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Yesterday I had a session with N, a brand new AB boy who drove a whole hour one way just to come and see me. It ended up being a great session, but I have to admit I was really apprehensive leading up to it.

I get scores of applications from inexperienced ABs and DLs who have never seen a pro-domme before and don’t know how to set up a session or the proper etiquette to use around a sex worker. (Even though I’m a Mommy and not an escort or stripper, I suggest reading Paying for It, a book that deals with all the issues that seem like common sense in retrospect but can be a little tricky the first time around.) Most of them don’t go to session and I don’t even respond to a number of them either because they have unrealistic expectations and it’s clear that they’ll be disappointed or because they haven’t properly typed in their email address and I can’t. :p Some of the warning signs that may lead me not to respond to an application are asking if I do things I say I don’t in my limitations, asking excessive questions, wanting a really long session when the prospective client hasn’t seen anyone before, and only providing a vague idea of what they’d like to do in a session. This guy did all of those things. Still, I decided to book with him–after getting a deposit, of course. (I require one from anyone with no references and sometimes from those who do have references.) I don’t know why I decided to book with him. I’ve booked with a couple of ABs like this before and they both canceled last minute. Still, I’m glad I did now.

He showed up on time, wearing a pull up Depend diaper under his clothes, which he had wet a little bit. I took him into the negotiation room to explain the rules and ask if there was anything he especially wanted to try that day or if he had any questions, like I do with all new clients. When that was out of the way, I had him take off his jacket and shoes so that we could get started.

The first thing to do was to get him out of his wet pull up–which was really just damp–and told him that if he was going to wet his diapers like a baby, I was going to diaper him like a baby. He could still wear grown-up diapers like Depends when he had to diaper himself, but around me, he was going to wear baby diapers. He went into AB mode right away. Sometimes I have to coax a new playmate into letting go, but he just dove right in! I took him over to the bed where I like to change people, since it’s bigger and lower than the medical table, laid out the changing pad, and got out two thick Molicare diapers. I cut the first one to allow it to overflow into the second diaper. I wanted him to wet like a big boy, even if he was going to look like a baby. And to make sure he did look like a baby, I put some cute, Winnie the Pooh tapes on the front of his top diaper. It looked very sweet.

The rest of the day was pretty fun, too. He had a bath and a massage with baby lotion, story time, nap time, a snack of chocolate pudding, colored a picture, and got to play with the toys. Like most AB boys, he proved a little violent, smashing the stuffed animals together and forcing a giraffe to kiss a bear, then claiming that they liked it. :p He also wanted to try out some cloth diapers, which I put him into with my locking plastic pants. Since he’s new and didn’t really know about everything yet, I took the time while he was playing with his toys to fold and organize the plastic pants, explaining each pair to him and telling him what I did and didn’t like about all the different options. Towards the end of the day he made a creamy diaper, which I made him wear while we ran to the cafe down the street for some coffee, then it was back to the space for a quick change into one of his Depend diapers, and it was time to go.

I usually don’t like to do really long sessions with new clients because I’m not sure how we’ll click and if they don’t give me a lot to go on, I’m kind of flying blind. I mean, I don’t want to do something that will ruin the whole session for them, you know? But I think this one time it went pretty well. He sent a little thank you note once he got home and we may do another session some time, which would be just fine by me!