Steel Urethral Dilator with Lock

Posted by Mistress160 on Wednesday Jan 11, 2012 Under CBT

We visited Steve Sax's leather workshop and store in Byron Bay yesterday and came away with an interesting item to try. Steve had received it as a sample and wanted to know whether the design was functional and the item worth adding to his already enormous stock.

It's a stainless steel urethral dilator with a locking mechanism. Yum. I'm sure you can see why we were interested to give it a go. It's constructed of two pieces:


Here they are together:


We'd only been home minutes before we wanted to try this out lol.  We washed the device thoroughly and got out the lube, then sol slipped the ringed piece of the device over his cock and balls:

 

 Lots of lube was placed on the rod going into sol:

 

And well as down and on sol's urethra.  While I'm comfortable inserting sounds into sol this was a new item and sol was upright, so I directed him to push the rod down his urethra himself. Sol enjoys sounding very much so he was looking forward to trying this:


He used the rod to push lube further down his urethra and then reinserted it:


Finally it was all in:


I then locked the device with one of Sax's locks, that we use on sol's chastity devices:


 The whole thing looked amazing:


 And very hot!



Sol found it a real turn on, too. He was able to stand up and walk around, as long as he was careful. 

To see how it worked with erections I had sol go down on me for a while, as this always gets him hard. He WAS able to get erect.

It was 4.45pm. I said "let's leave it in until 6pm and I'll check on you every half an hour. Let me (Want to read more...)
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Stapling sol a new orifice…

Posted by Mistress160 on Wednesday Aug 10, 2011 Under Caning, CBT
MzAntonina fucking sol's new
orifice, created via stapling

this is an edgeplay post

please don't read
if you are not interested in:
medical play
blood play
stapler play


A few months back now sol and I attended a workshop presented by Bella447 and her lovely boyPaulus on using medical staples in BDSM play. I later blogged:
"Medical play is popular in the scene and covers everything from Dr / nurse role play and examinations to needle play, catheters, enemas, saline infusions, sounding, as well as various body modifications (piercings, brandings etc). A lot of these are edgeplay techniques that need to be properly taught. Which is why we were planning to spend the weekend attending Bella447's workshops"
I wrote this about the topic and the workshop:
" I knew that in the US one can attend "Electronic Stapling Sensation Play Workshops" (such as those run by Markher and the pennygurl) and had also read about Teppycat's experience of being stapled from an electric stapler:
"There was also a demo of using a staple gun during play — not a medical stapler, not an office-supply type stapler; an electric goddamn staple gun from Home Depot. The presenters were a couple — top and bottom — who actually made getting stapled in the ass look fun. (Well, maybe not the ass.) They explained in detail all the safety stuff first — how to make sure that the staples and gun are exceedingly clean — clean enough to puncture human skin without running the risk of infection. And then they just started stapling..."
Bella447 was not using "an electric goddamn staple gun from Home Depot" but a medical / surgical stapler:
"Surgical staplers are devices which bend a usually stainless steel "staple" across an incision as an alternative (Want to read more...)
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Vibrating Sound – first play

Posted by Mistress160 on Wednesday Jun 29, 2011 Under Uncategorized


Regular readers will know we are urethral play addicts, and have been lusting after a vibrating sound for a while. On my birthday we visited S(A)X in Byron Bay and checked out the ones S(A)X stock:

They looked great and I loved their red and black cases. S(A)X's website says:

"The Vibrating Urethral Sound can be used to pinpoint stimulate other areas such as the nipples and earlobes. You can even insert this device into any orifice you want and then turn it on. The Vibrating Urethral Sound should be used with care, it has been known to cause extreme fatigue from extreme orgasmic reactions."
*grin*.

While we were looking at them Steve Sax showed us another vibrating sound, a similar one that he'd been sent by another manufacturer. Would we give this sample a try? Would we ever. Thank you Steve :)

We couldn't wait to try it. Once home, we assembled a tray with a clean towel, tissues, lube and the sound:


I washed my hands with antibacterial gel, did the same with the sound (as it doesn't reach the bladder we needed hygienic but not sterile play conditions) and then we retired to bed. I sat cross legged, next to sol. I moved his PA ring back:


Then lubed up the sound:


Then lubed up sol's urethra:


Here I am wiping lube away from the bottom of his cock, so it would not be too slippery to hold up!:


I slowly and gently dropped the sound into sol:


Further:


And further, until it was almost all in:


Still not turning the device on, I fucked him gently for about 20 seconds, and then I turned it on. sol found the sensation not exactly pleasurable but intense. Obviously this toy was going to have a lot of (Want to read more...)
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Chemical play (the gift that keeps on giving)

Posted by Mistress160 on Sunday Mar 13, 2011 Under Blood Play, CBT

This post is about Edgeplay


Please don't read it if you are not
interested in learning about:
urethral play
urethral sounds
needle play

blood play
medical play



For some time now we've wanted to further explore urethral torture / CBT sensation play via chemical play. It has long been a fantasy of sol's and mine. I always liked it's potential, and was recently re-inspired by this great description on a Tribes thread on BDSM techniques:
"I love things that slowly heat and add to the intense buildup of heat via pain!"
Oh, yes....

Chemical play according to Wiki is "the use of balms and ointments such as Bengay, Icy Hot, Biofreeze, etc" (here in Australia we use Dencorub) to create sensations on a submissive's body during a BDSM scene. But it's more than that. This kind of sensation play can utilize a wide range of intense preparations / mild irritants, everything from menthol to toothpaste to wintergreen oil. We are also interested in using spices like cinnamon, eucalyptus, peppermint, chili peppers and ginger - spice play :). You can use these materials fresh or you can use condiments (including essential oils) made from them.

Because this type of play interacts with other sorts of play - and because chemical play often gets called different things - we are going to be touching on other topics such as Food Play, Spice play, Irritant play, Abrasion play, etc.

There's not much written about chemical play. There's not even a chemical play group on Fetlife! (actually there is: Spices, oils, roots and balms for sadism or sensual intensification. Took a bit to find, of course they couldn't just call it "chemical play"! It's well worth joining). I'll keep researching and trying to find material but so far (Want to read more...)
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Chemical play (the gift that keeps on giving)

Posted by Mistress160 on Sunday Mar 13, 2011 Under Blood Play, CBT
This post is about EdgeplayPlease don't read it if you are notinterested in learning about:urethral playurethral soundsneedle playblood playmedical play
For some time now we've wanted to further explore urethral torture / CBT sensation play via chemical play. It has long been a fantasy of sol's and mine. I always liked it's potential, and was recently re-inspired by this great description on a Tribes thread on BDSM techniques:
"I love things that slowly heat and add to the intense buildup of heat via pain!"
Oh, yes....
Chemical play according to Wiki is "the use of balms and ointments such as Bengay, Icy Hot, Biofreeze, etc" (here in Australia we use Dencorub) to create sensations on a submissive's body during a BDSM scene. But it's more than that. This kind of sensation play can utilize a wide range of intense preparations / mild irritants, everything from menthol to toothpaste to wintergreen oil. We are also interested in using spices like cinnamon, eucalyptus, peppermint, chili peppers and ginger - spice play :). You can use these materials fresh or you can use condiments (including essential oils) made from them.Because this type of play interacts with other sorts of play - and because chemical play often gets called different things - we are going to be touching on other topics such as Food Play, Spice play, Irritant play, Abrasion play, etc.There's not much written about chemical play. There's not even a chemical play group on Fetlife! (actually there is: Spices, oils, roots and balms for sadism or sensual intensification. Took a bit to find, of course they couldn't just call it "chemical play"! It's well worth joining). I'll keep researching and trying to find material but so far there's just one organization doing (Want to read more...)
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CBT + needle play with MzAntonina

Posted by Mistress160 on Saturday Jan 8, 2011 Under CBT

This post is about Edgeplay

Please don't read it if you are not
interested in learning about:
urethral play, urethral sounds, needle play
and medical play


As part of our New Year celebrations we organized a scene with MzAntonina, a polyamorous lifestyle friend who lives in Sydney with her submissive MacTheKnife.

We've all known each other for a few years now, have attended quite a few events together (especially Black Sash nights), have learned new skills together (such as sharing our first electrical play / violet wand lesson / scene at Hardcore Heaven), tested out each other's new toys (like S(A)X's The Rod), have really got into the Femdom tea party thing together, have even shared the stage for a kinky workshop panel (with MsGawjusRedhead, for Uber's How to Find a Dominant panel) and just really enjoy playing together *evil grin*.

MzAntonina is also an extremely talented jewelry maker. A couple of years ago, the weekend of Rake and Hawksbury's collaring, MzAntonina and Hawksbury both gifted me bracelets. At the time I wrote in a post titled "Gifts of commitment and friendship":
"Sitting on the plane I realized sol and I had just spent a perfect weekend surrounded by the most wonderful kinky friendship. I held my arm up and jingled my bracelets. They looked vanilla. Like Hawksbury's collar. She will wear that collar everywhere, it's powerful meaning - the memory of her vows - concealed to most. But tangibly there with her, to remind her of what matters most.


"I will wear my bracelets everywhere, their meaning - the gift of kinky community, of friendship - equally concealed. But equally there. Only I will know they contain the memory of that weekend. Those memories - those very special vows, the BDSM scenes (Want to read more...)
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BDSM for Beginners – Urethral Sounding

Posted by Mistress160 on Sunday Jul 25, 2010 Under Uncategorized
Ms160 using S(A)X's sound on sol


Last year at Kinkfest, sol and I attended an excellent workshop on urethral play. Ever since then we've been wanting to experiment with this form of play, especially with sounds. A recent visit to S(A)X provide the perfect implement: a "hand made Stainless Steel Urethral Sound, made in the Sax metal workshop, only the best medical toy you have used!".

It looks like this:

sax-sound


Because I've not written about urethral play and sounding before I've turned this post into part of my BDSM For Beginners series ... you can also read it over on my BDSM For Beginners blog, where it's part of the Edgeplay series, that explores more advanced forms of play. This post will address the following questions raised by readers:

  • What's urethral play?
  • Are sounds and dilators the same?
  • What are the risks?
  • Why do people do it?
  • Can women do it?
  • What's the best way to learn how to do this?
  • When it's time to try...
  • Ms160 and sol's first session
  • Where can buy sounds?
  • References and Online Resources

Some quick housekeeping re my BDSM For Beginners series:

  • These posts are usually very long (they are often based on my notes for two hour seminars). They require a pee break in the middle, unless you are a severe masochist, and at least one coffee break. You think I'm joking, don't you ... ha! Okay, cross your legs then ...
  • BDSM For Beginners' posts are not so much about my own experience as collating the experiences of other kinksters and checking out some good links for you, to further explore subjects that interest you. If you've experienced sounding and would like your experiences and any advice you'd like to share added to this post, drop me a line either (Want to read more...)
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