one spot looked pretty impressive:


But there’s no pain. The only soreness is in the scrotum “if you pinch the skin, it’s hurts a bit … similar to recently when I spent 24 hours in a ball stretcher”

So would we do it again. “Of course :) ” says sol. “Absolutely”, says Ms160, “that was fun!”

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Chemical play (the gift that keeps on giving)

Posted by Mistress160 on Sunday Mar 13, 2011 Under Blood Play, CBT
This post is about EdgeplayPlease don’t read it if you are notinterested in learning about:urethral playurethral soundsneedle playblood playmedical play
For some time now we’ve wanted to further explore urethral torture / CBT sensation play via chemical play. It has long been a fantasy of sol’s and mine. I always liked it’s potential, and was recently re-inspired by this great description on a Tribes thread on BDSM techniques:
“I love things that slowly heat and add to the intense buildup of heat via pain!”

Oh, yes….

Chemical play according to Wiki is “the use of balms and ointments such as Bengay, Icy Hot, Biofreeze, etc” (here in Australia we use Dencorub) to create sensations on a submissive’s body during a BDSM scene. But it’s more than that. This kind of sensation play can utilize a wide range of intense preparations / mild irritants, everything from menthol to toothpaste to wintergreen oil. We are also interested in using spices like cinnamon, eucalyptus, peppermint, chili peppers and ginger – spice play :). You can use these materials fresh or you can use condiments (including essential oils) made from them.Because this type of play interacts with other sorts of play – and because chemical play often gets called different things – we are going to be touching on other topics such as Food Play, Spice play, Irritant play, Abrasion play, etc.There’s not much written about chemical play. There’s not even a chemical play group on Fetlife! (actually there is: Spices, oils, roots and balms for sadism or sensual intensification. Took a bit to find, of course they couldn’t just call it “chemical play”! It’s well worth joining). I’ll keep researching and trying to find material but so far there’s just one organization doing workshops, one or two articles online, a couple of blog posts and some threads on various fetish / kink / gay forums etc. Oh, and LOTS of YouTube videos of vanilla idiots rolling in agony after putting various products on their balls.So I thought I’d turn a post about a rather good scene into a sort of BDSM For Beginners post, to try and collate a bit of the info that’s otherwise hard to track down. Also, because you need to take care with this kind of play. One of the chemical play blog posts I mentioned (Vince of Obedience Realized) has some great ideas and is definitely worth a read, but I disagree with one small part of his comment that:

“Chemical play is an extremely easy thing to add to play by a Dominant. It takes no skill, and is very effective”.

I know what Vince means here …. chemical play is not exactly Florentine flogging or needle play. But. If you are ever to move beyond using the smallest amounts possible, it DOES take skill. Or you will cause your sub agony well outside their limits. You need to familiarize yourself with the preparations and irritants you plan to use, and you need to spend time testing how those agents and irritants react on your sub. Putting all this info together into a scene takes skill.Chemical play is usually regarded as edgeplay. However you can make this kind of play as light and sensuous, or as edgy and intense, as you like. It all depends on what you plan to use, and how you plan to use it. In our case, because sol is a masochist and really enjoys this kind of thing, we can push the envelope a bit – with care we can create sensations not just on his body but slightly inside his body, in particular in relation to urethral torture.One thing it’s very important to stress with this type of play is that you not only need to pre test what you plan to use, you need to be aware that these types of irritants often take a while to build up their intensity … and equally take a while to stop having their effect. In some cases you can neutralize the sensation, but in others you have to cope with it until it fades naturally.As ausboy wrote on a Milovana forum thread “It burns and burns and there is no way to take it off you just gonna deal with the pain until it goes away“. But dark was absolutely correct when he responded “I think that is the turn on for most who use it. They give up the control about the pain and have to take it”.This touches on the mindset you need to reach for, during the scene. The extended intensity will also impact on your scene’s timing and construction. You may have finished playing and packed up and be ready to leave, while your sub is still in the zone dark describes! As Vince oh so accurately notes in his Chemical Play post:

“Chemical Play leaves a little gift that keeps on giving after the session is over”

And that is half the fun :).This BDSM For Beginners series style post is set out in the following sections:

  1. What we used
  2. The scene
  3. What we learned and want to share with you
  4. More about neutralizers
  5. Will there be a next time?
  6. What we’ll do next time

Like most BDSM For Beginners posts, this one is long. So treat it like workshop notes – read the hot scene in the middle and bookmark the rest for later, when you need more info for your own scenes.

WHAT WE USED

Having fantasized about chemical play for a while, sol shared with me some interesting ideas regarding food stuffs, and in particular various forms of chili pepper and hot sauces. When the opportunity of an afternoon’s play with MzAntonina arose over Mardi Gras weekend in Sydney, we arrived laden with goodies:And no, they weren’t to eat for lunch! The foodstuffs included:

  • fresh lemon
  • fresh ginger
  • three types of fresh chili, including locally grown jalapino and habaneros
  • wasabi (Japanese horseradish)
  • mild green Tabasco
  • red Tabasco
  • Mexican El Yucateco XXX chili sauce (picante habanero)
  • Mexican Cholula hot sauce arbol and piquin
  • Japanese La Yu chili oil
  • The Chilli Factory, Sydney’s Turbo Supercharge (Extremely Hot Habanero Paste)

The only non food item was a tube of extra strength Dencorub. Sol had used it before on his cock and found it very painful. I’d tried using Tiger Balm on sol without much success some years before, so something stronger was obviously needed….We had done some research into how to neutralize sensations if things got too much for sol. Keeping in mind milk and yoghurt often work well to alleviate chili based irritants (something about certain proteins soothing and reducing stinging and burning sensations) we brought with us fresh plain yoghurt.Products like Dencorub, Capsaicin and Bengay are pain-relief analgesic formulations used to relieve muscle aches and pain due to arthritis and strain. Bengay’s main active ingredients are menthol and methyl salicylate. Dencorub’s Extra Strength Heat Gel contains:

“26% methyl salicylate, which makes it a concentrated hot formula that gives hours of relief from pain resulting from sprains, strains, painful joints, muscular aches and pains, as well as Arthritis, Rheumatism, Lumbago and Fibrositis”

What’s happens when you apply these products is the menthol acts as a topical analgesic and provides the cool feeling and the methyl salicylate provides the heating by dilating the capillaries in the affected area, which increases blood flow to that area. When you apply them to the genitals – keeping in mind Hardy Haberman’s advice in Family Jewels (p.51) to not “use any of these compounds – Tiger Balm, Ben Gay, Icy Hot, or any other – as lube, within the urethra or rectum or on any mucous membranes” - they produce an intense burning sensation which some people may actually find pleasurable, and in some people may actually increase the duration of an erection. It’s the cooling effect of the menthol that is the last to wear off.We had several of the nastiest types of chili covered in our food range. Wiki says :

“There are five major species of Capsicum cultivars, and appear in many varieties. The hotness of the fruit is indicated in the Scoville scale, which ranges from no heat at zero to pure capsaicin at 16,000,00:
  1. Capsicum annuum, which includes bell peppers, cayenne, paprika, and jalapeños
  2. Capsicum baccatum, which includes the ají pepper
  3. Capsicum chinense, which includes habaneros
  4. Capsicum frutescens, which includes tabasco
  5. Capsicum pubescens, which includes rocoto.

The heat level of chilis is determined on the Scoville scale. Here’s wiki again:

“The Scoville scale is a measurement of the spicy heat (or piquance) of a chili pepper. The number of Scoville heat units (SHU)indicates the amount of capsaicin present. Capsaicin is a chemical compound that stimulates chemoreceptor nerve endings in the skin, especially the mucous membranes

“a sweet pepper or a bell pepper, containing no capsaicin at all, has a Scoville rating of zero, meaning no heat detectable. The hottest chilis, such as habaneros and nagas, have a rating of 200,000 or more, indicating that their extract must be diluted over 200,000 times before the capsaicin presence is undetectable”

In our sample to try today we had:

  • Jalapeño ( 2,500-10,000 Scoville Units)
  • Piquin (30,000-50,000 Scoville Units)Tabasco (30,000-50,000 SR) is native to Mexico but is now grown in large amounts in Louisiana by McIlhenny Company for the sauce of the same name
  • Thai 75,000 – 150,000 Thin fruit with a pointed tip. Often used in the cuisines of Southeast Asia, especially (as the name implies) Thailand.
  • Habanero (80-300,000+ Scoville Units). The latter featured in the El Yucateco EXXXtra Picante (more than 11,000 Scoville units). According to the El Yucateco website, the recipe is fashioned after Mayan tradition. It’s also called Kutbil-Ik, which means “crushed chili” in Mayan.

This was going to be fun…Despite how intense this sounds, it was important to keep in mind that the capsaicin in a habaneros was miniscule compared to the strength of pain-relief analgesic formulations. They needed to be utilized with care.

THE SCENE
Please note that a longer, more graphic versionof this scene appears on my private Edgeplay blog.Drop me a line if you’d like access.

MzAntonina had greatly enjoyed our last scene - which had concluded with some q tip play using isopropyl alcohol – and was delighted to play again. Sol said after that scene:

“it hurt like fuck :) :) :) :).”It was bright loud burny stingy pain. I’m not surprised I made a lot of noise. But one of the best things was the reaction from Mistress and MzAntonina: “gee that really seemed to hurt, let’s do it again!””I’m definitely looking forward to doing it again plus with other substances”

We were certainly happy to explore further. We negotiated a scene where sol’s genitals would first experience some needle play and sounding as preparation for sensation play with various hot condiments and fresh spices.This was what we called a testing session. Damage to delicate internal linings was to be kept minimal, but the idea was to explore the potency / strength of various irritants (ginger / chili / etc) within sol’s mucous membranes, to provide information that would be useful for future play.We also wanted to see how long certain products took to build and fade, in terms of sensation, and try out various neutralizers for effectiveness. As it was sol, we might push our explorations a little further, keeping in mind Brian’s comment on Tribe that:

“Even after sessions that were excruciating for those few minutes, I have had no adverse reactions, just some tenderness and pinkness but no harm. :)”

I directed sol to make several urethral size ginger plugs and chili strips. He also left several larger pieces for us to use as we desired. You can see them on the plate below. The white bowl contains just squeezed lemon juice:We also had on hand the yoghurt, tissues and damp face towels as neutralizers. Lemon juice has also proved effective, although we had that for a different reason…We set a timer, because MzAntonina and I do tend to get distracted, time wise and we had a deadline of about an hour or so, to allow time for sol and I to prepare for the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras Parade that night.We placed a black rubber sheet on MzAntonina’s massage table, told sol to strip and tied him to the table with black rope:I prefer using rope with carabinars for a restraint system with a quick exit, however I hadn’t brought them, so MzAntonia brought out black rope from her play box and tied it beautifully.We tied his hands behind his head and then gagged him:He said later that he “liked the gag”, it gave him:

“something to think about … it was uncomfortable enough that you had to focus to keep things together”.

Restrained in this manner, mouth gagged, how was sol to communicate a problem or safeword? We use a mix of hand signals (his hands were tied above his head but we could still see them) and of course – as you can see in the photo above – his facial gestures and noises can still indicate concerns.Out came our traveling needle play kit and MzAntonina’s sharps container:We wanted to start with needles because we thought once they were removed, the puncture wounds might respond in interesting ways to the various irritants we planned to introduce. Well, that’s our story and we are sticking to it. The fact we also really enjoy putting needles into male genitals has nothing to do with it….We snapped on some of MzAntonina’s great pink latex gloves. I’d like to stress here: NEVER ever play with these kind of irritants without gloves!We swabbed down sol’s shaft and started our row of needles about half way along, working towards the (more sensitive) top:We started with two 25 gauge needles and then two 23 gauge. We’d both been wanting to try out the various styles of needle cap and this provided an excellent opportunity. First we capped our needles with cork, then silicone (yellow) and rubber (black):We found cork the easiest to use, although of course they are single use so more expensive in the long run. We then placed a few needles under sol’s scrotum. Sol said later he found the scrotum needles “slightly sharper than on the shaft but not as intense as the head”:We wanted to insert some needles in his foreskin and shaft, but remembered the access problems we encountered last time. To avoid these we tied a black cord through his PA ring and tied it to his chest rope:This made his foreskin easy to pierce:We admired our work for a bit, then dribbled fresh lemon juice over the needles in his shaft:This caused a mild response. We then removed the needles in the shaft, allowing the lemon juice to drip into the holes:A much better response! To access the head of his cock we undid the cord and tied it to his thigh rope restraints, causing his cock to bend back like this:We each inserted a needle each:Sol reacted intensely as he always. You might recall sol said this, the first time I put a needle through the head of his cock:

“the sensation of the needles through the head is hard to describe …”the whole end of the cock is loaded with nerve endings, it’s not like skin of the shaft where you just have a pin prick at entry and exit. The skin at both ends of the head needle seems to be loaded with nerve endings. It feels like you are pushing the needle through a thick layer of nerve endings and everything tingles as it goes through this thick layer of sensation…”yes it hurts (like penetrating skin) but it also tingles and zaps almost like an electric shock … every needle also feels different, it’s like all the different nerve endings there create different intensities, a mm to each side would create a different effect…”

As I wrote on the same post:

“It was certainly intense for sol … as for me, I nearly came, just doing it! I punched one hand up in the air in a victory salute … yay!!! I’d done it!!! … and truly, I nearly came”

This time was just as good :). But this was just the “foreplay” of the scene. Now it was time to get out S(A)X’s incredibly useful urethral sound and enlarge the urethra…Both MzAntonina and I really adore sounding so I’m afraid I have no photos of our fucking sol’s urethra. Here’s one from our last scene:Sol said after that scene:

“it went in all the way …. I couldn’t feel it at the far end, like they say in the books it’s the first five or six cm of the urethra that has most sensation … but the feeling of fullness with the full diameter of the sound I almost felt like I was coming … the only other time you get that same sensation is when you are coming”

In this particular scene we also took the sound down the whole way, so we could enjoy fucking sol with it. However our main focus for the day was to widen the first inch or so, so we could insert various agents with ease.While MzAntonina had a turn I removed the needle play kit from between sol’s legs and brought the condiment plate closer:You can see to the left of that photo the lube we were using and the tiny Asian cotton baby q tips I purchase for CBT. These are so much more useful and more intrusive than the usual size in Western supermarkets.After a few minutes of fucking, sol’s urethra was nicely stretched. While MzAntonina held his cock steady I picked up the first q tip for the day and examined the contents of the plate. Choices … choices….As I mentioned earlier our last scene with MzAntonina had concluded with some q tip play using isopropyl alcohol, so we knew sol could tolerate urethral insertions with irritants. But the whole point of this scene was to work up to things slowly and obtain as much info as we could about sol’s responses to things. Refusing the urge to go straight to the fresh chilis, I looked at the milder irritants. I’d read that Tabasco sauce was potentially:

Very intense on labia or rectally on a butt plug. One bottom reports using a 1:1 dilution for ‘pleasure’ scenes and full strength for punishment scenes. Starts near full intensity and wears off over time or washing”

One man on Fet described a mixture of Tabasco and cinnamon as feeling “like hydrochloric acid was being poured into the tip of my penis”.Could be fun, then. I dipped my q tip in the mildest material on the plate: green Tabasco. I coated both sides of the q tip. With MzAntonina holding sol’s cock for me, I dabbed the inside of sol’s urethra with the tip…No reaction. Okay, then … I gently circled the the inside of sol’s urethra with the tip… Damn, only a slight reaction. So I picked up a clean q tip and dipped it in red Tabasco. Definitely a stronger reaction this time, but still not a major one.After to talking to sol later I think these condiments might have worked better if I had taken a moment to wipe away from the urethra any lube that remained from sounding. I could then use a clean dry q tip to abrade the top and inside edge of the urethra a little. I think any substances placed on q tips and inserted after that abrasion would “take” better. vampyrepain confirms this:

“The main reason that [inserting a q tip] is painful is because the fibers of the q-tip scratch your mucus membranes. Urine is very basic which makes it irritate the scratches as well as kill bacteria as it passes over your scratched urethra. Using irritants such as tabasco or alcohol on the q-tip just further the irritation, but they also lubricate so there isn’t as much scratching. For a really awful punishment that won’t be soon forgoten, dedicate a little time and first insert a dry q-tip to cause the scratches, the insert an alcohol or lemon juice soaked q-tip to cause inflammation, swelling, and irritation, then end with the tabasco soaked q-tip that will allow more of the burning sensation to penitrate into the scratched, inflammed, and sensatized tissues”

Moving along with our experiments, we next inserted a plug of fresh ginger:Sol’s urethra was slippery with pre come and lube from the sound, so the ginger plug went in easily:He was enjoying these mild sensations too much so we decided to up the ante a bit. Well, okay, more than just a bit…MzAntonina scooped up a little Dencorub with a finger tip, then rubbed it over his balls:The response was quite dramatic. Obviously the product’s blurb is right when it stated “the clear gel formulation allows for faster penetration and relief” LOL.You might like to check out YouTube for videos of men putting Bengay and similar products on their balls. There are lots of videos by drunk under graduates. However the results are the same: lots of yowling, lots of doubling over and groaning and lots of running away to have a shower.None of these options were available to sol, who was bound and gagged and completely at our mercy. We watched with great interest as his balls tightened and began deepening in color until they were almost dark red.Sol was almost biting through the gag as each wave of strong sensation built and receded. We had to tell him to be quiet, which really turns him on as well as helps him focus. At one point he called yellow and begged us to turn off the over head fan. At the time I thought he was simply cold (and was rather amazed he was aware of being cold with all the other stuff going on). Later he told me the soft cool breeze from the fan was excruciating on his balls. Next time the fan … or gentle blowing from our lips … will become part of the scene!While sol rode waves of agony, MzAntonina and I removed the final two needles from sol’s cock head. I had repeated out loud alexpierce’s reminder to be prepared for blood when removing needles from the cock head … and it was lucky I did this because we experienced the largest bleed so far. It looked amazing, pooling on the rubber sheet underneath sol:I grabbed the camera while MzAntonina, who greatly enjoys blood play of all kinds, had a wonderful time painting sol’s cock red:You can see more photos and MzAntonina’s final “art work” on my Edgeplay blog.Of course the fresh, flowing blood acted as yet another irritant on sol’s poor Dencorub covered balls, and added to his agony. MzAntonina and I exchanged looks … should we stop? I quickly dipped my bloody gloved finger tips into the cool yoghurt we had near by and applied the yoghurt to sol’s balls.He yowled very loudly through the gag.Oops. A slight Dominant cock up there, so to speak. Yoghurt only helps with chili, not Dencorub. I’d just made things worse … or from sol’s masochistic point of view, better! He’d just had to ride out the pain. I was keeping in mind Brian’s comment that “even after sessions that were excruciating for those few minutes, I have had no adverse reactions, just some tenderness and pinkness but no harm. :) “. And this proved the case with sol.We cleaned up the blood and yoghurt, noting that the Dencorub was still affecting sol’s ball tightness and color as well as his pain threshold. To keep him from getting …er … bored, we decided it was time to insert those fresh chilis.We began with a tiny strip of mild green chili:We fucked his urethra with it, and then let it sit for a while…No response. Sol later said “first tip didn’t do anything” . But then we replaced it with a red chili sliver:This was much more successful, in terms of response. We tried in and out fucking motions, also just letting it sit for a while. However the most successful position was to hold it right in and bring the foreskin up over it:This resulted in some serious noises. Sol later described it as:

“almost off the scale … that last one got well into the 9 points something out of 10″

Scott Adams’ (who created Dilbert) would probably agree. He had a rather fiendish encounter with jalapeños. I don’t usually quote vanilla blogs (as their authors may not like appearing on an adult content blog) but Scott’s description is just so good I hoped he wouldn’t mind my sharing it. This quote picks up after he’s ignored advice to use gloves and chopped jalapeños by hand:

“A few minutes passed, and I felt a tingle in my left hand – the one that directly handled the peppers. The tingle turned into a warm sensation, and the warmth turned into…well, this will take some explaining.”Imagine turning a broom upside down, so the pointy bristles are facing up. You take your hand, palm facing down, and bounce it on the pointy bristles. Can you imagine how uncomfortable that feels on your hand? Okay, good.”Now imagine that a giant troll sees you playing with the broom. He snatches it out of your hand, chews the handle into a point and shoves it so far up your ass that you can taste it. Then he uses you like a huge flyswatter to kill a nest of porcupines that are living in his salt mine. My hand hurt like that.”It felt as if my hand was literally on fire. It was one of the most intense pains of my life”

Sol later said he felt the same. Here’s another online description, this time from boundecstasy:

“i think she covered my cock in [a muscle cream called "deep heat" ]. That was shear agony… it was like dipping my cock into acid, it was stinging and burning and it was like it was on fire. I was heavily bound so could barely move. The best relief here was when she masturbated me … brought me near orgasm. This allowed me to concentrate on the orgasm and the pain subsided. However once i climaxed, it was a race to undo the restraints and a dash to the bath so i could put cool water over it to cool things down … this made it burn worse!”
In fact we’d removed the chili and begun to undo sol’s restraints believing he might need a similar dash to the bathroom. However he ferverantly told us to leave him tied.His concerns over the restraints had broken his headspace, and he tossed back and forwards, groaning through the gag loudly. I took him by the shoulders and called his name to focus him and directed him to be quiet. MzAntonina helped from the other side of the massage table, holding his head and reminding him to breathe … breathe … breathe. Soon he slipped back under again.Our alarm had gone off some time before, and we were short of time, but there was nothing we could do but pack up quietly and let sol ride the waves of sensation. After about half an hour they were reduced enough that he was happy to have the restraints removed. We’d already removed the gag.AFTERCARE:Interestingly, after such intense play, sol required minimal aftercare. We left it long enough so that by the time he had a shower – about half an hour after play – his genitals were not too painful. And by the next day he only had a small bruise on the head of his cock to show for all his adventures:

As you can see his shaft is clear of marks. Last time we did this I posted:

“In terms of all the internal play, there was some redness / soreness at the tip of the urethra immediately after play but this quickly disappeared. Sol was a tad nervous peeing for the first time after this scene:
“it hurt like hell when I finally did … my body actually refused for a couple of minutes, anticipating the pain …. and there was burning for about two days after. Still a little sensitivity in the area …”I feel more well used than pain …”

Which is a perfect way to feel at the end :)

I think sol felt the same this time. He said there was a little soreness around the urethra when peeing, but there was no redness or sore spots visible.So, all round, a successful scene that had all three participants buzzing for days!

WHAT WE LEARNEDAND WANT TO SHARE WITH YOU

What we learned from this “test session”:

  • Chemical play is perhaps not the best scene for when you have time constraints!
  • Always wear gloves and have a few spare pairs on hand
  • Never forget that chemical play can be an extremely painful form of play … sol later said “it was the most severe play we’ve done” and I agree. I actually noted to MzAntonina during the scene that sol’s responses were the most extreme I’d seen. But on the other hand from his point of view he really enjoyed the scene and “never got to the point of wanting the scene to stop”.
  • Make sure your play partner is not allergic to anything you plan to use. Discuss this in pre-scene negotiations, and for any products they are not sure of, do “test patches” on less sensitive areas of skin
  • Different people react differently to the same concentration of something, so testing something on yourself isn’t necessarily going to tell you how it will feel for someone else. Have a “test” session before you actually play. Also, check out YouTube’s videos of men putting Bengay and similar products on their balls to get a general idea of severity og sensation / response times.
  • When you plan your scene, you need to take into account those sensation response times. Also, be careful how many substances you apply … sensation may just be starting to build when you decide it’s not working and dollop on something else *grin*.Here’s a “word of warning from someone with first hand experience”:
    “Irritants (like those I have been talking about) do not act/react immediately. A friend put capcaisin on herself. After a minute or so, she didn’t feel anything so she doubled the amount applied. A few minutes later (having still felt no effect) she redoubled the amount applied. And then she started feeling it, and she couldn’t find a way to neutralize it. She found out, to her chagrin, how much capcaisin is required to cause first and second degree burns to very tender body parts.”

  • I highly recommend your sub’s genitals are shaved before such a scene. It provides a much cleaner canvas to work on!
  • Inserting things into the urethra is a contentious topic. Some kinksters are completely against the idea, and have valid reasons. However if urethral play is something you and your sub want to explore, then keep this advice – which I totally agree with – by MissPlease in mind:

    “I’m of the belief that putting substances in your urethra could cause some damage. I like to err on the safe side especialy when it involves genitalia (even if I do ball busting). When it comes to the urethra or anything internal, I’m very careful. The inside of the urethra is very delicate and can be damaged easily. Inserting oils and ointments might cause some caustic burns. Even with sounds we are warned that whatever is inserted should be sterile and smooth. Sure, a certain amount of bdsm is experimental, but I do try to seek out experienced and educated/informed sources before trying stuff if possible”

  • We started with a fairly intense scene because sol is a severe masochist. What if you want to try chemical play at a milder sensation level? Why not start with toothpaste. I’ve read that it provides a “mild burning sensation when used anally, fairly popular and the most often used in regular scenes, when substances are used. Unless you think you’re very sensitive, I’d use full strength.” The brands Crest and Closeup are recommended. subfemmepet notes that:
    “toothpaste applied to the clit is yummy: :):it varies in its intensity..dies down, comes alive again, ….cleanest clit in town ! minty fresh:t :): similar effect on anus..if you lack a clit, lol”

  • Tiger Balm doesn’t work for sol, which means it may work for those seeking slightly milder sensations (although having said that everyone responds differently) and also seems a popular product to use of female subs as well as males. Druid found it “invigorating without being excruciating. Even when applied to the helmet and eye it is challenging but tolerable”
  • Fresh ginger is also a great mild to intermediate irritant. We’ve had fun with it – you can use ginger juice, make ginger dildos etc . If you’ve not explored figging in the past, have a read of this BDSM For Beginners post. There is also a Figging group on Fet :)
  • Needle play worked well as abrasive “foreplay” for our chemical play scene … the punctures in his skin after the needles were removed responded extremely well to the application of irritants. If you are into needle play we definitely recommend doing this first
  • Combining other types of abrasion play (stimulating the surface of the body with abrasive materials such as rough silk, coarse cloth, leather, sandpaper, brushes, fingernails …. even twigs, if you include birching) with chemical play has excellent results. Abrasion is more effective on an area of skin which has already been made tender so you could start with a spanking or nipple torture (I’ve been collecting handmade wooden kitchen / cleaning brushes for a while … they are excellent at abrading nipples) and move on abrasion play of various types, then finish up with chemical play.
  • You could also utilize other natural materials like botanicals (for one example, nettles)
  • Before inserting a little bit of something into the urethra with a q tip, you might like to take a moment to wipe any lube from the area (if you’ve been sounding) and then use a clean dry q tip to abrade the area a little. You’ll find the substance you then insert will “take” better
  • How about considering chemical play for LDR and web cam play? It makes an excellent training tool. Here’s Vince from Obedience Realized, who I quoted at the very beginning of this post:
    “I enjoy using it as a training device. I prefer to build a submissive’s pain tolerance before they meet me for play again. Right now, boy Jake is preparing to visit and about a month. Once a day, I order boy Jake to cover [his] perineum, the balls, and the shaft of[his] cock with the capsaicin. The intense pain and burning reminds him of what is coming soon and of his service to me. This chemical has a longer staying power and makes a definite impression. Once a submissive has been exposed to it, just mentioning it can change a behavior.

MORE ON NEUTRALIZERS

Here’s the basic thing to remember:

“Water soluble irritants respond to safewords; they wash off.

“Oil-based irritants do not respond to safewords; they do not wash off easily.”

It’s worth further researching other ways to neutralize the sensations, just in case the “waves” prove too severe for your sub.Vanillas who use these products often find they feel too strong, and there are various places online where you can read their solutions. However you are going to find as I did that internet advice can be varied and contradictory. Scott Adams found this, too:

“With my good hand, I groped for the iPad and searched for home remedies. For every report of a treatment that worked, three people reported that it didn’t. I tried ice. I tried milk. I tried alcohol (internal and external). I tried sour cream. I tried ketchup. Each of those things worked for as long as it kept my hand cold, but as soon as my hand reached room temperature, the burn returned. And according to my fellow idiots on the Internet who had made the same mistake, the burn could last most of the night”I made it through dinner with my hand submerged in a bowl of milk. By now, two hours had passed and the level of pain hadn’t subsided one iota.”

I do recommend reading the rest of his story, it’s a good one (and includes what happened when he needed a pee). Eventually:

“Steve’s wife, Sandy, was nice enough to get some Lanacane from their house. After I applied the Lanacane, the pain stopped. I can’t say for sure that the Lanacane was the reason the pain stopped…”

Certainly add Lanacane to the list of potential neutralizers, along with other anesthetics like Solarcaine, Xylocaine and Ambesol. These can be used after a scene to relieve pain, but some kinksters also use them before and during scenes.I’m going to include some of the varied advice I found online below. I can’t at the point confirm these suggestions, but at least if some of the various solutions are listed in one spot in this blog post of mine, you know you have a reference point where you can head, if you hit trouble in your own play.For muscle creams:Ehow suggests:

  1. Blot off any excess Bengay with the facial tissue, toilet paper, or paper towels. Do not rub the affected area, because this could make the Bengay absorb even more into your skin.
  2. Saturate a cotton ball in olive oil.
  3. Blot the affected area with the saturated cotton ball. Repeat until the burning sensation lessens. Wash the affected area with soap and cool water to remove the olive oil. Use cool water because warm water will open your pores, allowing more Bengay to penetrate the skin.
  4. Pat the skin with the towel to dry. Do not rub the towel against the skin.
Ehow UK offers a different version:

  1. Avoid water when trying to remove Bengay and other analgesic products from skin. Bengay is not soluble, meaning water will only spread the ointment around, worsening the burning sensation.
  2. Pour equal parts of lemon juice and antibacterial soap into a spray bottle and mix thoroughly.
  3. Spray the lemon juice-soap mixture on the affected area and scrub thoroughly.
  4. Blot dry with a damp cloth.
  5. Wash the area to remove any lingering Bengay formula or soap.

A mother who had problems with her child wrote this:

WHAT TO DO: Remove any excess ointment with a kleenex. Do not rub it in. Douse a cotton ball in olive oil and use that to cleanse the affected area gently. Then wash it off with water. Pat the skin dry.

Kinksters who know their stuff, like Midori (in Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink p.107) suggest:

  1. only using the creams externally
  2. start with a small amount
  3. make sure you have witch hazel will cut oil based material
  4. wet towel to remove it
  5. aloe vera will sooth

Mistress Matisse recommends milk.Still need help?! Here’s one kinkster’s emergency “Oh God help me!” routine:

“I’ve had some very intense sessions before, and I’ve ran screaming to the tub many times. When that happens, this is my emergency “Oh God help me!” routine:”penis under bath tub tap with ice cold water flooding it. This will make it bearable instantly. Then, repeated washing and rinsing with dish soap. Then apply vegetable oil and wash and rinse more as needed. Then dunk little jiggling pink pee pee in cold milk…finish with some vegetable oil, collapse on the floor and catch your breath!!”(And don’t even think about doing that again for at least a year!)”

WILL THERE BE A “NEXT TIME”?

Absolutely. While we pushed sol a long way with this chemical play scene, he was delighted to be pushed and later confirmed he:

“never got to the point of wanting the scene to stop”.

Which means we can keep on with our chemical play explorations :)

WHAT MIGHT BE TRY NEXT TIME?

There are so many things we want to explore, with chemical play. Here are a few that come to mind:

  • We had several products on the tray and in the kitchen that we didn’t try during this scene, so we have those to look forward to :)
  • Things others have tried / discussed that we might explore: eucalyptus oil, Vicks Vaporub (“Start with small dabs. The effect peaks quickly and fades in about 15 minutes. Very hard to remove”), radishes, wintergreen oil, menthol, any form of camphor etc
  • Cinnamon oil I now have, and want to try. Midori recommended it to me, for CBT for masochists. Mistress Matisse has written a good article on how to use it. I’ve also read that it’s best “used on nipples (full strength), it provides a mild burning sensation and a nice odor:). Used on the labia, it provides a burning sensation which at full strength is very intense. (My play partner dashed for the bathroom to wash it off, others have found it just bearable and very intense). I usually apply it with a q-tip. This is strong stuff most. Be very careful! I’d recommend a 20:1 dilution to start.” This story echos that caution: cinnamon oil burned off a layer of skin in a rather sensitive area because we didn’t wash it off quickly enough, that wasn’t much fun”
  • Clove oil is also recommended by hardcore players. I recently used it very effectively to help toothache. It’s going to take a while before I can stop associating it’s smell with non consensual tooth pain!
  • For American readers: Mistress Matisse recommends Listerine breath strips and Altoid mints for both boy bits and girls bits. She especially recommends using the red cinnamon ones, with flames on the box. In a podcast she describes using inserting them into the urethra of one man (who usually takes a lot of pain), who almost levitated. Another person suggests breath mints like Minty Fresh (“I get a breath mint and put it on the tip of my dick. When it is on there for at least two minutes I always get a one-minute orgasm and it feels great.”)

  • Capsaicin is definitely worth more research and exploration on it’s own. I’ve been growing several different types of chili here at home, and have found this website and another local one the Hippy Seeds Company where I can purchase even the hottest chili’s seeds. I highly recommend you check out their You Tube chili testing videos to see how hot some chilis can be, and how the body reacts to them.
  • I’d also like to explore more hot sauces. For example, I found two products called “Pleasure and pain” with whip wielding Dommes on their labels. One comes from the US:

  • The other is from Australia. They look like the kind of items it would be fun to show sol … just before I poured them down somewhere lethal!
  • I’d also like to try some of these products – and also Dencorub – on other body parts. Perhaps around sol’s anus. Fetish Info Exchange also suggests some interesting suppositories: “fresh ground spices can produce irritations that range from heat to intense itching. Using these with glycerine suppositories can be even more intense.” I thought I’d also spend some time reading more about Miss Nancy’s punishment suppositories.
  • We had sol bound and gagged lying down because that was the best position at Mz’s place. It also provided excellent access to his genitals when two dominants were working on him. However once we get more of a feel for how he responds to these various items I want to try incorporating chemical play into other forms of play.
  • Applied after a spanking or birching (my favorite form of abrasion play) for example. The wounds, pricks and abrasions left by the twigs would provide a perfect canvas to apply irritants. I could also use our untreated hemp rope to abrade the skin a little in private spots before the application of other things.
  • Even another favorite game of mine, sub hunting, would work – there’s a real potential for using certain products that result in a strong scent after ingestion.

I hope this post has been useful. A final word: be careful … and have fun!REFERENCES AND ONLINE RESOURCES:Scott Adams The Night I Learned To Follow DirectionsMs160′s BDSM For Beginners series – the fine art of figgingBrian on Tribe – BDSM Techniques “Oh God help me!” Chili Seed BankFemdom Resources – post on Listerine cartoon by annmo nightFigging.com – Ginger, wasabi, peppermint, lemons Food playMistress Ariachne’s BDSM Workshop – Chemical play scenes Mistress Matisse – Pour Some Sugar On MeMultics – My BDSM – IrritantsMultics – Irritants info folderOTKgirl – Miss Nancy’s punishment suppositoriesRaven Shadowbourne – Types of play 4: ointments, oils and jelliesVince of Obedience Realized – Abrasion PlayVince of Obedience Realized – Chemical PlayWiki – List of capsicum cultivarsWiki – Scoville scalePODCASTS:Mistresse Matisse – Altoids mints and Listerine Breath Strips podcastFORUMS:Collar6 – Chemical play threadFetish Information Exchange – Irritants threadFetish Information Exchange – Playing with fire threadGet Dare – Q tip pain threadInformed Consent – FiggingKink.com – Extra Strength Bengay, Icy Hot, Tiger Balm etc threadLiterotica – Chemical play threadLiterotica – Post anal play threadMilovana – Icy Hot? threadMy Masturbation – Menthol threadOrgasm Denial – Icy Hot on female parts? threadProfessional Domination – Deep heat on male genitals threadSMPlace – Icy Hot threadTribes – New to BDSM – Info on scents, oils and suchTribes – Mediplay – urethral sound threadFETLIFE:Cock and ball tortureFiggingSpices, oils, roots and balms for sadism or sensual intensificationStinging nettles and botany playInteresting threads:

YOUTUBE:Bengay on balls search results (enjoy!)Hippy Seeds CompanyYou Tube chili testing videosBOOKS:Hardy Haberman Family JewelsMidori Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink WORKSHOPSEdukinkSome like it hot

Thank you:MzAntonina and MacTheKnifefor a glorious dayScott Adamsfor sharing his jalapino experienceVince – Obedience Realizedfor inspiring the title of this postPhotos:Ms160″Pleasure and pain” bottlesfrom Chili Seed BankandHot Sauce.com
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Chemical play (the gift that keeps on giving)

Posted by Mistress160 on Sunday Mar 13, 2011 Under Blood Play, CBT

This post is about Edgeplay

Please don’t read it if you are not
interested in learning about:
urethral play
urethral sounds
needle play

blood play
medical play

For some time now we’ve wanted to further explore urethral torture / CBT sensation play via chemical play. It has long been a fantasy of sol’s and mine. I always liked it’s potential, and was recently re-inspired by this great description on a Tribes thread on BDSM techniques:
“I love things that slowly heat and add to the intense buildup of heat via pain!”

Oh, yes….

Chemical play according to Wiki is “the use of balms and ointments such as Bengay, Icy Hot, Biofreeze, etc” (here in Australia we use Dencorub) to create sensations on a submissive’s body during a BDSM scene. But it’s more than that. This kind of sensation play can utilize a wide range of intense preparations / mild irritants, everything from menthol to toothpaste to wintergreen oil. We are also interested in using spices like cinnamon, eucalyptus, peppermint, chili peppers and ginger – spice play :). You can use these materials fresh or you can use condiments (including essential oils) made from them.

Because this type of play interacts with other sorts of play – and because chemical play often gets called different things – we are going to be touching on other topics such as Food Play, Spice play, Irritant play, Abrasion play, etc.

There’s not much written about chemical play. There’s not even a chemical play group on Fetlife! (actually there is: Spices, oils, roots and balms for sadism or sensual intensification. Took a bit to find, of course they couldn’t just call it “chemical play”! It’s well worth joining). I’ll keep researching and trying to find material but so far there’s just one organization doing workshops, one or two articles online, a couple of blog posts and some threads on various fetish / kink / gay forums etc. Oh, and LOTS of YouTube videos of vanilla idiots rolling in agony after putting various products on their balls.

So I thought I’d turn a post about a rather good scene into a sort of BDSM For Beginners post, to try and collate a bit of the info that’s otherwise hard to track down. Also, because you need to take care with this kind of play. One of the chemical play blog posts I mentioned (Vince of Obedience Realized) has some great ideas and is definitely worth a read, but I disagree with one small part of his comment that:

“Chemical play is an extremely easy thing to add to play by a Dominant. It takes no skill, and is very effective”.

I know what Vince means here …. chemical play is not exactly Florentine flogging or needle play. But. If you are ever to move beyond using the smallest amounts possible, it DOES take skill. Or you will cause your sub agony well outside their limits. You need to familiarize yourself with the preparations and irritants you plan to use, and you need to spend time testing how those agents and irritants react on your sub. Putting all this info together into a scene takes skill.

Chemical play is usually regarded as edgeplay. However you can make this kind of play as light and sensuous, or as edgy and intense, as you like. It all depends on what you plan to use, and how you plan to use it. In our case, because sol is a masochist and really enjoys this kind of thing, we can push the envelope a bit – with care we can create sensations not just on his body but slightly inside his body, in particular in relation to urethral torture.

One thing it’s very important to stress with this type of play is that you not only need to pre test what you plan to use, you need to be aware that these types of irritants often take a while to build up their intensity … and equally take a while to stop having their effect. In some cases you can neutralize the sensation, but in others you have to cope with it until it fades naturally.

As ausboy wrote on a Milovana forum thread “It burns and burns and there is no way to take it off you just gonna deal with the pain until it goes away“. But dark was absolutely correct when he responded “I think that is the turn on for most who use it. They give up the control about the pain and have to take it”.

This touches on the mindset you need to reach for, during the scene. The extended intensity will also impact on your scene’s timing and construction. You may have finished playing and packed up and be ready to leave, while your sub is still in the zone dark describes! As Vince oh so accurately notes in his Chemical Play post:

“Chemical Play leaves a little gift that keeps on giving after the session is over”

And that is half the fun :).

This BDSM For Beginners series style post is set out in the following sections:

  1. What we used
  2. The scene
  3. What we learned and want to share with you
  4. More about neutralizers
  5. Will there be a next time?
  6. What we’ll do next time

Like most BDSM For Beginners posts, this one is long. So treat it like workshop notes – read the hot scene in the middle and bookmark the rest for later, when you need more info for your own scenes.

WHAT WE USED

Having fantasized about chemical play for a while, sol shared with me some interesting ideas regarding food stuffs, and in particular various forms of chili pepper and hot sauces. When the opportunity of an afternoon’s play with MzAntonina arose over Mardi Gras weekend in Sydney, we arrived laden with goodies:


And no, they weren’t to eat for lunch! The foodstuffs included:

  • fresh lemon
  • fresh ginger
  • three types of fresh chili, including locally grown jalapino and habaneros
  • wasabi (Japanese horseradish)
  • mild green Tabasco
  • red Tabasco
  • Mexican El Yucateco XXX chili sauce (picante habanero)
  • Mexican Cholula hot sauce arbol and piquin
  • Japanese La Yu chili oil
  • The Chilli Factory, Sydney’s Turbo Supercharge (Extremely Hot Habanero Paste)

The only non food item was a tube of extra strength Dencorub. Sol had used it before on his cock and found it very painful. I’d tried using Tiger Balm on sol without much success some years before, so something stronger was obviously needed….

We had done some research into how to neutralize sensations if things got too much for sol. Keeping in mind milk and yoghurt often work well to alleviate chili based irritants (something about certain proteins soothing and reducing stinging and burning sensations) we brought with us fresh plain yoghurt.

Products like Dencorub, Capsaicin and Bengay are pain-relief analgesic formulations used to relieve muscle aches and pain due to arthritis and strain. Bengay’s main active ingredients are menthol and methyl salicylate. Dencorub’s Extra Strength Heat Gel contains:

“26% methyl salicylate, which makes it a concentrated hot formula that gives hours of relief from pain resulting from sprains, strains, painful joints, muscular aches and pains, as well as Arthritis, Rheumatism, Lumbago and Fibrositis”

What’s happens when you apply these products is the menthol acts as a topical analgesic and provides the cool feeling and the methyl salicylate provides the heating by dilating the capillaries in the affected area, which increases blood flow to that area. When you apply them to the genitals – keeping in mind Hardy Haberman’s advice in Family Jewels (p.51) to not “use any of these compounds – Tiger Balm, Ben Gay, Icy Hot, or any other – as lube, within the urethra or rectum or on any mucous membranes” - they produce an intense burning sensation which some people may actually find pleasurable, and in some people may actually increase the duration of an erection. It’s the cooling effect of the menthol that is the last to wear off.

We had several of the nastiest types of chili covered in our food range. Wiki says :

“There are five major species of Capsicum cultivars, and appear in many varieties. The hotness of the fruit is indicated in the Scoville scale, which ranges from no heat at zero to pure capsaicin at 16,000,00:
  1. Capsicum annuum, which includes bell peppers, cayenne, paprika, and jalapeños
  2. Capsicum baccatum, which includes the ají pepper
  3. Capsicum chinense, which includes habaneros
  4. Capsicum frutescens, which includes tabasco
  5. Capsicum pubescens, which includes rocoto.

The heat level of chilis is determined on the Scoville scale. Here’s wiki again:

“The Scoville scale is a measurement of the spicy heat (or piquance) of a chili pepper. The number of Scoville heat units (SHU)indicates the amount of capsaicin present. Capsaicin is a chemical compound that stimulates chemoreceptor nerve endings in the skin, especially the mucous membranes

“a sweet pepper or a bell pepper, containing no capsaicin at all, has a Scoville rating of zero, meaning no heat detectable. The hottest chilis, such as habaneros and nagas, have a rating of 200,000 or more, indicating that their extract must be diluted over 200,000 times before the capsaicin presence is undetectable”

In our sample to try today we had:

  • Jalapeño ( 2,500-10,000 Scoville Units)
  • Piquin (30,000-50,000 Scoville Units)
    Tabasco (30,000-50,000 SR) is native to Mexico but is now grown in large amounts in Louisiana by McIlhenny Company for the sauce of the same name
  • Thai 75,000 – 150,000 Thin fruit with a pointed tip. Often used in the cuisines of Southeast Asia, especially (as the name implies) Thailand.
  • Habanero (80-300,000+ Scoville Units). The latter featured in the El Yucateco EXXXtra Picante (more than 11,000 Scoville units). According to the El Yucateco website, the recipe is fashioned after Mayan tradition. It’s also called Kutbil-Ik, which means “crushed chili” in Mayan.

This was going to be fun…

Despite how intense this sounds, it was important to keep in mind that the capsaicin in a habaneros was miniscule compared to the strength of pain-relief analgesic formulations. They needed to be utilized with care.

THE SCENE

Please note that a longer, more graphic version
of this scene appears on my private Edgeplay blog.
Drop me a line if you’d like access.

MzAntonina had greatly enjoyed our last scene - which had concluded with some q tip play using isopropyl alcohol – and was delighted to play again. Sol said after that scene:

“it hurt like fuck :) :) :) :).

“It was bright loud burny stingy pain. I’m not surprised I made a lot of noise. But one of the best things was the reaction from Mistress and MzAntonina: “gee that really seemed to hurt, let’s do it again!”

“I’m definitely looking forward to doing it again plus with other substances”

We were certainly happy to explore further. We negotiated a scene where sol’s genitals would first experience some needle play and sounding as preparation for sensation play with various hot condiments and fresh spices.

This was what we called a testing session. Damage to delicate internal linings was to be kept minimal, but the idea was to explore the potency / strength of various irritants (ginger / chili / etc) within sol’s mucous membranes, to provide information that would be useful for future play.

We also wanted to see how long certain products took to build and fade, in terms of sensation, and try out various neutralizers for effectiveness. As it was sol, we might push our explorations a little further, keeping in mind Brian’s comment on Tribe that:

“Even after sessions that were excruciating for those few minutes, I have had no adverse reactions, just some tenderness and pinkness but no harm. :)”

I directed sol to make several urethral size ginger plugs and chili strips. He also left several larger pieces for us to use as we desired. You can see them on the plate below. The white bowl contains just squeezed lemon juice:


We also had on hand the yoghurt, tissues and damp face towels as neutralizers. Lemon juice has also proved effective, although we had that for a different reason…

We set a timer, because MzAntonina and I do tend to get distracted, time wise and we had a deadline of about an hour or so, to allow time for sol and I to prepare for the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras Parade that night.

We placed a black rubber sheet on MzAntonina’s massage table, told sol to strip and tied him to the table with black rope:


I prefer using rope with carabinars for a restraint system with a quick exit, however I hadn’t brought them, so MzAntonia brought out black rope from her play box and tied it beautifully.

We tied his hands behind his head and then gagged him:


He said later that he “liked the gag”, it gave him:

“something to think about … it was uncomfortable enough that you had to focus to keep things together”.

Restrained in this manner, mouth gagged, how was sol to communicate a problem or safeword? We use a mix of hand signals (his hands were tied above his head but we could still see them) and of course – as you can see in the photo above – his facial gestures and noises can still indicate concerns.

Out came our traveling needle play kit and MzAntonina’s sharps container:


We wanted to start with needles because we thought once they were removed, the puncture wounds might respond in interesting ways to the various irritants we planned to introduce. Well, that’s our story and we are sticking to it. The fact we also really enjoy putting needles into male genitals has nothing to do with it….

We snapped on some of MzAntonina’s great pink latex gloves. I’d like to stress here: NEVER ever play with these kind of irritants without gloves!

We swabbed down sol’s shaft and started our row of needles about half way along, working towards the (more sensitive) top:


We started with two 25 gauge needles and then two 23 gauge. We’d both been wanting to try out the various styles of needle cap and this provided an excellent opportunity. First we capped our needles with cork, then silicone (yellow) and rubber (black):


We found cork the easiest to use, although of course they are single use so more expensive in the long run. We then placed a few needles under sol’s scrotum. Sol said later he found the scrotum needles “slightly sharper than on the shaft but not as intense as the head”:


We wanted to insert some needles in his foreskin and shaft, but remembered the access problems we encountered last time. To avoid these we tied a black cord through his PA ring and tied it to his chest rope:


This made his foreskin easy to pierce:


We admired our work for a bit, then dribbled fresh lemon juice over the needles in his shaft:


This caused a mild response. We then removed the needles in the shaft, allowing the lemon juice to drip into the holes:


A much better response! To access the head of his cock we undid the cord and tied it to his thigh rope restraints, causing his cock to bend back like this:


We each inserted a needle each:


Sol reacted intensely as he always. You might recall sol said this, the first time I put a needle through the head of his cock:

“the sensation of the needles through the head is hard to describe …

“the whole end of the cock is loaded with nerve endings, it’s not like skin of the shaft where you just have a pin prick at entry and exit. The skin at both ends of the head needle seems to be loaded with nerve endings. It feels like you are pushing the needle through a thick layer of nerve endings and everything tingles as it goes through this thick layer of sensation…

“yes it hurts (like penetrating skin) but it also tingles and zaps almost like an electric shock … every needle also feels different, it’s like all the different nerve endings there create different intensities, a mm to each side would create a different effect…”

As I wrote on the same post:

“It was certainly intense for sol … as for me, I nearly came, just doing it! I punched one hand up in the air in a victory salute … yay!!! I’d done it!!! … and truly, I nearly came”

This time was just as good :). But this was just the “foreplay” of the scene. Now it was time to get out S(A)X’s incredibly useful urethral sound and enlarge the urethra…

Both MzAntonina and I really adore sounding so I’m afraid I have no photos of our fucking sol’s urethra. Here’s one from our last scene:


Sol said after that scene:

“it went in all the way …. I couldn’t feel it at the far end, like they say in the books it’s the first five or six cm of the urethra that has most sensation … but the feeling of fullness with the full diameter of the sound I almost felt like I was coming … the only other time you get that same sensation is when you are coming”

In this particular scene we also took the sound down the whole way, so we could enjoy fucking sol with it. However our main focus for the day was to widen the first inch or so, so we could insert various agents with ease.

While MzAntonina had a turn I removed the needle play kit from between sol’s legs and brought the condiment plate closer:


You can see to the left of that photo the lube we were using and the tiny Asian cotton baby q tips I purchase for CBT. These are so much more useful and more intrusive than the usual size in Western supermarkets.

After a few minutes of fucking, sol’s urethra was nicely stretched. While MzAntonina held his cock steady I picked up the first q tip for the day and examined the contents of the plate. Choices … choices….

As I mentioned earlier our last scene with MzAntonina had concluded with some q tip play using isopropyl alcohol, so we knew sol could tolerate urethral insertions with irritants. But the whole point of this scene was to work up to things slowly and obtain as much info as we could about sol’s responses to things. Refusing the urge to go straight to the fresh chilis, I looked at the milder irritants. I’d read that Tabasco sauce was potentially:

Very intense on labia or rectally on a butt plug. One bottom reports using a 1:1 dilution for ‘pleasure’ scenes and full strength for punishment scenes. Starts near full intensity and wears off over time or washing”

One man on Fet described a mixture of Tabasco and cinnamon as feeling “like hydrochloric acid was being poured into the tip of my penis”.

Could be fun, then. I dipped my q tip in the mildest material on the plate: green Tabasco. I coated both sides of the q tip. With MzAntonina holding sol’s cock for me, I dabbed the inside of sol’s urethra with the tip…

No reaction. Okay, then … I gently circled the the inside of sol’s urethra with the tip… Damn, only a slight reaction. So I picked up a clean q tip and dipped it in red Tabasco. Definitely a stronger reaction this time, but still not a major one.

After to talking to sol later I think these condiments might have worked better if I had taken a moment to wipe away from the urethra any lube that remained from sounding. I could then use a clean dry q tip to abrade the top and inside edge of the urethra a little. I think any substances placed on q tips and inserted after that abrasion would “take” better. vampyrepain confirms this:

“The main reason that [inserting a q tip] is painful is because the fibers of the q-tip scratch your mucus membranes. Urine is very basic which makes it irritate the scratches as well as kill bacteria as it passes over your scratched urethra. Using irritants such as tabasco or alcohol on the q-tip just further the irritation, but they also lubricate so there isn’t as much scratching. For a really awful punishment that won’t be soon forgoten, dedicate a little time and first insert a dry q-tip to cause the scratches, the insert an alcohol or lemon juice soaked q-tip to cause inflammation, swelling, and irritation, then end with the tabasco soaked q-tip that will allow more of the burning sensation to penitrate into the scratched, inflammed, and sensatized tissues”

Moving along with our experiments, we next inserted a plug of fresh ginger:


Sol’s urethra was slippery with pre come and lube from the sound, so the ginger plug went in easily:


He was enjoying these mild sensations too much so we decided to up the ante a bit. Well, okay, more than just a bit…

MzAntonina scooped up a little Dencorub with a finger tip, then rubbed it over his balls:


The response was quite dramatic. Obviously the product’s blurb is right when it stated “the clear gel formulation allows for faster penetration and relief” LOL.

You might like to check out YouTube for videos of men putting Bengay and similar products on their balls. There are lots of videos by drunk under graduates. However the results are the same: lots of yowling, lots of doubling over and groaning and lots of running away to have a shower.

None of these options were available to sol, who was bound and gagged and completely at our mercy. We watched with great interest as his balls tightened and began deepening in color until they were almost dark red.

Sol was almost biting through the gag as each wave of strong sensation built and receded. We had to tell him to be quiet, which really turns him on as well as helps him focus. At one point he called yellow and begged us to turn off the over head fan. At the time I thought he was simply cold (and was rather amazed he was aware of being cold with all the other stuff going on). Later he told me the soft cool breeze from the fan was excruciating on his balls. Next time the fan … or gentle blowing from our lips … will become part of the scene!

While sol rode waves of agony, MzAntonina and I removed the final two needles from sol’s cock head. I had repeated out loud alexpierce’s reminder to be prepared for blood when removing needles from the cock head … and it was lucky I did this because we experienced the largest bleed so far. It looked amazing, pooling on the rubber sheet underneath sol:


I grabbed the camera while MzAntonina, who greatly enjoys blood play of all kinds, had a wonderful time painting sol’s cock red:


You can see more photos and MzAntonina’s final “art work” on my Edgeplay blog.

Of course the fresh, flowing blood acted as yet another irritant on sol’s poor Dencorub covered balls, and added to his agony. MzAntonina and I exchanged looks … should we stop? I quickly dipped my bloody gloved finger tips into the cool yoghurt we had near by and applied the yoghurt to sol’s balls.

He yowled very loudly through the gag.

Oops. A slight Dominant cock up there, so to speak. Yoghurt only helps with chili, not Dencorub. I’d just made things worse … or from sol’s masochistic point of view, better! He’d just had to ride out the pain. I was keeping in mind Brian’s comment that “even after sessions that were excruciating for those few minutes, I have had no adverse reactions, just some tenderness and pinkness but no harm. :) “. And this proved the case with sol.

We cleaned up the blood and yoghurt, noting that the Dencorub was still affecting sol’s ball tightness and color as well as his pain threshold. To keep him from getting …er … bored, we decided it was time to insert those fresh chilis.

We began with a tiny strip of mild green chili:


We fucked his urethra with it, and then let it sit for a while…

No response. Sol later said “first tip didn’t do anything” . But then we replaced it with a red chili sliver:


This was much more successful, in terms of response. We tried in and out fucking motions, also just letting it sit for a while. However the most successful position was to hold it right in and bring the foreskin up over it:


This resulted in some serious noises. Sol later described it as:

“almost off the scale … that last one got well into the 9 points something out of 10″

Scott Adams’ (who created Dilbert) would probably agree. He had a rather fiendish encounter with jalapeños. I don’t usually quote vanilla blogs (as their authors may not like appearing on an adult content blog) but Scott’s description is just so good I hoped he wouldn’t mind my sharing it. This quote picks up after he’s ignored advice to use gloves and chopped jalapeños by hand:

“A few minutes passed, and I felt a tingle in my left hand – the one that directly handled the peppers. The tingle turned into a warm sensation, and the warmth turned into…well, this will take some explaining.

“Imagine turning a broom upside down, so the pointy bristles are facing up. You take your hand, palm facing down, and bounce it on the pointy bristles. Can you imagine how uncomfortable that feels on your hand? Okay, good.

“Now imagine that a giant troll sees you playing with the broom. He snatches it out of your hand, chews the handle into a point and shoves it so far up your ass that you can taste it. Then he uses you like a huge flyswatter to kill a nest of porcupines that are living in his salt mine. My hand hurt like that.

“It felt as if my hand was literally on fire. It was one of the most intense pains of my life”

Sol later said he felt the same. Here’s another online description, this time from boundecstasy:

“i think she covered my cock in [a muscle cream called "deep heat" ]. That was shear agony… it was like dipping my cock into acid, it was stinging and burning and it was like it was on fire. I was heavily bound so could barely move. The best relief here was when she masturbated me … brought me near orgasm. This allowed me to concentrate on the orgasm and the pain subsided. However once i climaxed, it was a race to undo the restraints and a dash to the bath so i could put cool water over it to cool things down … this made it burn worse!”
In fact we’d removed the chili and begun to undo sol’s restraints believing he might need a similar dash to the bathroom. However he ferverantly told us to leave him tied.

His concerns over the restraints had broken his headspace, and he tossed back and forwards, groaning through the gag loudly. I took him by the shoulders and called his name to focus him and directed him to be quiet. MzAntonina helped from the other side of the massage table, holding his head and reminding him to breathe … breathe … breathe. Soon he slipped back under again.

Our alarm had gone off some time before, and we were short of time, but there was nothing we could do but pack up quietly and let sol ride the waves of sensation. After about half an hour they were reduced enough that he was happy to have the restraints removed. We’d already removed the gag.

AFTERCARE:

Interestingly, after such intense play, sol required minimal aftercare. We left it long enough so that by the time he had a shower – about half an hour after play – his genitals were not too painful. And by the next day he only had a small bruise on the head of his cock to show for all his adventures:

As you can see his shaft is clear of marks. Last time we did this I posted:

“In terms of all the internal play, there was some redness / soreness at the tip of the urethra immediately after play but this quickly disappeared. Sol was a tad nervous peeing for the first time after this scene:
“it hurt like hell when I finally did … my body actually refused for a couple of minutes, anticipating the pain …. and there was burning for about two days after. Still a little sensitivity in the area …

“I feel more well used than pain …”

Which is a perfect way to feel at the end :)

I think sol felt the same this time. He said there was a little soreness around the urethra when peeing, but there was no redness or sore spots visible.

So, all round, a successful scene that had all three participants buzzing for days!

WHAT WE LEARNED
AND WANT TO SHARE WITH YOU

What we learned from this “test session”:

  • Chemical play is perhaps not the best scene for when you have time constraints!
  • Always wear gloves and have a few spare pairs on hand
  • Never forget that chemical play can be an extremely painful form of play … sol later said “it was the most severe play we’ve done” and I agree. I actually noted to MzAntonina during the scene that sol’s responses were the most extreme I’d seen. But on the other hand from his point of view he really enjoyed the scene and “never got to the point of wanting the scene to stop”.
  • Make sure your play partner is not allergic to anything you plan to use. Discuss this in pre-scene negotiations, and for any products they are not sure of, do “test patches” on less sensitive areas of skin
  • Different people react differently to the same concentration of something, so testing something on yourself isn’t necessarily going to tell you how it will feel for someone else. Have a “test” session before you actually play. Also, check out YouTube’s videos of men putting Bengay and similar products on their balls to get a general idea of severity og sensation / response times.
  • When you plan your scene, you need to take into account those sensation response times. Also, be careful how many substances you apply … sensation may just be starting to build when you decide it’s not working and dollop on something else *grin*.Here’s a “word of warning from someone with first hand experience”:
    “Irritants (like those I have been talking about) do not act/react immediately. A friend put capcaisin on herself. After a minute or so, she didn’t feel anything so she doubled the amount applied. A few minutes later (having still felt no effect) she redoubled the amount applied. And then she started feeling it, and she couldn’t find a way to neutralize it. She found out, to her chagrin, how much capcaisin is required to cause first and second degree burns to very tender body parts.”

  • I highly recommend your sub’s genitals are shaved before such a scene. It provides a much cleaner canvas to work on!
  • Inserting things into the urethra is a contentious topic. Some kinksters are completely against the idea, and have valid reasons. However if urethral play is something you and your sub want to explore, then keep this advice – which I totally agree with – by MissPlease in mind:

    “I’m of the belief that putting substances in your urethra could cause some damage. I like to err on the safe side especialy when it involves genitalia (even if I do ball busting). When it comes to the urethra or anything internal, I’m very careful. The inside of the urethra is very delicate and can be damaged easily. Inserting oils and ointments might cause some caustic burns. Even with sounds we are warned that whatever is inserted should be sterile and smooth. Sure, a certain amount of bdsm is experimental, but I do try to seek out experienced and educated/informed sources before trying stuff if possible”

  • We started with a fairly intense scene because sol is a severe masochist. What if you want to try chemical play at a milder sensation level? Why not start with toothpaste. I’ve read that it provides a “mild burning sensation when used anally, fairly popular and the most often used in regular scenes, when substances are used. Unless you think you’re very sensitive, I’d use full strength.” The brands Crest and Closeup are recommended. subfemmepet notes that:
    “toothpaste applied to the clit is yummy: :):it varies in its intensity..dies down, comes alive again, ….cleanest clit in town ! minty fresh:t :): similar effect on anus..if you lack a clit, lol”

  • Tiger Balm doesn’t work for sol, which means it may work for those seeking slightly milder sensations (although having said that everyone responds differently) and also seems a popular product to use of female subs as well as males. Druid found it “invigorating without being excruciating. Even when applied to the helmet and eye it is challenging but tolerable”
  • Fresh ginger is also a great mild to intermediate irritant. We’ve had fun with it – you can use ginger juice, make ginger dildos etc . If you’ve not explored figging in the past, have a read of this BDSM For Beginners post. There is also a Figging group on Fet :)
  • Needle play worked well as abrasive “foreplay” for our chemical play scene … the punctures in his skin after the needles were removed responded extremely well to the application of irritants. If you are into needle play we definitely recommend doing this first
  • Combining other types of abrasion play (stimulating the surface of the body with abrasive materials such as rough silk, coarse cloth, leather, sandpaper, brushes, fingernails …. even twigs, if you include birching) with chemical play has excellent results. Abrasion is more effective on an area of skin which has already been made tender so you could start with a spanking or nipple torture (I’ve been collecting handmade wooden kitchen / cleaning brushes for a while … they are excellent at abrading nipples) and move on abrasion play of various types, then finish up with chemical play.
  • You could also utilize other natural materials like botanicals (for one example, nettles)
  • Before inserting a little bit of something into the urethra with a q tip, you might like to take a moment to wipe any lube from the area (if you’ve been sounding) and then use a clean dry q tip to abrade the area a little. You’ll find the substance you then insert will “take” better
  • How about considering chemical play for LDR and web cam play? It makes an excellent training tool. Here’s Vince from Obedience Realized, who I quoted at the very beginning of this post:
    “I enjoy using it as a training device. I prefer to build a submissive’s pain tolerance before they meet me for play again. Right now, boy Jake is preparing to visit and about a month. Once a day, I order boy Jake to cover [his] perineum, the balls, and the shaft of[his] cock with the capsaicin. The intense pain and burning reminds him of what is coming soon and of his service to me. This chemical has a longer staying power and makes a definite impression. Once a submissive has been exposed to it, just mentioning it can change a behavior.

MORE ON NEUTRALIZERS

Here’s the basic thing to remember:

“Water soluble irritants respond to safewords; they wash off.

“Oil-based irritants do not respond to safewords; they do not wash off easily.”

It’s worth further researching other ways to neutralize the sensations, just in case the “waves” prove too severe for your sub.

Vanillas who use these products often find they feel too strong, and there are various places online where you can read their solutions. However you are going to find as I did that internet advice can be varied and contradictory. Scott Adams found this, too:

“With my good hand, I groped for the iPad and searched for home remedies. For every report of a treatment that worked, three people reported that it didn’t. I tried ice. I tried milk. I tried alcohol (internal and external). I tried sour cream. I tried ketchup. Each of those things worked for as long as it kept my hand cold, but as soon as my hand reached room temperature, the burn returned. And according to my fellow idiots on the Internet who had made the same mistake, the burn could last most of the night

“I made it through dinner with my hand submerged in a bowl of milk. By now, two hours had passed and the level of pain hadn’t subsided one iota.”

I do recommend reading the rest of his story, it’s a good one (and includes what happened when he needed a pee). Eventually:

“Steve’s wife, Sandy, was nice enough to get some Lanacane from their house. After I applied the Lanacane, the pain stopped. I can’t say for sure that the Lanacane was the reason the pain stopped…”

Certainly add Lanacane to the list of potential neutralizers, along with other anesthetics like Solarcaine, Xylocaine and Ambesol. These can be used after a scene to relieve pain, but some kinksters also use them before and during scenes.

I’m going to include some of the varied advice I found online below. I can’t at the point confirm these suggestions, but at least if some of the various solutions are listed in one spot in this blog post of mine, you know you have a reference point where you can head, if you hit trouble in your own play.

For muscle creams:

Ehow suggests:

  1. Blot off any excess Bengay with the facial tissue, toilet paper, or paper towels. Do not rub the affected area, because this could make the Bengay absorb even more into your skin.
  2. Saturate a cotton ball in olive oil.
  3. Blot the affected area with the saturated cotton ball. Repeat until the burning sensation lessens. Wash the affected area with soap and cool water to remove the olive oil. Use cool water because warm water will open your pores, allowing more Bengay to penetrate the skin.
  4. Pat the skin with the towel to dry. Do not rub the towel against the skin.
Ehow UK offers a different version:

  1. Avoid water when trying to remove Bengay and other analgesic products from skin. Bengay is not soluble, meaning water will only spread the ointment around, worsening the burning sensation.
  2. Pour equal parts of lemon juice and antibacterial soap into a spray bottle and mix thoroughly.
  3. Spray the lemon juice-soap mixture on the affected area and scrub thoroughly.
  4. Blot dry with a damp cloth.
  5. Wash the area to remove any lingering Bengay formula or soap.

A mother who had problems with her child wrote this:

WHAT TO DO: Remove any excess ointment with a kleenex. Do not rub it in. Douse a cotton ball in olive oil and use that to cleanse the affected area gently. Then wash it off with water. Pat the skin dry.

Kinksters who know their stuff, like Midori (in Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink p.107) suggest:

  1. only using the creams externally
  2. start with a small amount
  3. make sure you have witch hazel will cut oil based material
  4. wet towel to remove it
  5. aloe vera will sooth

Mistress Matisse recommends milk.

Still need help?! Here’s one kinkster’s emergency “Oh God help me!” routine:

“I’ve had some very intense sessions before, and I’ve ran screaming to the tub many times. When that happens, this is my emergency “Oh God help me!” routine:

“penis under bath tub tap with ice cold water flooding it. This will make it bearable instantly. Then, repeated washing and rinsing with dish soap. Then apply vegetable oil and wash and rinse more as needed. Then dunk little jiggling pink pee pee in cold milk…finish with some vegetable oil, collapse on the floor and catch your breath!!

“(And don’t even think about doing that again for at least a year!)”

WILL THERE BE A “NEXT TIME”?

Absolutely. While we pushed sol a long way with this chemical play scene, he was delighted to be pushed and later confirmed he:

“never got to the point of wanting the scene to stop”.

Which means we can keep on with our chemical play explorations :)

WHAT MIGHT BE TRY NEXT TIME?

There are so many things we want to explore, with chemical play. Here are a few that come to mind:

  • We had several products on the tray and in the kitchen that we didn’t try during this scene, so we have those to look forward to :)
  • Things others have tried / discussed that we might explore: eucalyptus oil, Vicks Vaporub (“Start with small dabs. The effect peaks quickly and fades in about 15 minutes. Very hard to remove”), radishes, wintergreen oil, menthol, any form of camphor etc
  • Cinnamon oil I now have, and want to try. Midori recommended it to me, for CBT for masochists. Mistress Matisse has written a good article on how to use it. I’ve also read that it’s best “used on nipples (full strength), it provides a mild burning sensation and a nice odor:). Used on the labia, it provides a burning sensation which at full strength is very intense. (My play partner dashed for the bathroom to wash it off, others have found it just bearable and very intense). I usually apply it with a q-tip. This is strong stuff most. Be very careful! I’d recommend a 20:1 dilution to start.” This story echos that caution: cinnamon oil burned off a layer of skin in a rather sensitive area because we didn’t wash it off quickly enough, that wasn’t much fun”
  • Clove oil is also recommended by hardcore players. I recently used it very effectively to help toothache. It’s going to take a while before I can stop associating it’s smell with non consensual tooth pain!
  • For American readers: Mistress Matisse recommends Listerine breath strips and Altoid mints for both boy bits and girls bits. She especially recommends using the red cinnamon ones, with flames on the box. In a podcast she describes using inserting them into the urethra of one man (who usually takes a lot of pain), who almost levitated. Another person suggests breath mints like Minty Fresh (“I get a breath mint and put it on the tip of my dick. When it is on there for at least two minutes I always get a one-minute orgasm and it feels great.”)

  • Capsaicin is definitely worth more research and exploration on it’s own. I’ve been growing several different types of chili here at home, and have found this website and another local one the Hippy Seeds Company where I can purchase even the hottest chili’s seeds. I highly recommend you check out their You Tube chili testing videos to see how hot some chilis can be, and how the body reacts to them.
  • I’d also like to explore more hot sauces. For example, I found two products called “Pleasure and pain” with whip wielding Dommes on their labels. One comes from the US:


  • The other is from Australia. They look like the kind of items it would be fun to show sol … just before I poured them down somewhere lethal!
  • I’d also like to try some of these products – and also Dencorub – on other body parts. Perhaps around sol’s anus. Fetish Info Exchange also suggests some interesting suppositories: “fresh ground spices can produce irritations that range from heat to intense itching. Using these with glycerine suppositories can be even more intense.” I thought I’d also spend some time reading more about Miss Nancy’s punishment suppositories.
  • We had sol bound and gagged lying down because that was the best position at Mz’s place. It also provided excellent access to his genitals when two dominants were working on him. However once we get more of a feel for how he responds to these various items I want to try incorporating chemical play into other forms of play.
  • Applied after a spanking or birching (my favorite form of abrasion play) for example. The wounds, pricks and abrasions left by the twigs would provide a perfect canvas to apply irritants. I could also use our untreated hemp rope to abrade the skin a little in private spots before the application of other things.
  • Even another favorite game of mine, sub hunting, would work – there’s a real potential for using certain products that result in a strong scent after ingestion.

I hope this post has been useful. A final word: be careful … and have fun!

REFERENCES AND ONLINE RESOURCES:

Scott Adams The Night I Learned To Follow Directions
Ms160′s BDSM For Beginners series – the fine art of figging

Brian on Tribe – BDSM Techniques “Oh God help me!”
Chili Seed Bank
Femdom Resources – post on Listerine cartoon by annmo night
Figging.com – Ginger, wasabi, peppermint, lemons
Food play
Mistress Ariachne’s BDSM Workshop – Chemical play scenes
Mistress Matisse – Pour Some Sugar On Me

Multics – My BDSM – Irritants
Multics – Irritants info folder
OTKgirl – Miss Nancy’s punishment suppositories
Raven Shadowbourne – Types of play 4: ointments, oils and jellies
Vince of Obedience Realized – Abrasion Play
Vince of Obedience Realized – Chemical Play
Wiki – List of capsicum cultivars
Wiki – Scoville scale

PODCASTS:
Mistresse Matisse – Altoids mints and Listerine Breath Strips podcast

FORUMS:
Collar6 – Chemical play thread
Fetish Information Exchange – Irritants thread
Fetish Information Exchange – Playing with fire thread
Get Dare – Q tip pain thread
Informed Consent – Figging
Kink.com – Extra Strength Bengay, Icy Hot, Tiger Balm etc thread
Literotica – Chemical play thread

Literotica – Post anal play thread
Milovana – Icy Hot? thread
My Masturbation – Menthol thread
Orgasm Denial – Icy Hot on female parts? thread
Professional Domination – Deep heat on male genitals thread
SMPlace – Icy Hot thread
Tribes – New to BDSM – Info on scents, oils and such
Tribes – Mediplay – urethral sound thread

FETLIFE:
Cock and ball torture
Figging
Spices, oils, roots and balms for sadism or sensual intensification
Stinging nettles and botany play

Interesting threads:

YOUTUBE:
Bengay on balls search results (enjoy!)

Hippy Seeds CompanyYou Tube chili testing videos

BOOKS:
Hardy Haberman Family Jewels

Midori Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink

WORKSHOPS
EdukinkSome like it hot

Thank you:
MzAntonina and MacTheKnife
for a glorious day

Scott Adams
for sharing his jalapino experience

Vince – Obedience Realized
for inspiring the title of this post

Photos:
Ms160

“Pleasure and pain” bottles
from Chili Seed Bank
and
Hot Sauce.com

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CBT + needle play with MzAntonina

Posted by Mistress160 on Saturday Jan 8, 2011 Under CBT

This post is about Edgeplay

Please don’t read it if you are not
interested in learning about:
urethral play, urethral sounds, needle play
and medical play



As part of our New Year celebrations we organized a scene with MzAntonina, a polyamorous lifestyle friend who lives in Sydney with her submissive MacTheKnife.

We’ve all known each other for a few years now, have attended quite a few events together (especially Black Sash nights), have learned new skills together (such as sharing our first electrical play / violet wand lesson / scene at Hardcore Heaven), tested out each other’s new toys (like S(A)X’s The Rod), have really got into the Femdom tea party thing together, have even shared the stage for a kinky workshop panel (with MsGawjusRedhead, for Uber’s How to Find a Dominant panel) and just really enjoy playing together *evil grin*.

MzAntonina is also an extremely talented jewelry maker. A couple of years ago, the weekend of Rake and Hawksbury’s collaring, MzAntonina and Hawksbury both gifted me bracelets. At the time I wrote in a post titled “Gifts of commitment and friendship“:

“Sitting on the plane I realized sol and I had just spent a perfect weekend surrounded by the most wonderful kinky friendship. I held my arm up and jingled my bracelets. They looked vanilla. Like Hawksbury’s collar. She will wear that collar everywhere, it’s powerful meaning – the memory of her vows – concealed to most. But tangibly there with her, to remind her of what matters most.


“I will wear my bracelets everywhere, their meaning – the gift of kinky community, of friendship – equally concealed. But equally there. Only I will know they contain the memory of that weekend. Those memories – those very special vows, the BDSM scenes at the party and later, the good food and wine, the laughter of friends – will warm me every time I wear these gifts of kinky friendship”

Fetlife Northern NSW group munch regulars will recall how devastated I was when MzAntonina’s bracelet (on the left of the photo above) broke at a munch a few months back, after a couple of years hard wear. MzAntonina very kindly restrung it for me before Xmas.

During that visit I happened to mention that sol and I had been receiving instruction in genital needle play. While MzAntonina had experience with needle play, she had not placed needles in the shaft or head of a cock. She suggested designing a matching necklace in return for my lending sol’s genitals for a CBT scene involving needle play.

This was a wonderful and unexpected gift idea, because to be honest, I would have been delighted to organize such a scene with sol and MzA at any time :)

We agreed that next time sol and I were in Sydney we would put aside an afternoon for this scene, and that we would bring our needle play gear down. When I also suggested we bring our sound and explore sounding – something else she’d been looking forward to trying – as well as other forms of urethral torture, MzAntonina was a very happy rabbit indeed.

So were sol and myself, anticipating this scene.

We joined MzAntonina and MacTheKnife for lunch last Sunday. The plan was then to play for an hour or so, and then head over for afternoon tea with other kinky friends at AugustusSeizeHer‘s House of Wafflé.

We negotiated the scene we had in mind. I suggested repeating the scene where alexpierce had taught me about cock needles – piercing different areas of the cock to see how each differed, so starting with a row of needles up the shaft, then piercing the foreskin a few times … and perhaps the head, if all was going well. Perhaps trying different gauges to see how they felt in the cock’s “butter like” skin.

BDSM Digest - Needles for play piercing

We could take things from there, perhaps moving on to some urethral torture if we had time … or perhaps picking up the scene again at AugustusSeizeHer’s if we ran out of time. MzAntonina agreed.

MzAntonina was already experienced with non genital needle play so we didn’t need to go through that side of things, other than to reassure each other we were both familiar with handling and inserting needles. You might like to have a look at this earlier post, if you are looking for more practical information on piercing.

Sol fixed one of our torch / headlights to MzAntonina’s forehead:


These head torches really make needle play easier: they provide a good light and leave your hands free. We then stripped sol down to his pretties (which MzAntonina greatly admired) and restrained him face up on MzAntonina’s massage bed. We planned to use the area between his legs for our needle play gear:


You can see S(A)X’s Urethral Sound there – we’ll talk about that more in a moment – along with latex gloves (I loved MzAntonina’s pink latex gloves, which had been sold to raise money for breast cancer) and the needle play plastic storage container we use when we travel:


We also assembled tissues, needles, swabs and a sharps disposer.

We swabbed down sol’s shaft and started our row of needles about half way along sol’s shaft, working towards the top. I recommend working in this direction because the shaft becomes more sensitive towards the top. This was something we first did with alexpierce and have done several other times since.

As this was also a bit of a workshop for MzAntonina I also thought we might try different gauges. We started with two 25 gauge and then two 23 gauge:


MzAntonina and I alternated inserting the needles. About eight needles in … and sol was completely gone:


We were very proud of our straight row of needles:


These included 21 gauge and 19 gauge.

MzAntonina quickly picked up on the play possibilities of the different sized gauges, as well as how to use even a single row to great effect. Here MzA runs a finger over the taut skin:



Then (after adding some more needles – two 25 gauge and then two 23 gauge):


We ran a quill and then a Wartenberg Wheel over this area (sorry I didn’t take photos, I was having too much fun) and then tried twisting individual needles:


And then twisting sol’s entire cock:


This proved very effective, in terms of sol’s responses:


We then focused our attention on the head of sol’s cock. I was a bit concerned about needle stick as we didn’t have any tiny corks or rubber stoppers (they are on order) but we thought we’d be okay if we were very careful. If you are new to needle play I’d suggest at this point taking out the needles in the shaft before proceeding to the head, as it will give you more maneuverability.

Now while alexpierce had shown me how to put a needle into the head of sol’s cock I’d not done this without supervision from someone more experienced before. Sol really wanted me too – and I knew he’d really enjoyed the sensations it created – and of course so did MzAntonina.

So I took my courage in both hands….

This was the result:


Sol reacted intensely. He said later:

“the sensation of the needles through the head is hard to describe …

“the whole end of the cock is loaded with nerve endings, it’s not like skin of the shaft where you just have a pin prick at entry and exit. The skin at both ends of the head needle seems to be loaded with nerve endings. It feels like you are pushing the needle through a thick layer of nerve endings and everything tingles as it goes through this thick layer of sensation…

“yes it hurts (like penetrating skin) but it also tingles and zaps almost like an eldctric shock … every needle also feels different, it’s like all the different nerve endings there create different intensities, a mm to each side would create a different effect…”

It was certainly intense for sol … as for me, I nearly came, just doing it! I punched one hand up in the air in a victory salute … yay!!! I’d done it!!! … and truly, I nearly came.

MzAntonina placed another needle in the head, and then I did one last one:


You can see MzAntonina is holding sol’s cock upright by his PA piercing, which kept her fingertips safe from needle stick. This gave us the idea that it was time to introduce MzAntonina to S(A)X’s really wonderful urethral sound:


You can read more about our sounding experiencing with this instrument here.

We decided to leave the needles in place in sol’s cock to keep up the intensity of the scene. MzAntonina held his cock upright by the PA piercing while I introduced lots of sterile lube to the sound and sol’s urethra. Ideally if you are planning to insert the sound the whole way you can use a syringe to get lube further down the urethra. However sol and I had never managed to insert the sound the whole way, so I’d not brought a syringe. It turned out we didn’t need it:


To begin, I gently ran the tip around sol’s urethra and into it, gently forcing more lube down his urethra. I then straightened the sound again, positioned the tip above the hole and then gently inserted the sound’s tip.

We’d received good advice the first time we played with sounds to just let the sound drop / move down under it’s weight. This always works well. With sol’s level of stimulation during this scene and the combination of lube and pre come, the sound dropped into his cock exquisitely…

Sol said later:

“it went in all the way …. I couldn’t feel it at the far end, like they say in the books it’s the first five or six cm of the urethra that has most sensation … but the feeling of fullness with the full diameter of the sound I almost felt like I was coming … the only other time you get that same sensation is when you are coming”

As I commented in my BDSM For Beginners post on Urethral Sounding, it’s difficult to get people to describe how sounding actually feels. It seems to be a very difficult sensation to describe. Sol ended up calling it “a unique sensation“. He said this in the earlier post:

it feels very sensitive … it’s a very delicate sensation … it isn’t intensely pleasurable … more subtle … some people say about power exchange, to me it does require a kind of surrender and letting go to do it … sort of in the same way you need a certain mindset to allow someone to lick your eye ball, you have to will yourself to allow it, even though it’s nice”

After a few moments I handed the sound to MzAntonina:


Sol reported a slight burning as the sound moved in and out, and a slight burning from friction and the feeling of fullness. Meanwhile MzAntonina was really enjoying her first sounding experience. Look at her evil grin:


She told us later she found it as intense as fisting.

Finally we moved to another form of urethral play sol had wanted to try for a while. With his cock well open and very sensitive from the sound play, it seemed the perfect time.

Sol has long been interested in the idea of urethral torture with stingy things – lemon juice, tabasco sauce, chili power, raw chilis, fresh ginger, Denca Rub for icy hot etc. Some of these items are intense enough on the outside, imagining them on the inside – perhaps introduced via cotton buds / q tips – made for good fantasies. Could we also make them work in a scene?

(if you are confused about cotton buds / q tips, have a read of this Wiki page, which has good illustrations)

We found a couple of online mentions of q tip play, which sounded intriguing:

“I also have experienced narrow qtips, soaked in rubbing alcohol … I avoid and miss the insertion of cathers,sounds,qtips in the uretha. Butt, female dommes drip small amts of alcohol, from an eyedropper, into the head of the penis and I scream in delight as the burning senstaion trickles down the uretha. Care should be taken with the qty of alcohol dripped into the uretha .I would not recommend other liquids because of the possiblity of infection or severe burning”
Unsu.. (don’t have full name) tribes medplay thread

“Tiger Balm (or BenGay/Icy Hot) on a q-tip, swirled just inside the opening of the urethra, probably will. The benefit of Tiger Balm over BenGay/etc is that Tiger Balm lasts longer”
CutieMouse forum literotica thread

“I recommend sticking to things that can be put in your mouth and not going further than about 3/4 of an inch with the q tip. Wasabi is pretty excruciating”
Domina tribes medplay thread

Wasabi??? Mmmmm…. this was confirmed by musty21 on a get dare q tip pain thread:

“make sure the end that goes in is wet with tabasco or icy hot or toothpaste”

On the same thread here’s vampyrepain:

“The main reason that [inserting a q tip] is painful is because the fibers of the q-tip scratch your mucus membranes. Urine is very basic which makes it irritate the scratches as well as kill bacteria as it passes over your scratched urethra. Using irritants such as tabasco or alcohol on the q-tip just further the irritation, but they also lubricate so there isn’t as much scratching. For a really aweful punishment that won’t be soon forgoten, dedicate a little time and first insert a dry q-tip to cause the scratches, the insert an alcohol or lemon juice soaked q-tip to cause inflammation, swelling, and irritation, then end with the tabasco soaked q-tip that will allow more of the burning sensation to penitrate into the scratched, inflammed, and sensatized tissues”

All this was inspiring, as was this practical advice by WoWaddict:

“to me personally Q-tips dont hurt much unless you play with them while theyre in. I insert them all the time with just spit for lube and in my experience the only time it will hurt for more than 3 pee’s or so is when you insert it pull it out – reinsert it a few times. So I recommend you all try it! Then next time lube it with toothpaste or icyhot Muahahahaha”

With all this excellent advice in mind I poured some isopropyl alcohol:


into a small bowl and added several tiny cotton wool buds (q tips):


Note these are a special type of baby cotton bud from Asia that is both smaller than the standard size and differently shaped to the “baby safety cotton buds” (see Johnson Baby cotton buds info and pix here) sold in Western countries.

As one of us held sol’s cock up by his PA piercing, the other inserted a wet cotton bud down sol’s urethra. We ran it around the tip to judge sol’s reactions and then inserted them further down the urethra. Circular motions proved extremely effective. I’m afraid by now I was having way too much fun to take any photos, sorry.

Sol roared so loud I had to whip off my (extremely wet) panties and stuff them in his mouth. Sol said later:

“it hurt like fuck :) :) :) :).

“It was bright loud burny stingy pain. I’m not surprised I made a lot of noise. But one of the best things was the reaction from Mistress and MzAntonina: “gee that really seemed to hurt, let’s do it again!”

“I’m definitely looking forward to doing it again plus with other substances”

What a wonderful way to end a scene!

Afterwards it was time to take the needles out:


There was some blood from the needles in the head but not the shaft, something alexpiece had already warned me to expect. Sol wrote:

“pain goes away quickly once the needles are out, but there is still some sensation from the ones in the head … these throbbed and zapped for several days after … in fact they are still zapping as I write this, very mildly, just twitches …. feels on, if you know what I mean…

“it would have become unbearable if mistress had not let me come several times … at the end of scene:


and then later again that evening and then again the next evening. Mistress also was very turned on and came very quickly when she asked me to service her””

Every time I wear this lovely necklace I’ll remember how much fun we all had:

AFTERCARE

For those interested in trying such a scene, I want to cover the aftercare. Here’s sol’s cock after we finished:


We rubbed Savlon on the shaft to keep the skin from drying out (the Wartenberg Wheel had created a lot of tiny pin pricks, which dried the skin as well as bruising the skin over the needles) and stop any infection.

Sol ended up with three bruises on his cock head:


Sol said these bruises:

provided pleasant stimulation, they were not painful, I was just aware of the sensations. They would have become unbearable if mistress had not let me come several times … end of scene, later again that evening and the next evening”.

I know I quoted that before, but it needs to be re-quoted as part of aftercare. If you have your sub in chastity you definitely need to leave him out of any devices until the bruises fade.

In terms of all the internal play, there was some redness / soreness at the tip of the urethra immediately after play but this quickly disappeared. Sol was a tad nervous peeing for the first time after this scene:

“it hurt like hell when I finally did … my body actually refused for a couple of minutes, anticipating the pain …. and there was burning for about two days after. Still a little sensitivity in the area …

“I feel more well used than pain …”

Which is a perfect way to feel at the end :)

Thank you:
MzAntonina
for so many things :)

MzAntonina + MactheKnife
for feeding us twice the day of this scene!

Photos:
Ms160

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More Needle Play

Posted by Mystress Lady Evyl on Tuesday Oct 19, 2010 Under BDSM

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More play piercing with my great friend and general cell popping and now needle play pin cushion liquid raspberry. Not bad for my second time!



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